I think im falling for my bestfriend(which is a boy). we knew each other since the 8th grade (im in the 11th) we are always on the phone. he likes this girl and i have a bf. im not sure how i feel but we live down the street from each other and our parents werent home so we met up at the stop sign and we hugged each other for a long time in the rain! what should i do! plz help.
2006-12-22 15:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you gotta think who you love more. your boyfriend or bff. i mean it all sounds good but you can only choose one rite?!? so llisten to your heart and choose who you think you ll be happiest with and who understands you more. you should talk to your bestfriend about this and see exactly how he feels he might just say he likes another girl as a coverup because he doesnt want to ruin your friendship if he does like you. if you choose either of the guys you have to be a little more distant towards the person you rejected so this wont happen again. do wat you think is right if you really love your bf than stay with him. if you love your bestfriend more than dont hurt your boyfriend or be unfaitr and keep him in a relationship thats not gonna go anywhere because you dont have any interest anymore
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-22 15:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sort of hug was this? By long do you mean half an hour or a minute? Does he feel the same way? I think that the first thing you need to question is that whether that hug was intimate between you two only or whether you would feel the same way about any guy if it had been him instead of your best friend. Question whether if you said anything, would it change the friendship and is there the possibility of losing the friendship? Do you love your current boyfriend and do you want to risk anything coming between your relationship?
But one word of advice, spend a little while (not too long!) sorting out your own feelings before jumping into anything you might regret. Not too long though cause then you might end up stringing a guy or two along.
2006-12-22 15:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by natofield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends and are not deeply commited to the people you are seeing, then talk about how much he means to you and see what his feelings are - you may be just as surprised as you were when you realized your feelings for him!
If nothing more than friendship, be thankful you have a very special friend - in this time and day, when good friends are hard to come by!
2006-12-22 15:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends and forget about getting serious because you are still young. You will find yourselves changing your values as you grow older. This will definitely affect your relationships later.
So concentrate on your studies instead of b/g relationships. You will have plenty of time for that later on in life.
2006-12-22 15:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaw, thats so sweet. Well, i think you should make sure he feels the same way and the only way to do that is if you tell him how you feel. I think you should also be fair to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel too. I hope you two end up together cuz best friends make the cutest couple!
2006-12-22 15:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 21:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that is sooooooooooo remantic! so does he like you! if so breake up withyour bf and go with him!
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2006-12-22 16:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW U FEEL FOR GODS SAKE!!!!
2006-12-22 15:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋