ok, this is the deal. i have a girlfriend. i love her with all of my heart, and i know she loves me. but i worry that someday i will lose her, i mean were only 16. teens are not really known for sticking together through life. (even though im not a "average" teen). i intend to stick with her, through life. but i just worry that sometime there will be just a bad day, and its over. should i be worryied like that?
2007-03-04 14:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No matter what age you are everyone feels that way about their relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we a thoroughly devoted to each other and plan on spending our lives together, but that thought has crossed my mind a few times and it is scary to think of. If you truly love each other you will find a way to keep the relationship working. Love always finds a way. Even if you do break up for some reason or another, if you were true loves then you would find a way to be together again.
Best of luck.
2007-03-04 16:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately bad days happen, things won't always be great, a relationship takes work and commitment. As long as she and you are in love, nothing should be able to come between you. Love= To willing partner's+Commitment to each other through the good times and the bad. On that note, take it one day at a time, and enjoy the love you feel between you.
2007-03-04 15:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.... lady is right, u shouldn't worry because that will only make ur present more difficult... some people don't stay together.. but some people go on to marry there high school sweethearts.... and some break up and find each other again later in life... u really can't predict the future... just live in the now, be happy that u have her and treat her well.... no jealousy, no dishonesty, no smothering...
2007-03-04 15:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by shiningstar1313 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...why are you not an average teen? you worry too much and think too much ahead. remember, life is impermanent and you can only control the part you can. it's more important to learn to accept the fact, accept what life gives you and learn to be happy with what you have and live at present moment! enjoy your teen years...after all, you only going through this once and it's an important time to learn, to experience, to build up your personality. good luck with having a smooth life!
2007-03-04 15:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 16. In the history of the world no 16 year old thought he or she was an average teen. I have been there and now I am older and wiser. Anyone who thinks himself wise fools himself.
2007-03-04 15:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by BDSmith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont worry like that. you cant control the future, and you are only going to ruin the present by worrying about that stuff. Just be thankful you have someone u love whose there for you every day and enjoy it to the fullest.
2007-03-04 15:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by lady26 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay in the moment. Enjoy the pure sweetness of young love.
2007-03-04 15:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about this until it happens.
Cos who knows you may never really have to think about it!!
Every couple is different and you two may last the distance
2007-03-04 15:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its normal to get that feeling.. it just means that you are afraid of what to future holds because there's no way to be certain.
you just have to push those thoughts aside and focus on the present.
best of luck.
2007-03-04 15:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋