Other - Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

Maybe I'm a social retard, but this guy is confusing me. Help me figure him out please? We've been seeing each other for the past two months has said he does not see a commitment or love with me in the future. But he says he likes me, likes being with me, and the physical chemistry between us is amazing. But the thing is he acts like he really has feelings for me. He treats me really well and tries hard to please me. When I'm at his house he doesn't want me to leave, wants me to sleep over and cuddle all night. He touches my face gently when we kiss. We do other stuff together besides just have sex, like watch movies and talk. He takes every opportunity to be with me, even breaking other plans with his friends. He drives 2 hours to come to my house. Could he be getting attached even though he he said does not want a commitment?

2007-01-10 13:14:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though nobody at home caused his, but a woman, who has dealt with everyone at home all day and is tired of it, isn't supposed to ever lose her temper or snap at the people who actually caused the bad day?

2007-01-10 13:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by imjustasteph 4

Okay well i like this guy (J) and he is so nice but lately he has been so werid on the phone and he doesnt talk at all in person and on the phone.
So i try and try to get stuff out of him so we can actually talk and he says he is only like this towards me. is that bad?
i get butterfilies when i see him and start to blush.
i dont know if i should still get these feelings becuz if he doesnt talk anymore i might start not liking him.
Any advice on what we should talk about? or what i should do?
Thanks =]]

2007-01-10 13:11:32 · 1 answers · asked by Chels 1

My dad owns a deli and he worked there for 8 years. He was on vacation a drowned in a pool. He just graduated collage after 5 and half years. He was the nicest person i knew. He was always in a happy, goofy moody. However, he had a black cloud over him all the time. He bought a motorcycle and totaled it in a week. He bought a season skiing pass and dislocated his shoulder the first time. I just dont know how to recover from this loss. I am only 14 and it has been really hard and my family is very upset. Any suggestions?

2007-01-10 13:09:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

do guys think that some women are out of their league so they won't ask her out if they like her? ( kind of like how women find some men out of their league. )

2007-01-10 13:05:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with the new Jems Bond, even my boy friend knows about it, everytime i see his pictures something goes to my nipples, can't help it, do you think i should stop dreaming?

2007-01-10 13:02:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted about the guy I think if avoiding me because he has not let me know if he has coming to my house this weekend or not, he says he is not sure if he has plans or not, and has to get his car checked, but he thinks he is free, etc. If he wasn't considering coming, he wouldn't have said he thinks he is free, right? He would have just said he has plans? Thanks for your help!

2007-01-10 13:01:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend of 10 years as often anymore. I will turn him down for sex and then after he leaves I will think about having sex with him or someone else and even sometimes masturbate...What's wrong with me?

2007-01-10 12:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 12:45:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm dating a guy, he emailed me last weekend and I emailed him back inviting him to come over to my house this weekend. I live about 2 hours away but he has come over before. Well he wrote back and said he's not sure if he has plans or not and that he has to get his car looked at, but he thinks he is free, etc. So I told him to just let me know and to come down if he can make it. That was Monday and he hasn't contacted me yet. It's Wednesday. Is this weird? Should he have let me know by now if he is coming or not? Should I give him more time?

2007-01-10 12:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 12:31:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has said that this friday we are gonna try and have sex 5 times in 6 hours to see if i am up to it....

There is no pressure its purely a fun thing, do you think i could do it??

Is it possible, That means once every 1 hour and 15 mins!!!

If it dont work, hey it will be fun trying!!!

Whats your opinion?? (s)

2007-01-10 12:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daugther's 4th birthday is in march the 31st . She loves Lazy Town Ive searched all the web and diddin't found anything. Please help!!

2007-01-10 12:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that I can give good advise but yet I dont take my own advise.

2007-01-10 12:06:09 · 4 answers · asked by bob 2

I think that lots of guys had girlfriends when they were like 10 or 12 even younger! even the girls. I really feel left out because i've NEVER had a gf (im a boy!) in ma life! I feel really bad how do i feel better? It's because i've been shy all my life i remember i was so shy that i hid under the table when i was in kindergarden! i think its cuz my dad is shy too maybe it rubbed off on me? i dont know.

2007-01-10 12:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by youngmec2008 3

What are they reloading...their guns??/

2007-01-10 12:00:51 · 2 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3

I have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and I am causing myself to believe that I have fallen out of love with my wonderful boyfriend.

But when I have a few drinks and feel on the more intoxicated side everything is fine and I dont even think about the anxiety....

Are these my true feelings cause I am intoxicated and letting go of the anxiety issues?

2007-01-10 11:18:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just curious?

2007-01-10 11:11:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 11:10:55 · 1 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

2007-01-10 10:49:38 · 3 answers · asked by Ryeroe 3

We were both so young when we met, and our relationship happened so fast. Fresh out of high school, we had a baby; and that's when life really started for us. Our relationship was great, I mean we were best friends; until our daughter came along.... We both felt the pressures of being young unmarried parents; financially, physically and mentally. On top of that I gained some weight and let myself go. Our relationship was on the rocks for about 3 months because I constantly caught him flirting/ trying to talk to someone else. I was so self conscious of myself and I became so frustrated with him because what ever we talked about; he constantly started hammering me about my weight. We finally broke up. He left me for someone else. I am hurt yeah, but, I am so motivated now to do my thang. I go to the gym 5 days a week workin it about two hours a day. I want to get this weight off by May. Do you think he'll be back, or is he just going to forget about me and move on?????

2007-01-10 10:46:31 · 2 answers · asked by Stefi13 2

Hi everyone! im a guy and my best friend is a girl, her name is Ashley. We've known each other for about 2 years now. We met at a workshop program in 12th grade and since then we became very bonded. She had her share of friends and i had my own, but no matter what, we would always do many things 2gether and have so much fun. as time went bywe became very bonded, we never felt anything for each other beyond friendship, she became like a sister to me in the longterm. Everybody used to tell me that there was a natural bond between her and i, many even used to think she was my girlfriend(which she never was by the way) because we would get along so well. We used to hang out a lot and do many things together, even when she used to have a boyfriend, nothing changed between us. And whenever she would have a problem, she would come ask me for advice. she was the type of friend with whom u can be without sayin a word sometimes and still feel very comfortable. We later on moved to college, and our friendship continued the same way even though we had met new people. We used to go out every friday and talk on the phone for hours almost everyday. we made our group of friends but still our friendship was the same. But around the end of the first semester, she bonded with a group of girls, which werent bad people at all. She started hangin out more with them, something i wasnt against because i know that a girl always likes to hang out with other girls and do things they cant do with male friends. I was ok with it, because she would balance her time spent with them and with me, and we would still talk on the phone everyday and do our things. She would sumtimes invite me to go out with her and her other friends still, so everything was kool, until the last day of the first semester, were we all went in a group to a club, i had a couple of drinks and later that night i was very rude to her(verbaly). we didnt talk to each other during the whole break, even tho i asked to forgive me through a phone talk. So i got myself a girlfriend during that break and made new friends. When we came back to our second semester, we started talkin again and she told me the next day that she needed some help buying her textbooks online. That day i went to her house and spent the whole day with her buyin her books and playing around, we had so much fun and laughed so much, to the point that our friendship was pressumably restored. Then the next night she called me to talk to me about some problems she was having with her boss at her job and i gave her all the advie i could. I thought our friendship had gone back to normal, but apparently i was wrong. The next day she barely talked to me at college, and then the next day she started actin kind of indifferent towards me, even yesterday, i was sittin in the computer lab and some other guys we both know were around me, she started actin very friendly with them(just the way she used to act with me in the past) and ignored me completely, she didnt say a word to me at all. And she doesnt seem mad at me, she just seems indifferent, like she is trying to push me apart. Also, today she sat in another area in one of our classes with her other friends even tho she used to sit around me all the time. Now im worried about my our friendship.. where did the bond we used to have go? today i hearcd her talkin to her frineds about a gettogether they are having this weekend, and they invited some other gys to it, she would normaly invite me, but she hasnt sad a word to me about it yet.. what is wrong between us?? i need some advice on this. what can i do to bring our friendship back?? i miss her, i miss talkin to her on the phone, i miss goin to the movies with her, i miss makin jokes along with her, i miss the old Ashley.. i miss that special frinedship we used to have, i dont feel anything romantic towards her and i never did, all i want is my friend back. Is there something i can do?? i have my friends and all, but i dont care for none of them as much as i care for her, she is a especial friend to me, but it seems she doesnt realize that. Please! i need some advice!! am i doin something wrong?? And its weird, because despite her attitude, she still has me as her top friend in myspace, i dont get it, whats wrong?? this is so confusing!! please heelp me! thank u very much in advance, hope i didnt bore with my essay... :'(

2007-01-10 10:45:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im really frustrated at my boyfriend right now...it seems that he doesnt have any sense to help out with the chores around the house. Its not like i ask him to do much...for example. I do the cooking, cleaning up afterwords, laundary, cleaning around the house...shopping for the groceries, and i only ask him once and a while to do small favors. I dont nag him because i know if i nag he wont do anything and he will just get mad. So, i usually just ask him once and sometimes he does it sometimes he dont. He treats me well, he is a great boyfriend otherwise but im just tired doing everything and then askinging him for a favor to help out a little bit and it doesnt get done. Not only is he doing this for me to help out..but for the cleanliness of the aparment. I dont mind doing things like this for him to take care of him...he takes care of me well otherwise...its just frustrating to do all the household duties and and clean up after him as well. How can i get my boyfriend ..cont..

2007-01-10 10:43:28 · 3 answers · asked by magickitty0621 3

I met my husband when my duaghter was 9 months old and he is the only person that she know as her father, for personal reasons he does not want to adopt her to give her his name but she is 17 years old know and wants to hypenate our names

2007-01-10 10:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by DEANANATOR 1

aperently he asked her out a year ago and she said no but she says she made a mistake and really likes him thats all she ever talks about and i want to give her some advice but i have none any ideas on what she can do because im tired of talking about him all the time!

2007-01-10 10:41:30 · 1 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3

Okay i'm not the most fragile person in the world lol but anyways a while back i got into a pretty messy situation with these guys because they were picking on a friend..and it kind of ruined my life..and since then my confidence has gone way down..and i don't just mean with girls i mean with school work and stuff like that...its not to say i havn't been asked out or anything its just that i can't find my confidence anymore and im starting to worry about it..help! x

2007-01-10 10:32:08 · 31 answers · asked by chris c 3

I mean, come on! It's not exactly sexy when your dogs watching, or when your cats washing it's bum in the corner is it!????

2007-01-10 10:31:46 · 20 answers · asked by Susie2 4

Haaa...((he's going to kill me for this one!!))

2007-01-10 10:28:06 · 30 answers · asked by Susie2 4

So I just broke up w/ my girlfriend a couple days ago. I started talking to this girl I just met for the past few days but I dont really know her. Whats an easy way to ask her to go grab a movie or something friday w/o looking like a jack@ss?

2007-01-10 10:23:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 10:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6