at schoo; I asidentaly hit my friend Eric in the face with my binder. he was pissed and started cursing at me and stuff I told him to shut the hell up and I wouldn't care if it was a bus that hit him instead of my binder. I think he was probably not mad but embarased, because we were around all his friends. I didn't know why I said those things I was mad I guess. Eric then walked away and I tried telling him I was sorry and I didn't mean it, but he didn't listen. Eric has anger problems and can stay angary for a while (can't blame him so can I) but he hasn't talked to me for four days, and I'm affraid I ruined our friendship forever. I want to talk to him, but I don't know when I should and I don't know what to say to make everything better or at least so he will talk to me again.
2006-12-14 13:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All I can say is .... ARE YOU KIDDING ME??
I wish that my biggest problem was I hit someone with a binder and they wouldn't talk to me!
He will get over it...give it time~
2006-12-14 13:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would be very nice, and wear cool clothes to school for a while. Also, I would definetly give him a week to cool down without talking to him, and then I would say, "Eric, I am very sorry about what I said the other day, and I promise I won't say anything like that to you again, and I really didn't mean it"
Sadly, I did this w/one of my friends, and she still hates me
2006-12-14 21:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cheering G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't blame yourself if your friend has an anger problem. Besides apologizing for hurting (or embarrassing) him, you can't make him be your friend again. If he is going to hold a grudge against you over something that was an accident, I don't see any reason to talk to him anymore even though you miss his friendship.
2006-12-14 21:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds kinda shallow (no offense) but what you said would of pissed me of too. get your other bfs to talk to him for you or try talking to him. give him the silent treatment but dont be stubborn either if he trys to say sorry first.
2006-12-14 21:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by GellyBelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋