am shy but i like this girl i know she likes me she says she doesnt want to go out i dont want to give up she says shes confused bout boys and so im in a pickle i really want to develope somting here but im just too shy
2006-12-14 14:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I kno of a similar situation infact too similar. give her time let her see wut she really wants to do its tough when you're friends you don't want anything to happens if shes confused give her time but also talk to her to let her kno you are still there. and in the and if she lets you down just don't completely move on always keep a watchful eye for if she changes her mind just don't give up but don't linger around forever. I hope my advice has helped and I most certainly hope u can help me and answer my questions
2006-12-14 15:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by F9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you she's confused about boys, that could be her way of telling you she doesn't know yet whether she likes boys or girls. I know you didn't want to hear that, but better to find out now rather than later. To get her to open up a little more, tell her your glad to have met a girl who is confused about boys, because it just so happens that you are confused about girls. If she invites you to hang out with her, and everyone there seems to be gay or bisexual, you'll get the picture. Hope it turns out for the best for you. If not, hope you can handle it, and just accept it as something that wasn't meant to be. Trying to change someone's true sexuality is asking for trouble in my opinion. If you're straight and she's gay or bisexual, you may want to face reality and just be friends. Your true love is elsewhere.
2006-12-14 14:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably acting weird because your acting shy. Remember, it's all an act and you can change the part you are playing whenever you want. It's up to you.
Take a chance and be bold one day. The worst thing that can happen is that she rejects you, but eventually you'll learn that's the best thing. It means your in the game.
2006-12-14 14:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very shy too so i know how you feel. She said she's confused about boys? I'm not sure but maybe that might mean that she's lesbian? Or maybe she just doesn't know what she wants right now. Try to get over your shyness, it just holds you back from stuff which you could've enjoyed but ended up not doing at all.
2006-12-14 14:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by whoa_its_wendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl is acting weird cos she is hoping you will be starting the first act first..since you know she likes you and you like her... she is a girl and so she is not going to act first... it won't hurt to be the first to tell her that you like her and that you want her to be your special... good luck
2006-12-14 14:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by miaiskitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a pair of her panties. Do not tell her you would love to wear them. But do.
2006-12-14 14:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol, the cause of and answer to all of life's problems.
2006-12-14 14:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Girls are like that sometimes. Trust me, I know.
2006-12-14 14:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by soccerkik17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about the GOOD side of you. and the ways u'll make A GREAT BF.
2006-12-14 14:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepiexx12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and talk with the girl and ask her, what her feeling to yuo...firstly you must brave to talk to the girl...
2006-12-14 15:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by merisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋