Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

I'm married to an only child and have recently given birth to my in-law's only grandchild. My MIL has been the source of much anxiet for many years. Specifically, our biggest problem with her is that she's got a big mouth. The straw that broke the camel's back was her public announcement of our very early three week pregnancy. This was at her 60th birthday party. My husband asked her to keep the good news under wraps until the second trimester. We arrived at this decision based on our bumpy road to a healthy pregnancy. I had 3 consecutive tubal pregnancies durring the 18 month period prior to our successful in-vitro pregnancy with our daughter. Needless to say, the pregnancy thing was a very delicate issue with us. So, we walk into the party and she introduces us to the crowd and announces the pregnancy. But it didn't end here. Throughout the course of the party, there were complete strangers who approached me and seemed to know my entire fertility history.

2007-03-25 12:58:01 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly H 1 in Family

my cousin wants me to go to his house and hang out for the whole week. which is something i don't want to do because it's so boring,tiring, stressful. it's boring because all he does is annoys me, and it's tiring cause he lives with his brother and they have two kids, and they wake we up at 6.30 in the morning, and it's stressful because i have to do most of the house work which sucks ***!! my cousin makes me wash the dishes and do laundry! i can't stand it i don't want to go to his house so somebody please give me advice.
or somebody please give me a good aliby so that i won't have to go. (i know i sound like a brat) :(

2007-03-25 12:58:01 · 12 answers · asked by cassandra59 2 in Family

i had a best friend, we quit talking 3 years ago.. we work at the same shop. at that time she changed her phone number, and quit talking to me, never telling me what happened.. 3 months ago, i tried waving to her, we talked for a few days, she has been working 2 jobs. last week i tried waving again, we talked, a hi-lo driver decided to get in the middle. she came up to me a few days ago, accusing me of saying stuff about her(the hi-lo driver made her mad and the stories werent the same). anyways, we ended up talking and i asked her if she wanted to bury the hatchet, she agreed. we didnt talk that much about before.. she said lets start with e-mail and friends at work, i dont have her number yet. she gave me her e-mail and i asked if she wanted mine and she said she would get it when i wrote. I sent her a e-mail friday. she hasnt wrote back yet.. do you think i will get her number back and we will actually be close friends again?

2007-03-25 12:58:01 · 14 answers · asked by purplecat 1 in Friends

My friend Chris is a nice guy. hes a freshman and Im a sophmore. he had a crush on me when I was in 8th grade. He told me so. He always tells me Im beautiful, Im nice, and hot. He keeps hitting on me and wrote me a sappy note about how wonderful he thinks I am. My friend Bri tells him to stop hinting. Chris and I are just friends and will always be just friends. I dont know what to do about it anymore. he knows were just friends but he keeps hinting I should go out with someone who cares about my feelings and would never hurt me. Bri was like Chris stop hinting she should date you

2007-03-25 12:57:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres a guy at my school and i think he likes me and i like him too nd i was wondering whats a little sexy thing i can do to get his attention or turn him on? please dont tell me to grab his crotch ive only heard that 5 billion times. pervs...

2007-03-25 12:57:56 · 5 answers · asked by Hillary 1 in Singles & Dating

wat do u chiks want 2 see in a dude,like looks or pesonailty,im a good listener ,but apparently dat wuzzent enugh 4 ma uther ex-girl

2007-03-25 12:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was heavily into dominace when we met,which was fine with me. Now he rarely wants to "do it". He certainly doesn`t mind sitting online playing poker or watching movies or viewing pictures of half naked horney women.He still talks (OCCASIONALLY ) to ex girlfriends online/myspace but nothing more than everyday chitchat . He flirts at work (he is a paramedic and works 24 hr shifts) sometimes he has female partners and I get irritated with the flirting.He is only 30 GEEZE!

2007-03-25 12:57:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

(im in middle school)
5'4"
brown eyes
strong
hates it when guys are to cocky
funny
brown straight hair
size zero
likes sports exsept basketball
great personality
guys think i have big boobs and it bugs me when they tell everyone about it
thank you

2007-03-25 12:56:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

[ I posted this question before, but left out some things ]

Ok me & my ex were together for over 2 yrs and stopped talking a few months ago. His birthday is comming up on april 1st & i was going to send him a card & put in a CD of "our" songs inside. I do want him back & still love him even though we left things off on a bad note. I kno i am the one to blame for how our relationship ended and i want to do this so he knows i still care. He is not in a relationship and hasn't been since the time we broke up. I really dont want to just ignore his birthday because i can't stand being without him . Is this a bad idea? should i do it or not? any other suggestions? [ my birthday hasn't passed yet, for anoyone who asked if he had did anything for me on my birthday]

please no sarcastic remarks. all comments are appreciated though. THANKS SO MUCH !!

2007-03-25 12:56:26 · 6 answers · asked by babyz a queen ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

how long should grief take with the loss of a baby

2007-03-25 12:56:23 · 7 answers · asked by jerry w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u tell a guy that likes u, that u like him back. but r too shy to tell him?

2007-03-25 12:56:07 · 10 answers · asked by NIKKI 1 in Singles & Dating

This happens everytime she comes to my house. I dont blame her or him I just want it to stop

2007-03-25 12:55:43 · 27 answers · asked by heatherclhn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so do guys really care if u have glasses or braces?? i mean if ur classy, sweet, smart, fun to be around, beautiful even with them, then what? is it okay? do u actually care???

oh and do guys prefer....

no glasses or braces
braces
glasses
contacts/glasses alternated?

2007-03-25 12:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a girl cries her eyes out? LOL

2007-03-25 12:54:31 · 28 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 years old and my youngest brother is now 14 years old. After mum died, our older brothers fight for our custody .Me and and youngest brother have a different father from our older brothers. However, we had pretty much being raised together...but our age gap is huge. My oldest brother is 26, my second brother is 25 and my third bro is 22. My third older brother live with our oldest brother in the city nearby. After mum died, my oldest brother want me and my youngest brother live with him.However, my second older brother want us to live with him in our own house. Me and my youngest brother prefer to live with our second brother as he's kinda of a cool type of brother compare to our eldest brother which is known as a very strict brother. I had a history being slapped by my eldest brother when he caught me smoking.My youngest brother are also pretty much scared of our oldest brother too.We really want to stay with my second brother.Can we make our own decision here?

2007-03-25 12:54:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A group of three talking having a good conversation I am standing near this guy I thought his crush was over with me, and a lady standing on the other side of me, Every 5 minuets they guy moves a little closer to me, so I moves to see what he would do, then he moved closer to me again so I moved over again, he once again moved so close to me I could feal all over me. Whats up with that?

2007-03-25 12:54:24 · 5 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i'm on spring break right now and before spring break, i asked this dude out. he said "i dunno." will i get my answer back after spring break or never?

2007-03-25 12:54:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really not being a jerk here, I honestly don't understand that. Every elderly person I know has that scent about them and its not like they are using the product, it's just an overall scent. Why is that?

2007-03-25 12:53:51 · 3 answers · asked by Erin 3 in Friends

I'm 15 years old and my youngest brother is now 14 years old. After mum died, our older brothers fight for our custody .Me and and youngest brother have a different father from our older brothers. However, we had pretty much being raised together...but our age gap is huge. My oldest brother is 26, my second brother is 25 and my third bro is 22. My third older brother live with our oldest brother in the city nearby. After mum died, my oldest brother want me and my youngest brother live with him.However, my second older brother want us to live with him in our own house. Me and my youngest brother prefer to live with our second brother as he's kinda of a cool type of brother compare to our eldest brother which is known as a very strict brother. I had a history being slapped by my eldest brother when he caught me smoking.My youngest brother are also pretty much scared of our oldest brother too.We really want to stay with my second brother.Can we make our own decision here?

2007-03-25 12:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex is a con artist, fraud, lies about every detail of his life, also has a 10 year relationship with a girlfriend which he kept a secret.. Hes on myspace saying hes single.. He also is the type of guy everyone thinks is so nice and sweet-great looking- good job.. Your parents love him, then when hes alone with you he says things like "your an ugly s kank", "your dead father prob called you a w h*re", "no one like you B*itch", etc

I think someone like this needs to be exposed as afraud and an abuser, am i right?

2007-03-25 12:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Singles & Dating

I suspect my fiancee is cheating. I know some people call this entrapment but I have exhausted all other avenues and do not want to marry him if he isn't capable of being faithful to me. I heard that there are businesses who send women out to hit on your man and see if he can resist the temptation or not but can't seem to find any info on them. Can anyone help me out please??

2007-03-25 12:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 12:52:11 · 1 answers · asked by Erin 3 in Friends

my ex bf and i have been broken up for a few months now but we've remained good friends. He just went with me to a school dance as my date and he was really flirty and was constatnly touching me every chance he got. He's typically a shy guy and never really can just come out and say what he wants. It is his senior year and i think hes worried about going away to senior week and not being able to do what he wants and/or going away to collge and attempting at a long distance relationship. It's just every time we're near each other he's overly flirty and acts way more than just a friend. What do i do?

if it matters he was the one who broke up with me

2007-03-25 12:52:09 · 16 answers · asked by dazed&confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there anybody out there for me i am currently 14 going on 15 and i have never had a girlfriend

2007-03-25 12:51:50 · 18 answers · asked by anymous 2 in Singles & Dating

im going to try to word this without getting violated. the first time i go for about ten to fifteen min. if prompted right away. i can recover and start up again in about fifteen min. then i can go for anywhere between 30 and an hour and a half. those end times are primarly based on the woman throwing in the towel. very rarely can i finish the second time if the sessions are back to back. what im wondering is, is this normal? or is there something wrong with me. and ladies why do u get mad if a man cant get off the second time and ur calling it quits. cause obviously u got what u needed. i dont ever feel like its an insult to her if i cant. i know most girls want a guy who can last. but how long is to long.

2007-03-25 12:51:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes/No & Why?

2007-03-25 12:51:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She parties, drinks and makes out with another girl... why should she be punished? doesn't everybody get drunk once in a while... I am tired of people acting and expecting hollier than thou lives

2007-03-25 12:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by loutejada 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife is an extremely insecure woman who cheated on me while I was away from home securing a new job for us when we moved to Maryland. She blames me saying that she was lonely and it was a result of what she claims is two years of unhappiness that she never bothered to tell me about. I still love her and am willing to forgive her. But I'm not sure she wants to fix our marriage. Is there any hope or am I wasting my time? I don't know what to do. My family, my daughter, and my marriage are all that I have and all that have ever mattered to me in my life. Now I'm lost.

2007-03-25 12:50:48 · 23 answers · asked by Jason N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok when there is someone very outspoken i feel very intimidated.i dont want to feel like that any more .i want to have an outspken atitude. Being shy is not fun at all but i dont know how to be outspoken.im just quite when i sit in lunch with outspoken people.pleae help.i dont have friends either cuz of my attitude im tired and want to change.

2007-03-25 12:50:46 · 4 answers · asked by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 in Friends

i.e. with scantily-clad waitresses (not lap-dancing clubs, normal bars?)

2007-03-25 12:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating