Theres this like amazing boy; but hes a grade younger than me. But he treats me reallly nicely and I really like him. However, I know if I got out with him ill get **** from my friends. Espically my 2 best guys friends ever. They said that they wouldn't talk to me if I went out with him. I guess that they hate him and thinks hes a "player". He does come off as a player but hes really nice and he told me that hes so close to asking me out but i kept talking so he couldnt because i needed advice. So i dont know if I want to loose my two best guys friends ever or get the greatest boy i've ever met in my entire life. I thought that my friends would be happy for me but i guess not. Is their a way that i can get both?
2006-12-14 14:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by ssaarrr* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go out with the guy, maybe your other friends will come around.
2006-12-14 14:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a lot of points there to hit so...
If hes a player not only tell him no but RUN guys who are players are great talkers they know exactly what to say and when to say it but remember the people that usually call them plyers are the broken hearted x gyrlfriends
Just bc hes a grade younger than you means nothing he could be the best guy in the whole world the only problem that you should care about there is whether or not his paernts care about him dating an older gyrl
Maybe your guyfriends are just jealous bc the younger guy gets more attention than they do but if they are your true friends theyll back off for now and come around in the end
2006-12-14 15:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is really worth it then give it a try, you might be surprised to find that age or grades make no difference when two people connect, my husband is 6 years yourger than me!!! In your friend's case I wonder if they are not trying to keep you for themselves?? If they are your true friends they will want to see you happy and even though sometimes they can be a little overprotective they might just be concerned for your own good, and who knows, they might come around once they see you happy.
2006-12-14 15:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by darlalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you. But, keep in the back of your mind what your guy friends said. Usually they know more about another guy and actually may be trying to protect you. As long as you don't go or do anything out of character for you, you should be great. Good Luck
2006-12-14 15:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always try going out with him behind their backs, but that never works too well...
I'd suggest getting to know the guy better, and making sure your friends know him better, so maybe he won't come off so much as a player. Or maybe he will, and then you probably shouldn't date him.
2006-12-14 15:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by floppybelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope never :-) My boyfriends in simple terms 4 months youthful then me. It particularly do no longer sound alot. yet then whilst human beings ask what 3 hundred and sixty 5 days he's in. i discover it weird and wonderful asserting 3 hundred and sixty 5 days 8? Cus i'm in 3 hundred and sixty 5 days 9. Oh nicely :-) i will't particularly say he's the main mature boy ever at situations yet I mean comeon? in case you sense you and him have a physically powerful connection then choose for it :-) Like in case you are able to refer to him approximately something, like me and my boyfriend previously we even have been going out. Then goooooooo for it ha.
2016-10-14 23:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by fanelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres possibly a way that you can have both... first just talk to your guy "Friends" and ask them why they dont like him then ask them how far you can go untill you make them mad... alright but heres my honest oppinion about this question. if your best 2 guy friends are really your friends theyll care who you date but they wont try to control who you date and threaten you that if you date this guy then you'll loose you because that puts pressure on you and its not fair is it?...
2006-12-14 15:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky problem. i think your guy friends aren't gonna stop talking to u if u date this guy, i mean maybe they'll be a bit pissed but a. most guys forget about stuff like that pretty quickly, and b. if they're really close friends of yours you should talk to them and be like "is it really gonna bug u guys if i go out with him?" if they have a legitimate reason, like this guy is actually an asshole, you should listen to what they have to say, but otherwise go out with this guy and your friends will probably understand.
good luck!!!
2006-12-14 15:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by emspec369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter on the age as long as you are happy. If your friends are not happy about it, they aren't good friends anyway. A true friend would be happy for you.
2006-12-14 15:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can go out with whoever you like. while age differences matter to you now, they won't when your older.
2006-12-14 14:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by desert_rose1274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋