How do you know when your grief is normal? feeling like i want to sleep alot but its hard to do normal things?

Question

how long should grief take with the loss of a baby

Answer 1

First of all, I'm so sorry. That has got to be the most horrible thing in the world to happen to you.

I lost my brother in law unexpectedly in Dec. right before Christmas. It was terrible. The whole family is still feeling the pain. His wife and daughters say, it only gets worse, not easier.

His mother says, I've lost parents, a husband, siblings, but your child is not supposed to die before you. She said it's the hardest thing in the world that she's ever gone through.

My husband gets more and more withdrawn, to the point we finally went to the dr. They put him on antidepressents. His mother and sister in law are both taking antidepressants.

I know some people don't like taking medication, but it really does help. Even taking medication it's going to take a long time to get over your grief.

I know about depression and sleep is what I always want to do, because you don't have to think. You waste your life away though. You've got to start living again someday.

My heart goes out to you. I know seeing a Dr. is a step forward. But, I know it will take a long time for your heart to heal. Don't rush it. Take each day one step at a time.

Answer 2

As long as it takes. Grieving over a loss of a baby or family member, can take a long time or short time for some people. But, if it is affecting your marriage and that you are still grieving and it has been years and years, and it is affecting everyone around you even your job, then maybe you need to seek counseling for yourself and spouse.

It is normal to do the things you mention here, but you need to move on with your life. Sometimes talking about your feelings does help with the healing.

Sorry to hear of your loss. Just think of the good and happy memories you had with your baby while he/she was alive. Your child will always be there in your heart, always. If you have other kids, go and hug them and never let go. Give your spouse a hug, because you both can use some comfort from one another.

Answer 3

Asking others who have also lost a baby will help you realize that everything you are feeling is normal. I don't think you ever get over it, it just gets easier to continue to live without constant outward grief. But the heart will remain torn. After all the baby has been torn from you. Give yourself a year. Journal your thoughts even if only once a week. After a year's time, look back over your journal. If you aren't seeing progress, seek professional help. Just reaching out and asking and wanting to think about doing normal things is a small step your progress. Though remember there is no set time line.

Answer 4

Oh, I am so sorry for your loss.... others I'm sure will answer better than me, as they may have experienced similar tragedies.
However, I don't know that one ever gets over it, but whatever grief you are feeling and how you are dealing with things has got to be totally normal. It wouldn't be unusual to just want to shut out the whole world. Again, so sorry.

Answer 5

I cannot say how long it takes to get through grief. We lost our son 2 years ago and it still hurts. My husband and I both went to our doctors and talked to them about the same feelings you are having.
Please see your doctor about what is bothering you. They can help you get back to living a semi-normal life again. And don't let people tell you that time heals all wounds because I don't think this is anything I will get over soon but now I can cope.
Good luck to you and take care of yourself.

Answer 6

First of all you need to see a medical doctor asap as what you are feeling is signs of depression and hopelessness. You may need medication and medical help for this. You may also very well need counseling and therapy for how you are feeling. My heart goes out to you and i feel your pain. Losing a baby is VERY hard to heal from and get past the pain of. You have my condolences. Here comes lots of hugs your way. It is very hard for you to do normal things as you are going through some major depression and you will need help and therapy to try to get past this. You are in my prayers. I pray that God will lift you up in his loving arms today and comfort and hold you in a special way. Someday you will see your precious little baby in heaven.

Answer 7

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