I think that lots of guys had girlfriends when they were like 10 or 12 even younger! even the girls. I really feel left out because i've NEVER had a gf (im a boy!) in ma life! I feel really bad how do i feel better? It's because i've been shy all my life i remember i was so shy that i hid under the table when i was in kindergarden! i think its cuz my dad is shy too maybe it rubbed off on me? i dont know.
2007-01-10 12:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by youngmec2008 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The good news is at some point your dad obviously met a woman!
2007-01-10 12:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by shannon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've nv had a gf before too. But I've good experience with girls and I am not a shy person at all. This is my advice:
Try doing new things to boost your self-confidence, make yourself look better, learn new tricks and obtain new skills. Talk to girls without the intention of making them your girlfriend. Just treat them nicely and get to know them better as friends first. Then from how they response to certain things(language, body gesture) etc, take note. After socializing for quite some time, you'll soon learn a lot of things and together with more confidence, a girl will definitely fall for you. Though this is already a brand new modern era, guys taking the initiative means lots of courage and not being afraid of rejections. Girls dig that. =)
Just don't be like an idiot and tell every girl you see you like/love them. ;)
Be polite, be a gentlemen, be chivalrous. Know what you want and try your best for it. If you're rejected, move on as soon as possible.
2007-01-10 12:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by travisdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a time for everything don't rush it. Just chill out a little. A girl will come to you eventually. Try to talk to a girl. Start by something simple like saying hi or somehting. Who knows you might have a girlfriend faster than u think! Good Luck.
2007-01-10 12:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Boricua♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? don't rush it. you will have time to have a gf. Listen you don't need to be a daddy at a young age and the shy thing will go away (if you try to reach out to others) when you get older. don't worry so much and enjoy being young with no attachments!
2007-01-10 12:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by PhoenixRising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday you'll find the one. Don't feel left out, i bet there are many people feeling like you. I had many crushes when I was 10-12, but true love doesnt come till the teenage years.
2007-01-10 12:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by urxthexonexxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time, don't be ashamed there lots of people that are shy. You'll come around!
Keep your chin up buddy! Theres hope for you. Your Daddy found your Momma didn't he?
2007-01-10 12:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suffer
2007-01-10 12:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry, your time will come.
i know youve heard this a thousand times before, but its soooo true.
trust me, all you need to do is have a positive attitude, and do nice things, and before you know, the girls will be wondering why YOU arent going out with them.
2007-01-10 12:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to feel left out, then ask a girl out, and if u are to shy to do it, ask one of your friends to do it for u...
2007-01-10 12:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by lexi(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋