help me
2006-12-22 15:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's when you see someone and in a split second you immediately know you'll love him forever- that you were meant to love him. True love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry. Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I only met once a year ago. I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet. Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me. The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real! I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should you say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe.
2006-12-24 10:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a false feeling, an illusion... that doesn't exist, you can have attraction at the first time but never love, love grows you have to be with the person, know the person to be able to develop love... that thing of love at first sight is something teach in movies or in literature that is not suitable for the real life
2006-12-22 15:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cobrarette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's basically a saying to describe the "butterflies" and yearning inside for a person you meet/see. Love at first sight is purely lust. Lust can mature into love if you nurture it together. And the best is when you have both!
Natural progression:
Lust --> Love
Ideal progression:
Lust --> Love&Lust
Unideal progression:
Lust --> Love --> nothing
or
Lust--> nothing
2006-12-22 15:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Rabeka♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love in first sight is hatred because the person you hate is the closest to ur heart
2006-12-22 15:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by pOLlY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in love at first sight!
2006-12-22 15:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
captivating image of a person which stays in your mind for a long time...days, weeks, even months..
unfortunately,,true love needs to develop by communicating, sharing ideas, and having mental and emotional connection.
just looking at the person physical view as a image is not true love
2006-12-22 15:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing. you merely fall in love with the image of that person the first time you see them. it takes a while for genuine love to form
2006-12-22 15:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Miguel L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's when you see some one you don't know and never met before and with first hello the world stop circling, clock stop ticking.......you hear nothing but your beats....
when nothing make any sense...........but you want this moment forever.......
when you feel that way by looking into that stranger's eyes, that's love from first sight
when you find it you will feel that he owns you and you own him, it's soooo beautiful, it makes you wonder about nothing.
i hope you taste it soon
2006-12-22 16:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see someone for the first time and he takes your breath away.
2006-12-22 15:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you like someone at the first time you saw them!
2006-12-22 15:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋