My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend. I have known him for a while and I am so hurt and angry at him. What is the best thing to do in this situation and should I just end this relationship with him and my girlfriend?
2007-01-17 04:08:39 · 19 answers · asked by LarryGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would be more pissed at your girlfriend. As a guy you know that it's hard sometimes to say no when a hot girl is hitting on you.
As for your best friend, it all depends on when he told you. If it was one hook up and he told you the next day then he felt guilty and knew he made a mistake. If he never told you and you found out another way or if this was more than a one time deal then he can't be trusted and he should be out.
2007-01-17 04:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by neodem 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know if I was in your situation I would tell both of them to get the hell out of your life. I do feel bad for you, that is a terrible thing to have to deal with. You are clearly better off without either of them. Hang out with some friends and start dating ASAP. The best remedy for a broken relationship is a new one. Try having some fun and get your mind off of it. I don't mean to jump into a serious commitment but find out that there are some good people out there and one of them is waiting for you.
2007-01-17 13:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like the saying goes....Girls come and go, but friends last forever. However, I don't know what awhile is to you, but for you to be hurt, I guess that's long enough. I would end it with the girlfriend, because you're never going to be able to trust her again, or you will have a hard time getting over what she did. The friend you may have to decide that for yourself, but if it were me, I would make amends with him, but know your limitations when it came to him. You can't just go out and find another best friend like that, but you can find another girl. I hope that helps.
2007-01-17 12:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been here. I say leave them to their happiness. He's not your friend if he'd do that to you, and she doesn't appreciate you if she needs a second man to keep her satisfied. Believe me, been there (if you reverse the genders, that is). I know it's rough... but taking her back will only lead to further hurt. Forgive them, but don't set yourself up for that again: move on.
I'm sorry that I can't offer a less painful solution.
2007-01-17 12:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by ravenheart737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would end the relationship with him and the girlfriend.
2007-01-17 12:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing to do! u cant continue the relationship with ur girlfriend cause if she did it once she would be able to do it again! for ur friend well if he was really ur best friend he would never accept to grab her and would do everything to make her understand that he is not interested!
thats all i have to say!
think about it!
2007-01-17 12:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for a big change in your life,forget about her because obviously she doesn't love you and he is not a real friend,move on with your life and find new friends,avoid places they may frequent together, and I don't recommend a new relationship just yet until you recover completely from this ordeal....good luck.
2007-01-17 12:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no baby you end it with da chic because they come and go but a real friend last for a life time.. and that goes to show you she was never worth s*** from the start so GOOD your best friend did sleep with her now jus try to think of who else she's screwed
2007-01-17 12:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two. Your girlfriend is just as guilty. You have been betrayed by both of them. End any relationship with both. They are scum.
2007-01-17 12:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a better friend and girlfriend. Seek better friends immediately and never do this to anyone else.....and wish them both well from a distance...
2007-01-17 12:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by mickeymouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋