Friends - December 2006

I trust on my best friend and so do he, we talk about everything..but he recently talks about "What will you do if I have a car accident and I don't survive?"....that makes me really sad and makes me cry...I promised him that eventhough he dies on the other side of the world, or on the depest sea, i'll be there! no matter what..and he promised me the same..but I fell worried because he doesn't stop talking about it..and it makes me really sad...and makes me think that he will die soon...WHAT DO U THINK?!

2006-12-14 15:25:56 · 8 answers · asked by Re 4

What is happening to me, this is sudden and really terrible thing for me to feel?
lately ive been this other person, i used to enjoy hanging out with a bunch of people and really felt one with them,i even called them my friends, but because of certain power grabbing, competition about leadership, i no longer want to be with them or hang out even,
i also begin to be rude with my brother and sister, i feel no love coming from them, i cant even express gratitude anymore
i am beginning to not care about my family or anyone not even the ones i used to like, not even my crushes, i totally am staying away from people i know right now, is it normal to feel so much hatred and i usually just want to be on my own and not care for anyone right now,
i hope i get out of this mood or this mind set, it could really destroy me, i am being such a selfish person here, i claim that i am a friend just so i could use people for my own gain, im becoming a narcissistic individual
what could you possibly tell me, so that i would care for people around me again..im becoming a fake

2006-12-14 15:07:33 · 18 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

Theres this like amazing boy; but hes a grade younger than me. But he treats me reallly nicely and I really like him. However, I know if I got out with him ill get **** from my friends. Espically my 2 best guys friends ever. They said that they wouldn't talk to me if I went out with him. I guess that they hate him and thinks hes a "player". He does come off as a player but hes really nice and he told me that hes so close to asking me out but i kept talking so he couldnt because i needed advice. So i dont know if I want to loose my two best guys friends ever or get the greatest boy i've ever met in my entire life. I thought that my friends would be happy for me but i guess not. Is their a way that i can get both?

2006-12-14 14:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by ssaarrr* 1

my bestfriend,who i trust the most,is getting really close wit a girl named Anna who talks sh*t behinde my back all the time.most of the people in my grade at school hate Anna.she is really annoying&loud.she isnt a good person to be friends wit.she is been talking behinde my back for so long&i hear about it from many people everyday.i dont really care about what she says cuz no one really believes her.peopel say Anna is jealous of me. what is really bothering me now is that my bestfriend is really close with her.she even once told me how Anna always talks behinde my back.it seemed like she didnt really mind hanging out with a person who does so many bad things to other people.Anna is actually really nice to my bestfriend&tat pisses me off.i have tryed to explain it to my friend how she shouldnt hang out wit Anna but tat doesnt help.i feel like i am being replaced! wat should i do to show my friend what a big mistake she is making?i dont want her to hang out wit a girl who is my enemy!

2006-12-14 14:51:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 14:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

the hope was too much

i finally thought i had it
i dreamt of it all summer
i would finally get
what i wanted for years
your friendship
the time was right
finally
i was no longer obligated to anyone
i gave up years of my life for selfish people
and i no longer felt the eternal, unwarranted guilt
i paid the dues
that i never owed
you all liked me
i always liked you
and for these last few months we were together
i hoped we would be friends
but
the hope was too much
i was weak
i could never bring myself to cross
the imaginary line
that exists
between us
in my mind
is the line real
will i never know
will i ever reach out and touch it
or am i creating it
with my inhibitions
the thin line has turned into a wall
that has kept me away from you all
for so long
can i ever scale it?
i doubt it
if i could not cross a line in 12 years
how can i scale a wall in four months?
even when you reached out from across the wall
i never could reach you
i got so close
and you came closer
so many times
my heart and mind wanted to go to you
but my arm wouldn't move
and i guess you gave up
and now so have i
and now you are on your side of the wall
i mine
you go on
my optimism is gone
because now i think its over
i become
frustrated
shy
bitter
regretful
and hating myself
everyday drifting further away from myself and the world
i so wanted to be a part of
and the hope has faded from me
once a suitor of your friendship
i am now a lonely, regretful hermit
sonn we will scatter
from our small town
to the big world
and i hoped
that i could spend my final days here
with all of you
but that was not to be
i feel whatever was is over now
and
in the end
the hope was too much

2006-12-14 14:42:09 · 9 answers · asked by leena 4

my friend and i are going to go to disneyland on saturday and i really want her to go on space moutain with me.I live in california and when my house sells i am going to move to costa rica and i really want to make the best of the time i have. i really need your help PLEASE help me to convice her that its not that scary and she NEEDS to go with me!!!

2006-12-14 14:34:36 · 5 answers · asked by Chick 1

am shy but i like this girl i know she likes me she says she doesnt want to go out i dont want to give up she says shes confused bout boys and so im in a pickle i really want to develope somting here but im just too shy

2006-12-14 14:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if you did how much weight did you lose and how long did it take

2006-12-14 14:27:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i have been together for a while and alot of guys try and hit on me when we are out together i know it annoys my boyfriend but i cant stop them what should i do?

2006-12-14 14:25:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Delete my friend Danielle off my friend's list on MySpace I have reasons for asking here they r:

1. when I left my cell phone @ hr house on accident she did somethingto it that made it to where I cant make or recive calls, test mes, and pic mess, it wont show the time now, i cant take pictures with it.

2. She ie being a ***** to me and my friends

3. whjen Ia sk her nicly to tell me wuts buggin her she ingores me

4. shes beeen avioding me for some reason

2006-12-14 14:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by Li 3

2006-12-14 14:23:55 · 32 answers · asked by mj21 1

I'm passed my high school and now entering college, so I want this place to be for all the kids out there who are dragged down by their peers and made to feel socially inferior. Let's give these kids some good advice.

2006-12-14 14:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My paretns area really really really really annoying and they just keep on bugging me oh get ur math grade up i have all A's and 1 C+ in math which isnt to bad and math is an ap so its really a B+ weighted and i have straight A's besides that so i have a 4.3 and i have a 1900 on my SAT's. But they still bug me how do i get them out of my hair?

2006-12-14 13:54:27 · 7 answers · asked by Ashlee from the Green Berets 2

What should I do?

2006-12-14 13:48:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i had this ex who one day in a jam i called to help me out on moving my truck to home all she had to do was drive it, when i got home i left to pick up my daughter while gone my ex got on my cell and called up my new girlfriend and said howe were seeing each other , when we weren't problem 8is i never told new girlfriend that i ask her for help so it looks bad but did not even kissher no copping a feel nothing but when the ex started talking **** now i'm in the dog house new girlfriend thinks this is cheating granted what she thinks matters most but as a second opinion what do ya think

2006-12-14 13:46:10 · 22 answers · asked by freeby1011 2

2006-12-14 13:42:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this friend, and shes a little older than me. shes goes to my dance studio and she is so good. she really inspires me. she is also one of my best friends. i wanna write her a letter for christmas along with a gift... but i want it to be really nice. does anyone have some ideas on what i could say in it? i just need ideas?

2006-12-14 13:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by christine 3

I have had a problem ever since i got to college. i am too shy to talk to girls or whatever, so i decide to instant message them on Instant Messanger. After a while they start calling me a stalker. I really want to stop. It is really discomforting. Can ANYONE give me any advice whatsoever to help me stop. i just dont know how and I wish i could. i really need to stop, people that i know close are starting not to talk to me, i really need to change...

2006-12-14 13:36:08 · 19 answers · asked by tmtrack8705 1

I'm just curious.

2006-12-14 13:31:14 · 12 answers · asked by gilligan346 4

Everyday, she sighs and whine about how she wants to cut herself so "badly". And then she starts acting out, threatening people and blah blah. Also, when I was siting in the back of the class room talking to some friends, she wanders over to me and she asks me if I have a razor. Honestly, at this point, I do not care what she is going to do. She is being dramatic and she is annoying the hell out of me. She is a negative person and I have had enough! What should I do? Should I deal with this drama queen, or just ignore her completely?

2006-12-14 13:28:29 · 20 answers · asked by Teehee 1

i like this boy and i think he likes me too but i need help i need to look better so how can i become popular

2006-12-14 13:27:45 · 36 answers · asked by ? 1

platonic wise.

I do it all the time so do my friends(my closest friends)

2006-12-14 13:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1

I don't really care that much but I'm bored

a guy I know thats sometimes sarcastic but just over little things.. he said he cried when he found out something happened to me .. I just laughed and said "yeah right!".. but then I looked at him and he looked serious ... O.o uh oh did I make an a$$ of myself?

not that anyone here obviosly knows the guy.. just wondering if people would joke around bout something like that

2006-12-14 13:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by egf 2

I had a very good friend a while ago and i did something over the summer and it was like really bad i think because he wont even talk to or look at me and ive been sad or depressed ever since i want to talk to him so bad but he gets pissed off whenever i come around and it hurts because we were such good friends and i wish it could be that way again but i dont think that will happen

because im ridiculous and get nervous b/c i'm afraid of screwing up and saying sumthing i shouldn't or im afraid of him telling me no again that he will never be my friend again in front of every1

i just want my Best Friend back

what do i do if i wan't to talk to him soo bad yet never can b/c i get nervous and chiken out?

i don't know what to do! HELP ME?

2006-12-14 13:17:57 · 1 answers · asked by cameronap2 1

at schoo; I asidentaly hit my friend Eric in the face with my binder. he was pissed and started cursing at me and stuff I told him to shut the hell up and I wouldn't care if it was a bus that hit him instead of my binder. I think he was probably not mad but embarased, because we were around all his friends. I didn't know why I said those things I was mad I guess. Eric then walked away and I tried telling him I was sorry and I didn't mean it, but he didn't listen. Eric has anger problems and can stay angary for a while (can't blame him so can I) but he hasn't talked to me for four days, and I'm affraid I ruined our friendship forever. I want to talk to him, but I don't know when I should and I don't know what to say to make everything better or at least so he will talk to me again.

2006-12-14 13:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's like we talk and talk and i feel like i always keep the convos going and her answers are like one word answers and then its like AH she sometimes makes me mad i wish she would say what it is she is thinking and other times its like she is mad at me for even talking to her, what should i do?

2006-12-14 13:14:44 · 11 answers · asked by charmed12184 1

i like dis' boy but, how .....wait he has gf and he he i like him tho' he does not know i like him and so how can i get him too see that i like him well, i am pretty (brown hair tan skin )(iam not spanish ) and he is really nice and smart but , he is too dumb too even notice me but, how can you get a boy like him to notice you and also is he right for me or is his friend c.j. which has tan skin , brown hair , a lil' taller than me or his trip rite for me tan skin blo. hair ? either one please lol??

2006-12-14 13:11:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

okaayyy....its not like i don't have any friends, but sometimes when I'm with a lot of my other popular friends, i kind of get left out. I am confident and outgoing, but when I'm with other confident and outgoing people, I'm suddenly not interesting. I also need to know how to attract guys, not that I'm in need of a boyfriend, I just need a little help on flirting. HEELLLPPPP!

2006-12-14 13:08:15 · 5 answers · asked by u*no*me 1

Recently my 10 year old daughter was unable to attend a friend's birthday party. However we still purchased a gift for her that cost thirty dollars and brought it to her friend at school. The very next day her friend informed her that she had sold it on a website (similar to Ebay) because she didn't want it. My daughter was extremely hurt by this because we spent good time and money choosing a gift that we hoped she would like. To outright tell my daughter that she didn't like it was hurtful, and to share the fact that she had sold it added insult to injury. Apparently her mother even went to the trouble of going to the store to see how much it cost, which I'm imagining was to help them determine how much to sell it for. My question is, should I contact the mother to let her know how upset my daughter was by this behaviour? Should my daughter talk to her friend about it? She's wondering if she even wants to be friends with this little girl anymore because she hurt her so badly.

2006-12-14 13:06:42 · 2 answers · asked by Raindrop 3