So I am sort of seeing this man that lives out of town...he is my best friends boyfriends brother. I only see him when I go to visit them and I saw him the weekend before last... we went out, etc.. he will txt me thruout the week and ask how I am, ask about my kids, etc.
So he txted me last night and I mentioned that I was going to be going to Oregon for 10 days.......and got no more responses... so I txt that I figured they (meaning his brother and gf) would have said something...he responded with "They didn't".. then I texted saying I would have told him but I didn't see him the Sunday that I left....I have heard nothing back....since yesterday.
So I realize this sounds totally juvenile and for that, I appologize, but I am baffled.... was he mad? Did I somehow offend him by not mentioning this to him directly? It is not uncommon when I go down that he finds out from them and comes over - I never tell him I am coming down. I am confused & wanted a 'second opinion' before I call
2007-03-27 13:58:38 · 5 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have not talked about the future or anything but I know he isn't seeing anyone else and I get the impression he wouldn't want me to either.... this past Friday I called his brothers house looking for a shirt I left and he kept asking me where i was going, with who and if it was a guy or a girl...
2007-03-27 14:04:39 · update #1
If you only see him when you visit someone else, you don't really have a relationship with this guy. If he wanted to pursue something with you, he would call you, visit you, ask you out, etc. He hasn't done any of that, so I'm not sure why you are wasting your time wondering if you made him mad. You don't owe him anything. Don't call him. If you don't hear from him, you'll have your answer.
2007-03-27 17:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like bad news. It also sounds like he is totally jealous. personally i dont believe he has the right to be, I know a man getting jealous can be kind of a compliment to some women but if your not in some kind of a long term relationship, do you think he has the right to be jealous? Id say its a sign of problems to come. Or you could take it the other way and get giddy cause hes jealous and wants to take the relationship more seriously,
2007-03-27 21:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just jealous, you need to call him tell him why you are going there and let him know it is ok.. if you can invite him.. Alot of people in life are jealous and dont show it the correct way.. just keep letting him know you like him and dont want to mess it up..
2007-03-27 21:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just call him and ask him, he may just have alot going on, but what would it hurt to just text back or call and liughtly bring it up, ask him if he would like any thing from oregon..... see what he says
2007-03-27 21:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go and have fun worry about this when you get back.
2007-03-27 21:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋