so this guy i like has been one of my close guy friends for like three years now, but lately things have been different. btw im 16 and hes 18 but were only 1 grade apart. he kinda of a big flirt but lately hes been mostly flirty toward me. so anyway we hang out afterschool alot at a friends house and we always seem to be together like lying on the couch cuddling together or in the kitchen together and he acts like he really likes me and it feels right and hes very gentleman-like toward me and would never try to force me to do anything or use me. on the other hand like two yrs ago he and one of my best friends had a friendswbenefits fling for a while but they're still friends now. the only thing is i want a real relationship but im afraid that he only wants another fling like that now and i not that kind of girl (and he knows it) so basically im pretty confused about what to do
2007-03-27 13:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1. hes 18 but hes also a good mormon and totally not looking for sex
2. im not a slut but im not a nun either
2007-03-27 14:51:51 · update #1
guys only want the other thing. expecially at 18.
2007-03-27 14:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a fling is not what you want then you need not start anything with him. You are intirely too young. Sex is like a drug and when you start you want more and more. All guys at 18 only want flings and nothing else, they are young as so are you. You should be worried about school and not what you are thinking about.
2007-03-27 21:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by lil mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you i would just talk to him. I know its gonna be hard but talking will get everything out. Write out what you want to say and put into a kind of conversation. Then call him and have the paper so you dont get choked up. Just talk to him like you normally do and things will probably end up how you want them. =)
2007-03-27 21:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kelso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre not that kinda girl, then dont be cuddling up with dude on the couch. you dont understand the power of the ol penis
2007-03-27 21:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a relationship w/him and when u get into it if you think its another "fling" tell him thats not wat you want
2007-03-27 21:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straightforward....ask him
2007-03-27 21:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your mom too..
2007-03-27 21:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by eviot44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋