Friends - December 2006

dear friends, last week i have shared my prblem with u all and got wonderful response for my query.(I have been cought for shop-lifting and released under bail upon submission of my passport at one of the retail outlets in dubai,a case is charged against me) the answers were consoling, sympathetic, attentive and pensive. i thank all of you for there with me and promise that i will abide the
guiding principles. till now i have not received any call from the cops and these waiting period I feel in the depth of despair, i am ready to face the punishement, but waiting for the punishement is really suicidal. my husband is aware of my situation and he told me that he will go to the retailers and talk to them on my behalf, he wants me to write a pleading letter requesting to withdraw the case and settle the issue paying the penelty . i need to check with you all that do you think it will be a right way, in that case what i should be writing to them. please advice ...i will be highly obli

2006-12-22 19:47:28 · 5 answers · asked by anamika 1

hi guys, i love a boy and i know he loves me too. But when he goes to another school, we didin't see each other many times just twice. But now he want to see me and talk to me face to face. he says that he misses me so much but i stii affraid.
i really don't know what to do.
please help.
thanks

2006-12-22 19:41:19 · 17 answers · asked by Be easy 1

ok well i have a bf, and i love him 2 death... well anyway, i was talking with my bestfriends bf and well things kinda started 2 happen and it ended up in us having phone sex.. this has been going on for a while, and im not really sure how i feel about it... should i feel guilty? bad? so is it just wrong?

2006-12-22 19:37:29 · 17 answers · asked by Whitney 1

He's a ******* jerk! He plays this girl who he knew was kicked out her house by her damn mom. She's been staying at house since my dad and my step-mom are sending things to the U.S.A from Brazil. My best-friend of all people takes advantage of this girl... He thinks that she should of said something, and that he's more of a man for sleeping with her. I hadn't realized he was such a womanizing jerk until now... I tried talking to him, and it's like talking to the president. I tried talking to my other guy friends. they all know right from wrong... but some think this is funny!!! What should I do to get my mind off of this... I probably wouldn't be so bad if she didn't live in my house, ( by the way she 'was' a virgin, and really sweet girl, now she's feeling even more hopeless.) And what should I do for her?

2006-12-22 19:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

We share a lot in our emails but have never met in person. He is married and so am I and we have told our respective spouses about our friendship and there have been slight insecurities on both ends despite our assurances. I personally think we should not discuss our friendship with our spouses if it is causing insecurity. I feel very strongly about our friendship and always look forward to reading from him and him from me. Someone told me this can be considered "cheating" albeit not physically. Your opinion please.

2006-12-22 19:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by friendsforever 1

What should I do???
I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2006-12-22 19:17:48 · 3 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3

Here's the scoop: This one, emo, girl was kicked out of her house, beause her mom is abusive. My boyfriend's house is vacant since he is an 'exchange student'. His dad and step-mom are moving in next month. He gave her a room there. So then recently his house has became the club-house. We had a party. He had some of his old friends over. One was real dreamy looking and flirty. Turns out he's a womanizer, like two other of my bf's friends. He started flirting with this girl, and playing on her emotions... he sleeps with her. Turned out she was a virgin, too. (really pretty, and bubbly girl though.) I kinda fighured something was on when he came downstirs in a good mood. Then he left. My bf, stayed home and relized he didn't see her anywhere, then we went up to her room and she was crying. His friend was bragging to some of the other guys at the party. My bf became unglued. when he talked to his friend he thouhgt it was a joke. He hasn't been talking to his friends. anymore.

2006-12-22 18:44:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be HONEST... do you ever fantasize about female coworkers, acquantainces, or friends you're completely platonic with? And how often? ;)

(Just so you know...I'm asking because I kinda do w/ my guy friends, haha)

2006-12-22 18:21:12 · 14 answers · asked by jessp 1

I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2006-12-22 18:20:18 · 1 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3

If you dont want to hurt their feelings that they stink and their clothes smell really badly! My friend is like that and its embrassing and im afraid to tell her! Please any advice???

2006-12-22 18:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by LOVE 2

one my best friends moved away to a different house/school thats about forty minutes away and the only way i can visit her is by bus, which im usually not allowed to take alone THAT FAR.
okay so there were four of us.
me, danica, courtney, and teresa.
me and danica were BEST FRIENDS . but danica was best friends with courtney and teresa, and well i was close with courtney and teresa too..but only about 90%.
we always hung out together, except teresa has another best friend but they never hang out because they get on eachothers nerves(but they've known eachother since forever)
and courtney and danica(mybestfriend) are like REALLY REALLY REALLY close/best friends too.
but now that my best friend has left i am afraid that teresa will just go off with her other best friend and it'll be just me and courtney...
im not mad about it but what if we fall apart? what happenes then?

2006-12-22 18:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by felisia m 1

and the nex door man is no that cute?

2006-12-22 17:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to start my coaching classes after 6 hours.But there is a complaining type of girl in my class she use to irritate me all the time due to which i cant consentrate on my studies.One of my friend is alse there but she also ignores me.I dont no whether to join these depressed classes or not?

2006-12-22 17:29:17 · 36 answers · asked by Nikita 2

2006-12-22 17:26:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some people schedule a physical meeting by cell phone with their friends. When they are actually meeting with that friend, they are then talking on their cell phone with another friend. Why meet with your friend if you will talk on the cell phone with another friend? Is that rude?

2006-12-22 17:21:53 · 36 answers · asked by calpal2001 4

even though you dont know him personally but you know him because he's your friend's friends and he knows you because you know his friends and your own friends...

2006-12-22 16:54:27 · 7 answers · asked by xteencraziimusic143 2

I have already tried to tell her but all she does is blame it on something else. then she'll shutme down and start talking crap to me. what to do?

2006-12-22 16:52:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love with someone I have only spoken with on the phone and email. His sister is my best friend....he's 55, I'm 43...and I'm married. Now...to "protect" me...he has cut off all communication. I am devastated...how can I get through this? I feel so empty...so dead now.

2006-12-22 16:52:18 · 5 answers · asked by nomore4me 2

Although this may seem very unusual, I believe that I have come to a desicion where i want to be friends with my school music teacher. I don't want to be just closer to her, I just want to start a friendship with her.I don't want this friendship to just be a typical just to get to know type. I want it to last as long as a true friendship. My teacher is in her early twenties so it shudn't be that difficult, but I don't know if anyone, even her, may misunderstand my intentions. Is there a possibility for this to happen?

2006-12-22 16:51:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can i open myself up more to ppl?? i mean, i always just think "oh, they don't like me anywayz, they have their own friends" so how can i just stop thaat and talk to ppl and not care if they have thir own friends or not??? PLZ HELP!!

2006-12-22 16:46:15 · 6 answers · asked by lalalala 1

I notice some people allow Email contact...should I write and say thanks for giving me the best answer. Or would that weired some people out.

2006-12-22 16:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by steve 5

My friend says he stopped smoking, but i don't believe him because he still smells like smoke. or it could just be me. Also, he's really acting differently; his clothes are more emo and he hangs out with somking senior, though there was a dramatic change in personality when he said he stopped. And he goes to his smoking friend's house almost every day after school (his mom works full-time) How can I tell for sure without asking? And what can I do about it and convince him to stop? He already claimed to have stopped. He's a freshman.

He has a reason to lie about it too. My friend who we think he likes (even though hes dating) literally chased him around the school when she found out. and I don't approve of it either.

Or am I being to paraniod?

2006-12-22 16:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by Aliiiii 2

Well, I haven't seen her for 2 years for now, if someday when I fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos of her, do you think she will smile? I don't even know how to make girls smile. She don't smile much in photos, and she never show her teeth in photos either.

2006-12-22 16:20:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked a friend for advice on how to handle a situation with another friend because I was worried about how she would react and I didn't want to hurt her feelings. Is that considered two-faced?

2006-12-22 16:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont whats the problem.i guess its me.they are just around.
i feel so alone everytime and i miss them.

2006-12-22 16:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im home schooled and realy shy i have no social life and my best friend is my cuz whats a good way to boost my confidence?

2006-12-22 16:02:53 · 3 answers · asked by paparoster 1

what r some good penpal site, and would any of u lyk to be my penpal?????

2006-12-22 15:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by nicoleaase 2

I think im falling for my bestfriend(which is a boy). we knew each other since the 8th grade (im in the 11th) we are always on the phone. he likes this girl and i have a bf. im not sure how i feel but we live down the street from each other and our parents werent home so we met up at the stop sign and we hugged each other for a long time in the rain! what should i do! plz help.

2006-12-22 15:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

i have been trying to get back in touch with an old friend for what seems like years now! last i knew he was in colorado working at a place called xtreme engineering ... anyone know him or how to getup with him?

2006-12-22 15:28:31 · 2 answers · asked by johnnys_angel_82 2

help me

2006-12-22 15:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by katie 1