OK so Ive been with my baby father for 4 yrs now (my daughter is 2) I have days that I just wanna tell him I dont love him any longer and wanna move out. I have more of those bad days then good. Though there are some days I love him dearly and wouldnt ask for any better. I know I shouldnt stay with him just because we share a child. We are 2 totally different people that like 2 totally different things. What should I do????
2006-08-02 14:09:27 · 9 answers · asked by lolli_pop69_2001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think the best idea for you is to work out as soon as possible and split for the betterment of your children. The longer you take the deeper you fall into the trap and someday you won't even come out of it coz it would be too late for you. Let alone you couple but the impact is gonna be quite serious on your children if you both just continue your fragile relationship.If I were you I would just work it out and tell the husband up-front that it's not gonna work and go on my way for better futre for myself as well as my children. Delay has never helped anyone.Good Luck!
2006-08-02 14:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should be happy in life. However life has it's up's and downs. Relationships are not things you can throw away or turn on and off. They require an effort from both parties to keep it going.. Find out what you really want. Then communicate with your man.. Tell all about how you feel.. Time and how he reacts will give you your answer.. Take care and good luck...
2006-08-02 21:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what you really want and go do that, but, just because you are not over the moon happy in love everyday does not mean you should give up your family unit. Are you in love with the idea of love and what will you find else where that will make you happier.Look to yourself to make yourself happy to many people get left behind because people they think their partners are the bringers of happiness and when they are not happy they blame the partner when we need to find it ourselves if you get happier inside you may find it was not him at all, it was you being bored and looking for reasons to move on. Make sure it is not you before you brake up your family.....
2006-08-02 21:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are know longer in love with him, you need to move out. Its not doing you him or your daughter any good staying some where you are not happy.
2006-08-02 21:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by kittykat_x25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Baby father"..? What the hell does that mean? I guess it's better than "sperm donor".
Look you shouldn't stay with him because you have a kid. You should leave because you have a kid. Children of single parents, in loving environments grow up fine. Children of couples, in unloving environments grow up ****** up.
2006-08-03 00:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by No Drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave. if hes a real man he will respect your honesty and not act funny with the child. besides you need to get away so you can figure out what you really want.
2006-08-02 21:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either marry him or move out. But it sounds like you should move out. Don't marry him just for your child if you aren't married already. But you really shouldn't be living with him unless you are married.
2006-08-02 21:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by da chet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should sit and have a long talk. You'll never figure it out in your head...so talk to him. You'll feel much better afterwards.
2006-08-02 21:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either stay with him and work things out.Or move on with you're live and find someone you can be happy with.
2006-08-02 21:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋