K my best friend and i like the same guy.. she liked him before i started to though and then when i saw him i atomatically liked him. She got his email before i did as a result they eneded up talking before i got a chance to talk to him. THey talked on msn and he asked her to meet him somewhere at skool and so they met up. Before they met up my best friend and i were talking about him and i even told her that i liked him but she was like well she liked him first blah blah and then she told me that she had to meet him. So during there little "meeting" he started touchin her up and stuff and she was acting really flirty. I kinda was spying lol i know i shouldnt have but i did. This guy that i know i asked him if he could spy on them for me so he did and lol that didnt work out well. HE now knows that i like him because my best friend and i got in this fight right outside when he was inside but he heard everything! He says that im pretty but he likes a girl that would do freaky things..
2007-03-27 14:08:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the thing is my best friend does do freaky things wit him and im not that type a girl... but hes just so damn fine omg if u were to see him girls.. I want him so badly and it was all for some stupid competition!! to see who can get his email first! I dont know what to do should i persist on tryin to win him? or should i just find another guy?? i even broke up wit my ex bf for him and he wont go bak out wit me!! help pls??
2007-03-27 14:11:49 · update #1
she just spoke to him today!! and plus she only started to like him for like 1 day before i liked him . she thought he was cute but i liked him!!
2007-03-27 14:14:09 · update #2
no he only found out i liked him today and she got his email and i never did cus i didnt see him all day to ask him. I never met him before so thats why. its not like he choose her. thats the thing he never choose her. she just asked him before i got to ask him. and now he had to find out i liked him by us fightin!! its so unfair.. and he only wont date me cus she managed to get to him first and she will do freaky things wit him
2007-03-27 14:21:41 · update #3
If he likes a girl who does freaky things, what kind of freaky things is he talking about? If it's sex, be very careful. Your friend is aggressively after him and you could be really hurt by this situation. I would back off hun, and wait it out. Don't do something that will make you look like a fool. Let her make a fool of herself. He doesn't sound like a nice guy. No matter how good looking he is, he could be a real jerk.
2007-03-27 14:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay well i had crush on the same guy as my best friend and i never told her and they didnt work but i still havent done anything. you really shouldnt make a move on him or anything because if you do you could mess up two relationships...you could lose your best friend and the guy you like...so you have to sit down and think which relationship you would rather have...but remeber this your best friend is the one that you know likes you and is and always has been there for you... and you this guy hasnt(i think) and if he likes freaky stuff he will push for it adn i you want to talk about this more with me feel free to send me an e-mail or something...hope i helped and good luck
2007-03-27 16:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by raerae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude get the hell over it. Your really gonna mess up your friendship cause you have the hotts for some guy? There are a million stupid horny guys waiting to get into your pants and you want the guy that wants your best friend. that is sooo typical. Besides if there doing freaky stuff, you really want sloppy seconds, or since this guy sounds kinda skanky, you rather get sloppy 10ths. So what if the guys hot, hes your friends not, so keep those slimy little hands to yourself.
2007-03-27 14:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
back away now dude... The worst thing to come between best friends is guys. in a few months he may be history from her life but if you keep up this childish behaviour you will be too. No man is worth more than a friendship, EVER! It was mean of you to start liking him to, I'm guessing your not the prettiest one of the two of you. Be supportive of your friend. This guy obviously dont like you and likes her, coming between them will only end in tears. Shame on You!
2007-03-27 14:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by unoirok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend should both let him go and not let him get between the two of you. I have 3 friends who all like the same guy but they don't care because they are not going to let it get between them. the one of these girls is actually getting close to the guy and they are really good friends. They are all friends but he picked this one girl over the other two and they appreciated and anyway the one who is close to him has also had a crush on him since before the other two did, so ya. Just don't let a guy get between you and your best friend because there are many other guys out there, and if he already likes someone and that someone is not your friend then what are you to fighting over. He has his eyes on another girl and you should put yours on another guy. Be nice to her and apologize and make sure she to apologizes. OK. good luck.
2007-03-27 14:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well honestly hun you do not want a guy who only wants to be with you if you do 'freaky' things... that is how girls end up getting bad reps...he is gonna mess around with the 'freaky girl' but want to date the nice girl...trust me... good luck and let your friend have him you can do better....
2007-03-27 14:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lower back off. learn harder. learn how to place in writing and use spell verify. So once you "communicate" to adult adult males they are going to see which you're a minimum of as smart as your acquaintances. you are able to have sufficient funds to attend and see what takes place. meanwhile, get your person act at the same time. The freaky ingredient you're able to do is be elegant and lower back off the greasy adult adult males for now.
2016-10-20 02:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different guy. Its not worth losing your friend
because you like the same guy and since she got
to him first you just have to move on.
2007-03-27 14:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA kesha your funny. Go get a nother guy you will regret breaking them up or causing drama. If your pretty there are so many other guy's for you. Get an even better guy
2007-03-27 14:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some freaky things then! and anyways its not worth ur friendship for a guy
2007-03-27 14:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by abs of steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋