Friends - January 2007

2007-01-17 06:01:31 · 5 answers · asked by santina i 1

I've got lot's of homework. And it's so hard and to top that it's in for tomorrow. The person in my class I know and who's number I know could help me but were not getting along that well and she's been so stubborn. I've been stuck in lessons recently and I ask her to help me but she just says ask miss. And I don't want a detention! What do I do?

2007-01-17 06:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well paid

2007-01-17 05:54:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should I do if this happends a lot and he is having a lot of trumble at home and i need a lot of help what could the Lord do ?

2007-01-17 05:51:42 · 2 answers · asked by betsywilcox_40371 2

I m loosing my best friend....i met with her over internet....I m dieing here.....I dont want to let her go...Pls help me to get her back...wat should i do ? She is the only one who really love and care for me....!!! God...Pls Help!!!

2007-01-17 05:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

who do i invite: amy,chloe,becky or bryony

2007-01-17 05:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by kissablelipsxx 2

We hang out 1x/month and then that's it. No phone calls, no emails. I try emailing her regularly and letting her know what's going on but she doesn't do the same. She's not really looking for a close friendship, right?

2007-01-17 05:41:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up wit my ex almost 9 mths ago..we would talk occasionally online but recently conversations increased and i helped him to study.now he wants me to meet him to help with an exam..i agreed..but now im not sure if it's ok or how i'd react seeing him after such a long time..plus i have a bf...should i tell him im meeting this guy or not?

2007-01-17 05:40:56 · 27 answers · asked by pixie 2

I want to search up a friend again. But the only information I know is first name, age , town. Even work, but not what it's named. Are there any good site or anything? Or if you visit the town where can you turn ? I need all help I can get, because I know she is missing me too and it would be fun to suprice! Thanx for answer :)

2007-01-17 05:36:11 · 1 answers · asked by x•°meadow°•-|- 1

for a friend

2007-01-17 05:23:33 · 12 answers · asked by ImaGman 5

How can I get this to change. Just because I am a nice guy. I'm easy.

2007-01-17 05:05:34 · 5 answers · asked by harold 4

I have this friend, and we were really close for the past two years. Now, she keeps on forgetting if we have arranged stuff to do together, and then she usually makes plans with others. She also waits to make plans with me at the last minute, and half the time I can not make it. It makes me feel like a second-class friend when she does it, because it shows that she doesn't care enough to think about my reaction. I tried telling this to her in a polite way, but she only became angry, really angry, with me about it, saying that she can't help it and that "it was just an accident". This "accident" keeps on happining over and over, though. Should I hold it in and wait for better days or talk to her about it again?

2007-01-17 05:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by monkygrl825 2

I have two best friends they have been my bff of three years, one of five years. All of the sudden they have ganged up on me and just have started to be totally rude to me. They call me and leave me rude messages... and go behind my back and talk about me... i dont wanna hang out with them anymore....but i cant just ditch them... what can i do?

2007-01-17 05:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by cali girl 2

A friend of mine recently admitted to me that when he was in middle school he would flirt with guys and girls. He said he wasnt sure of what he wanted but now that hes older he only likes girls.
I think hes still bi but doesnt want to admit it. He constantly brings up "fags" and "dikes" in conversation as if hes trying to hide who he really is. I used to think he was straight but he had some "tendencies" that would make me wonder. He makes me uncomfortable sometimes because hes always been really clingy and since he told me about his past I think I can see why. My question is: can a person truely outgrow being bi like he claims or is he just covering up who he really is?

2007-01-17 04:59:02 · 2 answers · asked by cheesewax 2

2007-01-17 04:47:19 · 6 answers · asked by Agnh 1

i'm trying to locate a friend i haven't seen in years.
his name is david wilde and last i heard, he lived in glenpool, okla. how can i find him without paying an arm and a leg?

i really need to talk with him. anybody have any ideas?

2007-01-17 04:46:17 · 2 answers · asked by sassi_cat2000 1

Staunton Island

Is it like state-en island or like it is wrote staunt-en island. My boyfriend is German and he thinks he knows everything. I´m tryin g to prove to him I´m right.

2007-01-17 04:41:54 · 21 answers · asked by Ali G. 2

My best friend committed suicide several years ago. he gave me some clothes of his -not long before that-that he claimed he didnt need anymore. I stopped wearing them after he killed himself because i felt kinda creepy wearing them. What would you do?

2007-01-17 04:39:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...I do not know if I should come right out and tell my friend of 10 years that I do not respect her.
But honestly it's hard for me to be around her anymore, because she is lazy and like to stir chaos.

I guess my biggest issue it that she is getting Social Security disabliity check, even though she hardly worked a day in her life. She got it because she is "Depressed" and well she sued to get the check because at first she was denined..
Yet she goes out with men the time she meets online all of the time, and she goes clubbing.
She is in my opinion taking money from people who really need it, because she does not want to work.

How can I hang hang around someone who I know longer respect?

2007-01-17 04:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 1

I have been trying real hard every day this year to look good, always wear makeup, and I am trying to look appealing. I try to be social and I hate being single. But no matter how hard I try I haven't had plans to do anything with my peers all year!!!! Now I don't even have a date for prom. I feel like I am trying extremely hard for absolutely nothing. So why even try.

2007-01-17 04:35:23 · 5 answers · asked by cna_angel06 2

Well , the juniors are throwing us a farewell party in a forthnight.. We know the end of our school life is coming , its highly depressing..I need to know how to cheer up my friends , who've been with me from day 1 of the school..some of them might even be crying at that time..Coz theres hardly anytime in the party and theres everyone else to cheer up ,so no time for give those boring lectures..So i thougt , doing something weird would help..like say acting as if your drunk or like you've been possessed by a chimpanzee..I guess that can help but if it doesnt work , i would end up embarassing myself.. and no , not a speech..

Theres too little time left to waste that time , i dont want to see my friends being sad or even crying , i wanna stop that from happening..give me ideas if you've got any.

2007-01-17 04:32:23 · 1 answers · asked by yash 1

He's in a long distance relationship that has been going for two years. He's 19, and she just turned 16 recently. It's the first relationship for both of them and I'm worried they're never going to realize there's way more people in the world, I think they're gonna end up getting married once she's 18. She's got a pretty annoying personality and she's pretty average looking. All my friends agree he shouldn't be seeing her. Now he's also trying to talk her into having sex with him. What should we do to help him?

2007-01-17 04:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

trying to convince a friend of mine she can survive away from her parents on her own.

2007-01-17 04:27:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend had an affair on me with another woman that works at a local mental hospital. How do I properly comfort her and the other woman about it? Should I still be friends with my girlfriend or just end it?

2007-01-17 04:25:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, ive been introvert for years , and am basically really evasive of discussing personal stuff with ppl my age. i dont mind sharing problems with older people, who i think are more mature and wiser than i am. also, i dont party very often. im 19 now and i feel i should be more extrovert. how do i go about it. i used to wear braces when i was 14- 15. and now i wear glasses. do u think that's made me a bit reserved in the presence of people? how should i go about changing my personality gradually? thanks for helping out..

2007-01-17 04:19:30 · 4 answers · asked by *bling* 2

My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend. I have known him for a while and I am so hurt and angry at him. What is the best thing to do in this situation and should I just end this relationship with him and my girlfriend?

2007-01-17 04:08:39 · 19 answers · asked by LarryGuy 1

What do you do when you regret? Whether is moving somewhere, doing something, or making certain life choices. What happens when regret kicks in afterwards and how do you cope with it and move on to better the situation you're regreting.

Seems so hard, especially when you're in it. I recently just moved back to my hometown with my husband and things are not going as planned, I regret it everyday of my life and wish I could go back because we were happier. I want to move on and look forward to things getting better, but it gets to me every da of my life.

2007-01-17 04:02:04 · 5 answers · asked by Cookie 1

2007-01-17 04:00:46 · 8 answers · asked by Whittney H 1

ive meet a guy on line an we been chatting online most days for bout 6 months or little more, we get on fantastically well,i really want to meet him but have never meet anyone off the net before, can it be real? we've chatted on phone as well an we seem to get on really well, i dunno wat should i do?

2007-01-17 03:54:51 · 9 answers · asked by ace 1

The Technique
Active listening is really an extension of the Golden Rule. To know how to listen to someone else, think about how you would want to be listened to.

While the ideas are largely intuitive, it might take some practice to develop (or re-develop) the skills. Here’s what good listeners know – and you should, too:

Face the speaker. Sit up straight or lean forward slightly to show your attentiveness through body language.

Maintain eye contact, to the degree that you all remain comfortable.

Minimize external distractions. Turn off the TV. Put down your book or magazine, and ask the speaker and other listeners to do the same.

Respond appropriately to show that you understand. Murmur (“uh-huh” and “um-hmm”) and nod. Raise your eyebrows. Say words such as “Really,” “Interesting,” as well as more direct prompts: “What did you do then?” and “What did she say?”

Focus solely on what the speaker is saying. Try not to think about what you are going to say next. The conversation will follow a logical flow after the speaker makes her point.

Minimize internal distractions. If your own thoughts keep horning in, simply let them go and continuously re-focus your attention on the speaker, much as you would during meditation.

Keep an open mind. Wait until the speaker is finished before deciding that you disagree. Try not to make assumptions about what the speaker is thinking.

Avoid letting the speaker know how you handled a similar situation. Unless she specifically asks for advice, assume she just needs to talk it out.

Even if the speaker is launching a complaint against you, wait until she finishes to defend yourself. The speaker will feel as though her point had been made. She won’t feel the need to repeat it, and you’ll know the whole argument before you respond. Research shows that, on average, we can hear four times faster than we can talk, so we have the ability to sort ideas as they come in…and be ready for more.

Engage yourself. Ask questions for clarification, but, once again, wait until the speaker has finished. That way, you won’t interrupt her train of thought. After you ask questions, paraphrase her point to make sure you didn’t misunderstand. Start with: “So you’re saying…”

2007-01-17 03:40:33 · 1 answers · asked by happysmilesofme 1