I'm 15 years old and my youngest brother is now 14 years old. After mum died, our older brothers fight for our custody .Me and and youngest brother have a different father from our older brothers. However, we had pretty much being raised together...but our age gap is huge. My oldest brother is 26, my second brother is 25 and my third bro is 22. My third older brother live with our oldest brother in the city nearby. After mum died, my oldest brother want me and my youngest brother live with him.However, my second older brother want us to live with him in our own house. Me and my youngest brother prefer to live with our second brother as he's kinda of a cool type of brother compare to our eldest brother which is known as a very strict brother. I had a history being slapped by my eldest brother when he caught me smoking.My youngest brother are also pretty much scared of our oldest brother too.We really want to stay with my second brother.Can we make our own decision here?
2007-03-25 12:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the judge will listen to your wishes because of your age.. i would not tell the judge he is cool and that is why you want to live with him.. instead say that .. that is your home and you dont get alone with the older brother.. you could even say that he once slapped you and what the reason was..saying that he is cool implys he let you do as you want to not what you should be doing.. just say that you live in your home for how many years you lived there that it holds a lot of memories.. that you and your brother get along great and that is were you feel safe...
2007-03-25 13:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, sorry to hear about your situation! I feel for you hun!
They're all adults so it wouldn't make a difference of oldest and you two are of age where your wishes will hold a lot of weight. Although, living arrangements will be brought up if the brother you want to live with can support you will be a big factor. Could you not try talking to the brother who is being quite selfish of your needs. 26 is young to lose a mum but 15 and 14 is in a different league, you don't know who you are yet. And what can make you the nearest to happy after losing your mum is most important. Besides, it's not set in stone, if it doesn't work out sort something out then. You're old enough to decide. Between family it shouldn't have to go to court. Although you should be glad that they want you. They obviously love you a lot, even if it doesn't come accross that way! Good luck huni! x x
2007-03-25 13:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by L*D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by fote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya'll will probably all have to go infront of a judge and your brothers will have to show who is the most stable and financially set to take care of you and your brother. Word of warning ,if they are going to fight over ya'll you could both end up in foster care untill it is resolved,so if this can be handled nicely between the brothers,the better it will be.
2007-03-25 13:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell the judge that you and your litle brother wants to live with your brothers. I don't know if he'll let you though. It is up to him if he thinks that your brothers are miture enough to take care of you guys. If he shows that he isn't then the jusdge gets to pick. SO GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-25 13:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the judge will listen to your opinion and rule what he thinks is best. Being a "cool type" is not really much of a qualification.
2007-03-25 12:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a custody battle i would imagin that at your age your wishes would be respected unless there was a good reason too why you should live elsewhere
2007-03-25 12:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not sure but i just want to say im very sorry for the difficult time you must be having.
2007-03-25 12:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋