so i need someone to talk to
2007-03-04 12:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by deishalicious123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow your BF was gay... man, you must have done something wrong!!! lol
2007-03-04 12:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did your bf come out and tell you that he was going to leave you for a man, or did you catch them together? Did you discuss with him as to whether or not he had cheated on you, and if so, was he having protected sex? Did he come out to only you, or to his friends and family as well?
How long ago did this happen? How are you taking it? I am sure you are devastated. Have you told anyone close to you so that they can help you get through this time? No matter what, keep your head up, and you will get through this. Just take some time to meditate, focus on yourself and what lessons you have learned from this relationship and move on from it.....you don't want to have any trust issues in the future because of what your bf did. Don't rush into any new relationships....get to know the guy well and come out and ask him if he's gay, bi or has "tendencies"......that "down low" behavior is too prevalent.....that's what made me almost afraid to break up with my ex-boyfriend, I was too scared I would run into one of those types. You'll be alright girl....cry, scream, yell, get mad and then move on......he's a jerk and what goes around comes around! I hope his bf leaves him for someone else too!
2007-03-04 12:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by True Hija De Oshun! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so many closet gays who finally come out of the closet, it must be pretty hard. I wonder how long they have been sneaking around together?
Just keep your chin up and the real truth is, your ex was abused as a boy as in sexually abused. Most gay guys have been.
I lived with a guy too that was gay and kept on sneaking around with men/women. So I ended up making a new start and leaving
my old life.
Take yoga that will really give you some power, pray and keep busy. Take deep breaths that will balance your emotional well being about three times a day. Singing too will give you some balance, emotional balance. Don't isolate yourself.
2007-03-04 12:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chock this up. This is a learning experience. Be happy that you didn't marry this man! Next time take heed to the warning signs. I'm sure they were there. We as women at times ignore the warning signs thinking that it is not that big of a deal. Wait a while before you get into another relationship and set your standards HIGH.
2007-03-04 12:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Blackpearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who married a gay man only to be left. It must be very painful. My understanding is there are support groups for those issues. See if you could hook up with one of them.
2007-03-04 12:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have heard all kinds of answers.The main concern is was he seeing guys while you were together????If so he may have exposed you 2 all kinds of problems so you may want 2 get checked,now an in 6 months.Just my thought. Good luck
2007-03-04 15:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try to make Friends or try to talk to your Friend and tell how you feel about her and her boyfriend. you should go to her and say " you know we have been friend for a long time and i think that you have been acting different and then you left you best friend for a man. or just don't talk to them at all and like i said make new friends.
2007-03-04 12:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a big what??!for you..anyways,is your bf a gay.?..if that's the case.you don't deserve him.you go find somebody else..moved on...
2007-03-04 12:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably turned him gay. Every tried to stick a dildo up his booty??
2007-03-04 13:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by its_whatever11 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋