i like this boy and i think he likes me too but i need help i need to look better so how can i become popular
2006-12-14 13:27:45 · 36 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
damnnngrll u shouldnt care
he should like you for who u r not if your popualr
2006-12-14 13:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Paligurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being popular means losing the most precious gift ever-your character. Always remember that character is more important than reputation. Work on that. You will thank yourself later!
Popularity in school means constant pressure. You have to keep up with the latest gossip, look good, get the hottest guys in school, have sex, do drugs, be in the best parties, drink lots of alcohol, breaking curfews, getting in trouble, being snobby, forgetting your true self, going against your parents..etc..etc..You see there is nothing that's good about it. The so called people that will be your friends, won't be your friends if you stop doing any of that. They will talk behind your back and act like they are your friends. None of those girls are really friends. They are as fake as breast implants. Lol They just go with the crowd. These girls are usually popular because they are bad. Trust me, it may seem like guys like them..they get the hottest guys but it's all for the wrong reasons. These guys call them a whore behind their back.
If you want to be popular, be popular in a good way. Be popular in your community. Help others...volunteer to do stuff.. It will pay off.
A couple of years later you will be out of high school and trying to get into a good college. Work for that. That type of stuff should be your priorities.
GoodLuck. Make the right decision.
2006-12-16 12:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that you have to realize that there is no "popular." Popular is defined as many people knowing who you are. There is a popular, like playing sports or being the star quarterback. And there is also a popular, as in being the smartest kid in your class. Just be yourself. Join activities that you like being in. Don't try to be different than what you are or you'll fall flat on your face.
Be yourself, and you will be popular. The boys will come, trust me.
2006-12-14 13:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why become popular? Just be yourself. Once you graduate and move on noone is going to care that you were popular. And being popular does not make you any better.
2006-12-14 13:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to my advice: do not try to be popular, or someone else. just be who you are. later on it will not help you to be popular, I never liked it. In my middle school, people who where popular where not considered good...if you really want to be popular, be the best athlete, or student, or whatever, but not popular for a guy, never
2006-12-14 13:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you shouldn't have to change to make someone like you better, you are very young and you are going to go through alot of changes until you end up the way you are supposed to be,Middle school is a learning experience and whatever else just remember it is only a small part of your life one day you wont even remember who it was that you were trying to impress. and remember tomorrow you may be the one everyone wants to be like
2006-12-14 13:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by jalynn653 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Popularity means nothing. Just get over it. Middle-school couples are just creepy.
2006-12-14 13:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If he likes you and is a bit shy talk to him. Talk about some event at school to get his attention and then go from there. If he is interested he'll take the bait and if he is not you have not made a fool of yourself.
2006-12-14 13:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Aliz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be Yourself. it's the right thing to do, because is being popular ain't who you are then your just leading the poor boy on so, think, and be yourself, if he don't like you for you, then he's not the one you should be thinking about!!!!
2006-12-14 13:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mackay_sm18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was NOT good at being popular
I would say be nice to people. Listen. People like it when you listen to them. Join groups or clubs so you will be with other kids. The more you are around other kids he more chance you have of making friends. Don't sell yourself out though. Always be who you are, keep and cultivate that, even if it means no friends.
Read books when or if you get lonely.
2006-12-14 13:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh how i remember trying to be popular in middle school..... now it doesnt even matter to me in the 12th grade.... there are your snotty girls though.... guys in middle school are not gonna be worried about your social status unless they are jerks..... once you get older guys go after a girl they think its intreasting...... one hint to do dont try to hard to become popular and try to go into the in crowd you might come off being a snot and end up not having friends.... this one girl in 2 lower grades then me she is the biggest beutch EVER and is rude,,,, unless a girl that talks to her is a lil popluar in a higher grade its pathetic.... what she doesnt know is everone thinks she is a cow including her friends.... so dont be a mean to ppl or your gonna be on here asking questions on how to get out of your situation.,,,, be nice and do your hiar extra nice i guess if you want him to notice you.... haha good luck you figure out once your older that this boy you like now your gonna be like omg i cant believe i liked him EEWWW.... lol you will see
p.s. i bet you think these older ppl who are talking dont know what there talking about they are talking about school and grades and so on and all i carre about is the boy right now.... but if you want to date him be yourself!
2006-12-14 13:34:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋