Ok, I have a friend and she is going out with this loser of a guy. He makes fun of people, he's cheated on his gf's, and is a loser. Now, i was on a school feild trip and i was rooming with some girls. The guys were right next to us. Us girls found a way to get to the guys room, by a hallway. So, we go over & it's about 1 in the morning, and we start talking to the guys. Now, this girl goes over and lays on the bed, and then my friends bf goes over and lays with her. Me & my friend left to go asleep, but she was still in the bed when we left. So, i found out the next day that they made out. So i told her.So, he cheated on my friend. Now, they broke up after that, but were thinkin of gettin back together after some time, like 2 weeks. Now, my friend was hurt. She couldn't stop thinkin bout him. It's been 1 week and there going back out again. Her mom is mad. I'm mad. But, i want to help her, and i've told her that if she needs help to give me a call. but she hasn't. Did i do rite thing?
2007-03-27 14:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did the right thing by telling her.don't worry relationships like this don't usually last any way. the best thing is to try to find out more dirt on the guy and let her know .tell her that you are her friend and no matter what even if you don't agree with what she 's doing you still have her back and your just concerned and want the best for her.the most important thing is that you remain friends.
2007-03-27 14:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by jnieves520 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, being there for your friend is a good thing.. I'd suggest warning her about that guy, if not trying to take action, because she'll be happier in the long run, there are plenty of other guys out there in the world who wouldn't cheat like that!
2007-03-27 21:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by r0d3n7z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but I think you need to let her figure things out on her own sometimes. she's stronger than you think.
my friends told me that and I kept on going out with the guy coz I wasn't sure...he broke up with me twice, but we're back together...again...and it's still going strong
let her fend for herself. you guys aren't gonna be there for her all the time so she needs to learn to deal with certain things on her own...just give her space...
2007-03-27 21:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Po_0ffie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. Just be there for her when this happens again, because we all know it will. Don't judge her, just be her friend.
2007-03-27 21:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she is reaaly going to screw up if she goes out with a guy who layed down with a girl who he was cheating on with
2007-03-27 21:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kinda lost about the whole thing so sorry i couldnt help
2007-03-27 21:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Julianne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u did
2007-03-27 21:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..
2007-03-27 21:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by just a girl.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋