why do i suddenly hate everyone, including my family, friends, crushes?

Question

What is happening to me, this is sudden and really terrible thing for me to feel?
lately ive been this other person, i used to enjoy hanging out with a bunch of people and really felt one with them,i even called them my friends, but because of certain power grabbing, competition about leadership, i no longer want to be with them or hang out even,
i also begin to be rude with my brother and sister, i feel no love coming from them, i cant even express gratitude anymore
i am beginning to not care about my family or anyone not even the ones i used to like, not even my crushes, i totally am staying away from people i know right now, is it normal to feel so much hatred and i usually just want to be on my own and not care for anyone right now,
i hope i get out of this mood or this mind set, it could really destroy me, i am being such a selfish person here, i claim that i am a friend just so i could use people for my own gain, im becoming a narcissistic individual
what could you possibly tell me, so that i would care for people around me again..im becoming a fake

Answer 1

Feel that? Its confidence. You're realizing that you have self worth and you're starting to stand up for yourself and not work to please everyone else. You're starting to call BS when you see it. You're starting to feel independence from your family. You're starting to feel like an individual.

Fear not, you're overdosing a bit on it right now. Give it a few months and you'll learn how to level it out. Congratulations.

Answer 2

Lady you need to relax, and think things out. you could be headed for depression if you don't but I think your ready for changes in your life. Maybe the crowd you run with are not your equal or you think that way.
Become a new you and take sthings in stride. Be nice to friends and family but explain you have issues in your life you need to work out right now.
Do something that will keep you sane and happy and busy. Go for walks, exercise, read( reading a good book is better than having a head doctor) reading is one of the most enjoyable things in ours lives and it's cheap. Go the liberary and relax there. I do and I know alot of people who do so. Write a short story or poems, paint, work, or go out out ot educate your self.
Just get busy, and relaxed.

Maybe visit out of town or take a vacation alone and enjoy life.

Answer 3

Ok from what you wrote, i think theres something that made you be like this, usually people goes into this kind situations when they are so buisy at work and they don't want to be disturb(like me), or maybe they just experience somethind so sad their emotions are not able to handle...

anyway, try doing this, just calm down and think back, recall about the past things you have been doing and try to think on that day that you have been so bad to your circle of families, after which try asking why you did this?, what were you thinking? whatever is the answer, DON'T do it again.

Don't worry things like this come to help us grow, and please don't tell me that you don't care about them, why would you ask here if you didn't care??????.........have a great life,enjoy,and take care.

Answer 4

i've been to that and trust me ive learn a lot from that experience. my mom and my bestfriends hold on with me. they never let me go. i became so irrational,stubborn and immature. i pushed them away and claimed that i am unwanted and left behind. it is kinda daunting because it was my fault all along but i don't want to admit it. Someone once told me that i should not let go of the people who i know cares and loves me the most. even against all odds. and you know who's that person. he's the one who look down to us to see if we are doing well. i let myself to pray and ask GOD all the questions that i have. I even told him that i am angry at him because he let me feel that way. through my journey and self realization i found myself in the end of the road. happy and ready to take up all the new steps in life. i am so happy that i found the better me. and GOD helped me a lot with it. Now i am self-fulfilled and will never doubt those people who stayed with me. in good times and in bad. don't worry some people are really meant to understand us. no matter what it takes. tc

Answer 5

I've been through the same thing with my family and friends. i was going through a point in my life where i was feeling really depressed. i wasn't sure why i felt this way so i just took it out on them. i latter found out it was do to holding in to much stress and not talking about. i got lucky i met this women who i could trust and with in a three hour span of spilling my guts to her, i was able to see things better. now every time i go back in to that state of mind i talk to her or just think about what she said to me that night and it helps me realize that what problems im go through i m going through for a reason.

pretty much what she told is that we are in the situation that we are in for a reason.

Answer 6

I know how you feel, I go through periods like this too, where the world sucks and so does everyone in it....PMT can be partially responsible, as can stress, and for the other part the world really does suck and so does everyone in it....escape girl go and spend time just in the company of yourself to regroup.

Answer 7

that do that because they miss something or is try to hide some of there problems that they do not want anyone to know about. you need to open up too you mother and let her know that something is wrong and it is bugging you big time. and you are becoming a suddenly. you will feel much better. if that doesn't work listen to your heart.

Answer 8

you're probably going through puberty, it happens to everyone, but if it's not you're either on your rag, or you have too much stress, you could go to a person that massages, I think it will work on you, I tried it once, and it made me forget about everything and feel more relaxed, you should do that too..or maybe you're just emo

Answer 9

Go get some professional help ASAP you sound like you are depressed. I had to go on meds to deal with life. It happens to the best of us im afraid.

Answer 10

i no how u feel omg u have no idea. i feel totally the same. is this contajious everyone just hates me also. well the one thing i can tell you is to just go into your room turn off the lights completley light 2 candles and put incence and soothening musicc and just think meditate..