I mean I am 14 and have a boyfriend but I have seen kids with them as young as 6! Are we just growing up too fast?!? What is your personal idea on how to prevent this from happening?
I understand if you think that 14 is too young to have a boyfriend but I am not using him for sex or anything. It's just the matter of the teens that DO and they only want them to have sex and be popular. I know that there are some like me that are looking for love. And again if you think that I am too young for love too then I understand
2007-01-12 05:36:26 · 5 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Parents are raising their children differently now.
If every girl was raised as I was then they would see that having a boyfriend is a not a priority. I mean sure I would like to have one. They can be fun at times. And it is nice to feel wanted. But it's not the first priority. I mean come on. Girls these days need to get a grip on themselves. And we wonder why there are so many teen girls getting knocked up. They're sluts and their parents didn't care enough to set rules down and raise them right. That goes for guys too.
2007-01-12 05:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm 14 to and having a boyfriend is not only part of being popular its also trying to find a friend some one u can trust and except u 4 who u are many of us is just tryin 2 have sex 2 fit in but we have to realize 2 will is 2 wait i mean do what u wanna just make sure he is there to have a true relationship and he's not there to get in your pants then split think about it
2007-01-12 06:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by drea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suspect the reason behind western culture's obsession with romance and sexuality, even at young ages, is the promise we are given as children. we're told that the ideal "normal" adult is married, and has 2.3 children.
we have this societal drive to be fulfilled by another person, to find our "soul-mate", to be completed by another human being. this is a false goal, which really doesn't do anything to solve the problems of emptiness, loneliness, or restlessness in a world that increasingly marginalizes the human element.
the truth is, nobody will fix you. nobody will make you perfect. these are things you have to do by yourself.
2007-01-12 05:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of it is society. there's a kind of glam in having a significant other that even gets trickled down to little kids.
No harm in it, i think. Worse comes to worse, children are getting firsthand experience early, which sets them up to be less awkward in their later life.
Have you noticed that? There are so many early teens nowadays that are completely comfortable around the other gender. It was unheard of in my generation, and there are still lots of guys and girls who are completely awkward and clueless going on their mid 20s.
2007-01-12 05:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hormones......My son is so girl crazy right now and I know its only going to get worse.......Ahhhhh remembering when I was boy crazy...........
2007-01-12 05:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋