ok well i have a bf, and i love him 2 death... well anyway, i was talking with my bestfriends bf and well things kinda started 2 happen and it ended up in us having phone sex.. this has been going on for a while, and im not really sure how i feel about it... should i feel guilty? bad? so is it just wrong?
2006-12-22 19:37:29 · 17 answers · asked by Whitney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
answer this question and I think you'll have your answer......Would you want your boyfriend having phone sex with your best friend?
2006-12-22 19:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YES, it is cheating. Not only are you wrong about cheating on the BF but you are also wrong about having phone sex with your best friends man. Seriously, if you love this man and care for your friend cut it now. The phone sex that is.
2006-12-22 19:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by lady1lovely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phone sex is a form of cheating. It isn't as bad as the hiding the salami bareback, but it is still a form of cheating. Now, if you told your current guy about it, and let him watch you and listen in on speaker if he wanted, then you could get away with it.
2016-05-23 01:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is just wrong. What were you thinking? Phone sex? Sounds too intimate for someone with a bf. Cut that out and do it with your bf instead, or find another bf! Good night!
2006-12-22 19:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its that bad... your not married to your boyfriend but unfortunately... It kinda is wrong, i mean if the situation was reversed, how would you feel about your bf have phone sex with his bestfriend's girl friend.
2006-12-22 19:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Project808 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! you are naughty. You should come clean with everyone. Set up a dinner at home for both couples and discuss it. It sounds hard to do, but you shouldn't have to live with that secret, it will kill you. You owe it to your boyfriend, and best friend to tell them the truth. If any of these relationships are strong they will survive. If someone gets stepped on, well, it's better to find out early. Maybe you all should just become swingers!
2006-12-22 19:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Road 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, yeah, it's wrong. If you are involved with someone who is not your actual partner, even emotionally, it is cheating. Use this as a test: What would your boyfriend think if he found out? What would you think if you found out your boyfriend was doing what you're doing behind your back?
2006-12-22 19:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't view it as cheating at all. I have a few female friends that i cam with and there attached as well. Wanna call me lol.
2006-12-22 20:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is, your lusting for another person over the phone. its like your basically having sex in your minds. i feel bad for your boyfriend.
2006-12-22 20:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by natasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it immediately b/c you are getting into dangerous territory. One thing can lead to another.
2006-12-22 19:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Smile Everyday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋