Other - Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

okay my car broke down... I could get it fixed. Its paid for free and clear...but its getting older and I see this becoming a bad pattern of spending money to fix it. My buget is real tight. I cant afford a car payment at this time. or the higher insurance for a new car that is financed.

my grandparents are pretty well off. I have NEVER asked them for money before. I was thinking of asking them to loan me the money to get a good used car that would be more reliable than the one I have now. I know a couple years back they "gave" my brother $10, 000 when he was just "thinking" about buying a house so he would have a good down payment... he spent the money and did not buy the house...

so do I ask them for the money... if so then do I write out a repayment plan or just ask for a gift like they gave my brother... how do I do this with the best hopes of getting at least half what they gave my brother?

2006-08-02 15:12:45 · 7 answers · asked by concerned mom 2

2006-08-02 15:12:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so into someone and I don't know what I can do to get there attention. every time I am around her she smells so nice and I just light right up. What should I do next?

2006-08-02 15:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6

What if a guy always flirts with you, but then you find out that youre not the only one. Does that still mean he might like you?

2006-08-02 15:09:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was prom night, and i didn't even buy a tux. But i did wear some nice tennis shoes. She refused to take any more than one picture with me at prom, then wanted to leave early. My parole officer was there the whole night, making sure i didn't go anywhere out of his sight. Most people laughed at me and her, but i thought love could endure anything, but obviously she, (like all bitches) only wanted me for my money. When prom was over she was kind enough to give me a prom picture but i didn't order any. But at least i was kind enough to draw a picture of us both on college ruled paper and give it to her and said, "here this is my prom picture for you." but she continues not to talk to me. Just because im 400 pounds overweight and never shave or wash my clothes shouldn't mean anything, that is, "if the love is there." I just don't understand it, im trying to be myself all the time. God damn, this toilet seat is getting hot, gotta flush.

2006-08-02 15:07:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Talk to me. Share us your feelings. Please

2006-08-02 15:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by popstar452003 2

2006-08-02 14:59:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is moving to tennesee and i live in ny wat to do?

2006-08-02 14:58:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told him i wanted to wait for sex and he said okay! when we first met i had a boyfriend so he told me "have you ever wanted anything so bad you do anything to get it" referring to me and " i want all of you not just mentally or physically" saying he wants me to break up with my boyfriend!! so i broke up with my boyfriend i was going to anyways! so me and him hooked up and you know we were doing "stuff" and i told him i wanted to wait for sex and he said okay but don't expect me to say i love you! and i said well that's fine cause i wasn't! but two weeks into the relationship he said i love you ( do you think he is trying to get in my pants saying i love you he still hasn't) okay anyways so he always tells me stuff like "if you stick with me for a few more years we'll get married!" (when i turn 18) and that we are going to have 3 kids and for me not to hurt him cause his heart is a "softie" just cute stuff like that!
any opinions?
is he trying to get in my pants or is he serious

2006-08-02 14:57:01 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated a girl about 5 years ago and everything was absolutely amazing, she was ideal. Her personality was perfect and she was beautiful. Unfortunately I went to college and she was still in high school. While we were apart we would talk regularly and all was good, except that I wasn't open with her about my feelings. She said I love you, but I never told her I loved her (and was considering transfering) because I didn't want her to miss out on high school events because she had a boyfriend in college 6 hours away. I went home to visit her 6 weeks later and she acted really distant towards me. After I got back to school, when I tried to call her during a scheduled time, she wasn't home and never returned my subsequent phone calls. I look back on the situation, and frequently I regret not telling her my true feelings. I now compare every girl I date to her, and everyone falls short. Should I try to contact this old girlfriend and figure out what happened?

2006-08-02 14:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by Stee_Jans_ 1

I trust my sister and brother completely.

2006-08-02 14:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My first love is my current love. He is sweet, sensitive, funny, cute, polite, caring, fit, friendly, smart, and wonderful. How would you describe your first love?

2006-08-02 14:54:16 · 3 answers · asked by maysimay2006 3

how do i? no im not bulimic.. i just have a stomache ache cuz i think i ate sumthign bad

2006-08-02 14:54:04 · 3 answers · asked by Gaga <3 2

with him for 3 years his episodes are becoming worse and worse were he munipulates me, then he will get angry with me and try to hurt himself, or just pretend to what do you think?

2006-08-02 14:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by bluetygercat 1

he was my Grandad and i'm looking for any of his irish/english family he was married to Elsie and lived in East London u.k he has deceased now but i would still like to know his relatives or anyone that knew him or was in the army possibly with him all i know is he was in Aden ! his conrads may have passed on but there families may have heard there love ones talk about him !

2006-08-02 14:43:16 · 5 answers · asked by terrystoner1 1

Ok, so i've been with my guy for almost 9 yrs. been engaged for 4 yrs, i'm still in school, 2 hours away from him, we don't have our own place together (i have a place at school, and he helps with the family business so has the upstairs of his 'rents house to himself (where i used to stay on weekends). i got into to it with my future monster-in-law b/c i haven't been helping to keep her house clean (i go to school yr round, i am studying to be a dr., i don't want to go to a dr. that didn't study, so i do study, and i go home for 2 days a weekend), am i supposed to be the maid? she said some REALLY mean things to me that i will never forget, i've never had someone be so mean to me. she screamed, i said "i'm sorry you feel that way" (i know i added fuel to the fire!), but he didn't stand up for me when it comes down to it. i am ready to end this long, first love, relationship, 75% of the reason due to his mom, 20% b/c of his friend (long story), and 5% b/c of him... suggestions??

2006-08-02 14:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by c 2

how do you tell your boyfriend to stop asking for money without actually telling them?

2006-08-02 14:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by nasheila 1

i just dont think i have time in my life for a child. dont get me wrong i love kids i just think it would be wrong for me to have a child knowing that i would rather be doing something else with my time. i love to go out and hang out with my friends. most of my friends have children and i spoil them rotten. im already 25 years old. i dont want to be an old lady with a kid. my mom is young and we get along so well like friends and she is a good mom. i dont think my mom and my relationship have anything to do with it. and i just want to know what you think about this topic.

2006-08-02 14:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by shannon8869 2

My son married a girl that is a total control freak, she tells my son when he can bring our grandbaby to our house,how long they can stay, and refusses to let his family keep the baby at all. This has caused a lot of friction between our son and the his family. He SAYS he has tried talking to her about it, but can get nowhere with her.She will not come to our home at all anymore. My grandbaby is almost 7 months old, she will leave the baby with HER 15 year old brother but refuses to let any member of my sons family keep the baby. Like I said this has caused a lot of argueing , not to mention the heartache of not being able to spend quilty time with our only grandbaby.We have gone through this for months now and I myself am now sure how much more I can take of this, I have cried myself to sleep at night over this matter. Whats a grandmother to do. I feel as if I have done everyting but bend over backwards and kissed her *** over this problem!!

2006-08-02 14:38:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do in a situation where a guy your dating is a little bit older than you and a girl who is his age already has a baby, likes him and thinks that were nasty for going out because of the age difference. I met her yesterday and before i got a chance to say anything to her she had already jumped into talking about my boyfriend. i change the subject because its none of her business with me-n-him.Plus I'd rather talk to her in private. Today, i asked my boyfriends cousin(best friends) if he would ever leave me for her and he said hell naw. But he also said that before me, they were friends with benefits.(I think she was just good for sucking dic. she looks like it-but I'm not the one to judge). Its also crazy because her baby daddy died and she seems like the type to be devious and run to the cops but not only that, we have the same name!!!(only i spell mine with an E)

2006-08-02 14:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by Lyssa 1

And my fellow prisoners are already starting to call me a "old fat queen" is this a good start?

2006-08-02 14:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 2

How can I make my whole night passionate with my partner and make her completely satisfied?

PLEASE GIVE HEALTHY AND SOUND ADVICES! THANKS!

2006-08-02 14:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by wullubemyfriend 1

I know how I feel.......

Where do you draw the line?

Its the teeth for me!

2006-08-02 14:29:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 14:28:22 · 1 answers · asked by ooowhoalilmamaooo 2

2006-08-02 14:15:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so Ive been with my baby father for 4 yrs now (my daughter is 2) I have days that I just wanna tell him I dont love him any longer and wanna move out. I have more of those bad days then good. Though there are some days I love him dearly and wouldnt ask for any better. I know I shouldnt stay with him just because we share a child. We are 2 totally different people that like 2 totally different things. What should I do????

2006-08-02 14:09:27 · 9 answers · asked by lolli_pop69_2001 3

2006-08-02 14:05:06 · 71 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-08-02 13:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by yo 1

2006-08-02 13:49:28 · 9 answers · asked by annesweetyfl 2

I am 14 and I have a neighbor who walks around his house naked (very disturbing). He also has walked around naked when I am in the backyard 5 times overall. I told my mom this several times (about 15 times) but she says she can not do anything about it. She also says "it is his backyard he can do what he wants to do ". My mom is the greatest. But she takes no action. I told my mom this was a felony. But she does not want to sue anybody. I told her to call him or his parents (by the way he is in his 40's and still lives with his parents) but she does not want to. My question is what can I tell my parents to react to this situation. And is he really a flasher?

2006-08-02 13:48:58 · 2 answers · asked by holla at my angry 2