Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

i really really like this guy. he likes me too but i want him to ask me out because im afraid if i ask him out he might say no.
so how do i get him to ask me out?

2007-03-27 14:09:28 · 8 answers · asked by steph 1 in Singles & Dating

K my best friend and i like the same guy.. she liked him before i started to though and then when i saw him i atomatically liked him. She got his email before i did as a result they eneded up talking before i got a chance to talk to him. THey talked on msn and he asked her to meet him somewhere at skool and so they met up. Before they met up my best friend and i were talking about him and i even told her that i liked him but she was like well she liked him first blah blah and then she told me that she had to meet him. So during there little "meeting" he started touchin her up and stuff and she was acting really flirty. I kinda was spying lol i know i shouldnt have but i did. This guy that i know i asked him if he could spy on them for me so he did and lol that didnt work out well. HE now knows that i like him because my best friend and i got in this fight right outside when he was inside but he heard everything! He says that im pretty but he likes a girl that would do freaky things..

2007-03-27 14:08:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A former male friend of mine at work is avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. But the thing is I'm still hurt by him and I can't look at him since I'm so mad so I just ignore him.

2007-03-27 14:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says things to you like he wants to hurt you....but in a playful way.
For example i went for a walk yesterday and this guy i work with (who btw i have a crush on...hehe) drove by and waved,i waved back and then today he was like i saw you walking yesterday and you didn't even wave. I said yea i did. He said well it was too late, be quicker next time or i'll run you over. I was like oh thats nice of you. and he smiled and walked away.

Keep in mind this was all in a playful joking tone.

We always joke with each other, usually in a sacarstic way. And he does other things to get my attention too. Also i've never seen him treat any other girl at work like this.

Is this a way that some guys flirt. I am so dumb about these things. I have never had a guy act this ways towards me. I've know him only about a month but we get along so well.

Please no dumb answers....I really need your input.

2007-03-27 14:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by chickflick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 14:07:50 · 6 answers · asked by KayLa H 1 in Friends

hey are there any single guys out there?? if so where in the hell have you been hinding???

2007-03-27 14:07:36 · 1 answers · asked by Mary B 1 in Singles & Dating

So I am getting married soon, and I was wondering how couples handle money.

Do they have two separate bank accounts, each with their name? or Joint accounts where each of them have access to as much money as they want?

(Both of us are going to be working full time- We will both have money)

2007-03-27 14:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by mang0kiwi 2 in Weddings

does anyone know the first thing to do when it comes to finding out who your father is my husband is 32 yrs old and has never meet his real father . and it is finally starting to bother him that he has never meet him his mother gave me a name but how do i go about finding this man? i would really appreciate any help from anyone that went through this before?

2007-03-27 14:07:17 · 2 answers · asked by sandy 6 in Family

2007-03-27 14:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends boy-friend has nasty body odor and really bad breath. I want to tell her and him both. He smells like he took a ran over skunk and had sex with it. It is really nasty. So how do I tell him?

2007-03-27 14:04:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone without wanting anything back...........

2007-03-27 14:03:43 · 7 answers · asked by thatgal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What age do you feel is appropriate for sex. I know a lot of people ages 11-14 having it and even more from 15-18. What age do you think is appropriate?

2007-03-27 14:02:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 14:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by greg h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I revolve each day on how I will spend my time with him. There are times when I sit by the phone and wait for his calls. I haven't been hanging out with my friends anymore, because I want to see him as much as I can. And I'm only 19! I can tell that my clingy personally annoys him. He has always been sweet enough to understand and let it go. But I know that before he won't be attracted to it anymore, and I will only become miserable from this.

So I was completely honest with him.... I explained to him that I wanted to spend more time alone, but still stay with him. I told him that I wanted to better myself and give him some space. At first he understood, but after a few weeks he has grown very cold. Hes accusing me of putting him down easy, and has questioned if I am cheating on him!

The feelings are still there, and I still want to be with him. So am I being unfair asking for a little space?!?

2007-03-27 14:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by **Jerris** 1 in Singles & Dating

Do not ask!! I have always wondered this.

2007-03-27 14:01:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have two boys in my class that are both cute but one is nicer than the other but the other boy notices me more and i am not sure if i should tell them that i like them
BUT im not sure if i really like them

2007-03-27 14:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love him? it is so weird but we have been together for 8 months now and I am not sure if I should or not.

2007-03-27 14:00:46 · 4 answers · asked by Runner 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I have a friend and she is going out with this loser of a guy. He makes fun of people, he's cheated on his gf's, and is a loser. Now, i was on a school feild trip and i was rooming with some girls. The guys were right next to us. Us girls found a way to get to the guys room, by a hallway. So, we go over & it's about 1 in the morning, and we start talking to the guys. Now, this girl goes over and lays on the bed, and then my friends bf goes over and lays with her. Me & my friend left to go asleep, but she was still in the bed when we left. So, i found out the next day that they made out. So i told her.So, he cheated on my friend. Now, they broke up after that, but were thinkin of gettin back together after some time, like 2 weeks. Now, my friend was hurt. She couldn't stop thinkin bout him. It's been 1 week and there going back out again. Her mom is mad. I'm mad. But, i want to help her, and i've told her that if she needs help to give me a call. but she hasn't. Did i do rite thing?

2007-03-27 14:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your husband's penis was detachable and he didn't need it to use the bathroom, would you require that he not take it with him on business trips? I know this sounds ridiculous but I compare this to a woman requiring a man to leave his Viagra at home.

2007-03-27 14:00:32 · 2 answers · asked by jax0817 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 14:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by knimbly 1 in Singles & Dating

Odd how some people pop int your head, isn't it.

2007-03-27 14:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Josh and I sometimes have awkard silences, cool conversation starters?

2007-03-27 14:00:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year I had an affair w/ the love of my life.We met up after 20+ yrs & fell madly in love all over again.The problem is now I'm married, with 2 kids, and my husband is relatively speaking, a great guy, not perfect, but pretty darn close, except I haven't felt the passion for about 3 years now.I have felt lonely in my own home & have thought about this other man every day for the last 20 years.He is asking for this woman's hand tonight, because he is en route to becoming a christian pastor and is feeling pressured to be married in order to serve the church - his other true love. He has admitted that he doesn't love this woman but does care for her. I care for my husband too, but do not feel passionate love for him, like I do with this other man. We broke up in may of 06 but not a day goes by that I don't think about him and how I'm blatently lying to my husband when I tell him I love him when I only deeply care for him. What can I do? What should I do? Is there anything I can do?

2007-03-27 14:00:09 · 14 answers · asked by Canela 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Gay: Wrong or Right?

I would like to see the perspective from the community. I already know and have my opinion, which is all that matters to me. I want to see YOURS

2007-03-27 13:59:47 · 10 answers · asked by rrdy2die 1 in Friends

I'v been going out with this boy A. and we have been going out for 1 month how do i tell them that im going out with them?

2007-03-27 13:59:04 · 17 answers · asked by Natasha C 2 in Singles & Dating

So I am sort of seeing this man that lives out of town...he is my best friends boyfriends brother. I only see him when I go to visit them and I saw him the weekend before last... we went out, etc.. he will txt me thruout the week and ask how I am, ask about my kids, etc.

So he txted me last night and I mentioned that I was going to be going to Oregon for 10 days.......and got no more responses... so I txt that I figured they (meaning his brother and gf) would have said something...he responded with "They didn't".. then I texted saying I would have told him but I didn't see him the Sunday that I left....I have heard nothing back....since yesterday.

So I realize this sounds totally juvenile and for that, I appologize, but I am baffled.... was he mad? Did I somehow offend him by not mentioning this to him directly? It is not uncommon when I go down that he finds out from them and comes over - I never tell him I am coming down. I am confused & wanted a 'second opinion' before I call

2007-03-27 13:58:38 · 5 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to tell her everything and shes different from other girls. she gets afraid of new things its weird. i made 101 reasons why i love her (it took me a month) ,poem(3 weeks), and play a song for her. i didnt give it to her yet. what should i do now? and how can i give it to her?

2007-03-27 13:58:26 · 19 answers · asked by Im here just to inspire others. 2 in Singles & Dating

so this guy i like has been one of my close guy friends for like three years now, but lately things have been different. btw im 16 and hes 18 but were only 1 grade apart. he kinda of a big flirt but lately hes been mostly flirty toward me. so anyway we hang out afterschool alot at a friends house and we always seem to be together like lying on the couch cuddling together or in the kitchen together and he acts like he really likes me and it feels right and hes very gentleman-like toward me and would never try to force me to do anything or use me. on the other hand like two yrs ago he and one of my best friends had a friendswbenefits fling for a while but they're still friends now. the only thing is i want a real relationship but im afraid that he only wants another fling like that now and i not that kind of girl (and he knows it) so basically im pretty confused about what to do

2007-03-27 13:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He goes off every day never says where. If I leave he doesn't ask where? What is the deal ?

2007-03-27 13:57:46 · 4 answers · asked by Sunny Fields 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Shes crazy, i just bought a shirt for 30 something dollars she would like go crazy and give a shock expression and say, " so expensieve!!"

I also bought a jacket for like 40 plus dollars and she goes, " didnt you know terrence is a rich man....", to my parents...

im like WTF, its not ever her money and plus its not really that expensieve doesn’t she know that if you go to shopping malls to buy the things are “mark up” in price? Its not like im spending hundreds on a piece of clothing!!!...

And she would like try to save money to the extent that she goes to off the light in the toilet when im inside doing my buisness, and i got irritated and told her im inside, fugg cant stand her...

the worst thing is, when my parents on the air-con, she doesnt give a **** and complain? I mean how much can you save by saving light compared to the air con? shes one dumbass biatch... And when my parents bring us out to eat and it cost like 100 plus dollars, she didnt complain on coming out to eat in restaurants less often...!!!??? *** i seriously think shes dumb, i mean if you seriously want to save money, theres much better ways to do...Then her stupid style of “saving” which really gets nowhere, plus we are a pretty well off family so I think shes really mental….

2007-03-27 13:57:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family