my bestfriend,who i trust the most,is getting really close wit a girl named Anna who talks sh*t behinde my back all the time.most of the people in my grade at school hate Anna.she is really annoying&loud.she isnt a good person to be friends wit.she is been talking behinde my back for so long&i hear about it from many people everyday.i dont really care about what she says cuz no one really believes her.peopel say Anna is jealous of me. what is really bothering me now is that my bestfriend is really close with her.she even once told me how Anna always talks behinde my back.it seemed like she didnt really mind hanging out with a person who does so many bad things to other people.Anna is actually really nice to my bestfriend&tat pisses me off.i have tryed to explain it to my friend how she shouldnt hang out wit Anna but tat doesnt help.i feel like i am being replaced! wat should i do to show my friend what a big mistake she is making?i dont want her to hang out wit a girl who is my enemy!
2006-12-14 14:51:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your friend should take your feelings into consideration....but maybe you will have to let her find out for herself... she will see this girls true colors eventually
2006-12-14 14:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your friend some space, she will realize in time that her other friend really isnt a friend at all. I would start spending time with other friends and family members. Maybe this is a good time to make new friends as well.
Be there for your friend but tell her you dont want to hear anything about anna or what she has said. Invite her to do things without anna as well. Dont discuss anything with your friend about anna either then that way the problem doesnt escalate.
good luck.
2006-12-14 23:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huney obviously ur best friend doesnt actually care for you. She is finding a way out of your friendship. It seems like you're the kind of person who has many friends, you really need to move on. By showing your best friend that you dont care if she goes either way, she will be compelled to take a side. When she does, and she goes with anna, then you know that she is not a true friend, adn you should be happy that you found this out sooner or later and ended the friendship. If she stays with u, then great!
2006-12-14 23:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by delusional_barnacles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the usual problem, anyway just want to say first that even though he is your bestfriend you cannot force him not to be close to someone, what i mean is that he has the choice, actually you could ask your friend to help you stop Anna stop talking things about you. Its better this way coz, if you try to think about your situation, the problem is not your friend its Anna!? Goodluck and may you be friends with your enemies hehe...........
2006-12-14 23:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person you can control is Y.O.U.
You can't control Anna, or the person you call your best friend, but you can make your own decisions.
It's not unusual for friends to drift apart, & it's not the end of the world when it happens.
I think the person that you still call your best friend stopped being your best friend when she shifted her loyalties to Anna who shows no respect for you. Therefore your ex-best friend has no respect for you either.
So as long as you have respect for yourself, you will know what to do from here, so I will leave it at that.
Respectfully yours!
2006-12-14 23:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You also talk the sh*t behind Anna. Why not you yourselves meet 2 eyes with Anna to find the truth.
2006-12-14 22:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mat D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a big I D K
but i am only 12 and dont have any friends so i might not be the best person to listen to
2006-12-14 22:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sweetie okay this happend to me and my freind relized that the other girl was trouble so i wouldnt worry about it too much!
2006-12-14 23:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by mj21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you must make mistakes to open there eyes
2006-12-14 23:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by frozenthunder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juzt ignore her
2006-12-14 22:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by veronica v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋