Other - Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

I was in a live-in relationship with my ex for 3 years, until about 2 months ago. While in the relationship, i helped him with a huge amount of money that he owed his parents. He cant be mine forever, coz he is of the same gender as I, and he is dating a girl now. About 10 days back, he turned up wanting to spend time with me. We spoke, he cried and did everything we used to do together during our relationship, except have sex. Next morning, I happened to read a message on his phone, which was dated 3 months before we broke off - from a girl, whom he is dating now, saying she loved the way he made love to her. I let it pass, coz we were no longer in a relationship but did tell him i knew he was cheating on me but he lied to me saying he hadnt. I have asked him for the money, which he says he will return by end of the month..He still wants to be friends. But I still love him despite everything. Trying to move on, but doesnt seem to work - he is on my mind all the time. What do I do?

2007-01-12 06:02:25 · 11 answers · asked by Fast C 1

2007-01-12 06:00:57 · 2 answers · asked by nowickinow1@verizon.net 1

I am so in love with my husband after 10 years of marriage - am I just dead lucky or is that the way you feel

2007-01-12 05:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by boo 5

Go clubbing alone?...do you think its sad?

2007-01-12 05:55:21 · 12 answers · asked by frankie 2

I need practical and proven methods

2007-01-12 05:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know what i should get him he got me somthing very nice and i loved it. What should i get him??? Money is not a problem and he plays football so hes into sports and he plays the gutair so he's into music thank you!!!

2007-01-12 05:53:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very antisocial and can't even talk to my neighbors or hang out with friends outside of work. Im not depressed or anything, I just like being home and don't really know how to or have a drive to be social. But of course there are those occassions. I have a 7yr old daughter and I don't want her to be like me. Because I can be precieved (sp?) as unfriendly. So how do I change?

2007-01-12 05:44:31 · 9 answers · asked by lexmaar 1

my friend currently lives with her boyfriend they are renting an apartment its $2000 dollars per month ( about $330.00US ) but she moved in with him with the agreement that he would pay the rent cus she works for $2500.00 they have been there for about two months and he hasnt got a job as yet and all the strain is on her ( they also have a 2yr old who he refuses to look after so she has to pay a sitter also) so she asked me what i think she should do cus she wants to put him out and at the same time she says she loves him a lot any suggestions on what i should tell her?

2007-01-12 05:39:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the difference?

2007-01-12 05:37:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I am 14 and have a boyfriend but I have seen kids with them as young as 6! Are we just growing up too fast?!? What is your personal idea on how to prevent this from happening?

I understand if you think that 14 is too young to have a boyfriend but I am not using him for sex or anything. It's just the matter of the teens that DO and they only want them to have sex and be popular. I know that there are some like me that are looking for love. And again if you think that I am too young for love too then I understand

2007-01-12 05:36:26 · 5 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3

i am 23 have only 1 mate i am shy and quiet which isnt helping as i feel low in myself cause of it and cant seem to get out of my dark hole. My life evolves round going to work and going home and thats bout it. Every person i work with has 4 friends or more which makes me feel worse and are always on the razz. I feel i dont fit in work as weve had 2 new gals started and they get on better with peeps than me and all the guys fancy them which make me feel insecure. How can i make myself feel better inside

2007-01-12 05:36:10 · 16 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

Brilliant boy+Brilliant girl=Love,Brilliant boy+Foolish girl=Baby,Foolish boy+Brilliant girl=Pocket empty,Foolish boy+Foolish girl= ?

2007-01-12 05:35:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 05:34:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 05:29:09 · 7 answers · asked by rebel girl 1

My boyfriend and I have been going out since Dec of '05. When I met him, he was a "ladies man" and even though we were still together, would talk to girls all the time and flirt, get phone numbers,ect. My main problem is MySpace. All these girls want him, tell him he's so hot, they want to have sex with him, ect. I don't know why, but I'm a jelous person when it comes to him. He knows these girls like him and they exchange numbers and talk often. He tells them he has a girlfriend and all, and makes it seem like he doesnt flirt back or anything, but the fear is still there. what should i do?

2007-01-12 05:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 05:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by Can I Be Your Pet? 6

If you bite your nails also I would like to ask you could I some pictures of your finger nails bitten please could you Emile them to me at idluk2000@yahoo.co.uk

I need as may pictures of biting nails as I can get. Please can every one help with this if they have the habit of biting them thanks. I am not going to be putting the pictures all over the internet it’s going to be for a collage so you will be safe only a few people will see and they will not ever know who you are.

Please don’t be embarrassed the more you bite them the batter this is the only time your ever going to be told this the shorter you can bite them the better.

Many thanks for your help Peter.

2007-01-12 05:08:15 · 1 answers · asked by idluk2000 2

My Boyfriend is abusive to me he has ahistory of unemployment, he is controlling, he beats me physically & emotionally. he makes me feel bad about myself, he has forced sex on me, he as been charged with rape before but was found not guilty. He is so agressive yet he claims he loves me, he has days where he is just flat out mean & rude anything triggers him if I dont move fast enough he will bend my fingers. he never gotten me any gifts he has a lot of negative comments ( then he says he is just joking) about me...last night I got it really bad over nothing in my opinion, he overreacted as usual, noe he says we can go to counceling he wants to work it out. What type of counseling does he need? How can he change? he says he feels bad about beating me because it was not right. How can a person change how can I help him become a better person?

2007-01-12 05:06:02 · 4 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3

Would I still want to spend time with my bf if I was falling out of love with him?

Would I still want to have sex with him?

Would I want to go away to his friends place for a wknd getaway?

Would I still trust him

Thanks....I am just wondering cause I am having anxiety that is leading me to believe that I have fallen out of love with my bf

Thanks!

2007-01-12 05:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 04:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 04:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by sissyurban 1

My wife of four years decided two days ago to move out with our baby and into her babies fathers apartment. I have been with her since she was two months pregnant and have provided for both of them and have been there everyday. He only pays child support because he was forced to, but has recently gotten a job. I thought it was great that they were becoming friends, but he stole her from me while I though he was my friend (I even lent him money). She says that she is confused, that she doesnt know what she wants, but she wants to try with him. She told me that she wants to move up, what I think is that she wanted to move out of my mothers house where we were staying since my mom and her don't get along. The killer is that we were two months from having the money to move out. I have already made the mistakes of begging, crying, being upset. She says she wants to be my friend. It seems like she just wanted out of the house, and is using him and then will come back to me. What should I do?

2007-01-12 04:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met her whilst working away from home, and though we spent a lot of evenings, and the odd day out together, we did'nt have any sexual relationship. This was because I was, and still am married.I haven't been in contact with her for more than six months but still think of her every day. Am I going insane.

2007-01-12 04:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Glynn Bequickplease 1

2007-01-12 04:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by aamirtaj 3

i think i might have breast cancer....but i dont want to talk to my parents about it. my good friend got a book in release yesterday and i had to support the siblings. i got kicked out of my good friends house and now i have no where to go during the day time. me and my best friend are fighting alot because she has a bf. my other best friend is going crzy cause of two guys.i just found out that my boyfriend go tbeat for a year staright when he was young. im so stressed out.nothing is going right. i dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please tell me.

2007-01-12 04:39:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a matter of fact love is the best feeling humans have, as a human we believe in love and its necesscity.
each person has his own try, some of us have tried it only one time and others have tried it more than one and we all agree that the first try (fisrt love) is different than others may be because by which you discover the meaning of love and its existance.
eventually, when will you find the true love and it will always be the first love only?

2007-01-12 04:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by Mohieeldin El Banna 1

2007-01-12 04:30:28 · 16 answers · asked by summer 1

Last night my BF beat so horribly for about 1 hour then he stopped & had sex with me , I sat in the shower for an hour & couldnt say a word I just cried & try to wash it off, my face looks scary to me. I didnt say a word to him when he went to slep I started talking to myself & I wanted to leave he woke up & hit me on my knees with a bamboo stick & started chokingme & hitting me again. he feels justified he says I cheated (read my previous question) but I didn't. Last night I wish I would have ebause I wouldnt have felt so bad about what he did to me cause I would have been wrong, but I didnt cheat all I did was not tell him where I got the suit from because I knew he was going to get mad. Now he wants to see my emails & I dont want to show him cause I am scared anything might trigger him. He says he loves me...thats what he says I think I hate him. Now I am at work not leaving my cubicle I a embaressed dont want noone seeing my face, I dont want to go home tonight. I already know.

2007-01-12 04:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3

2007-01-12 04:21:01 · 12 answers · asked by tgal 1

2007-01-12 04:14:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous