I'm 15 years old and my youngest brother is now 14 years old. After mum died, our older brothers fight for our custody .Me and and youngest brother have a different father from our older brothers. However, we had pretty much being raised together...but our age gap is huge. My oldest brother is 26, my second brother is 25 and my third bro is 22. My third older brother live with our oldest brother in the city nearby. After mum died, my oldest brother want me and my youngest brother live with him.However, my second older brother want us to live with him in our own house. Me and my youngest brother prefer to live with our second brother as he's kinda of a cool type of brother compare to our eldest brother which is known as a very strict brother. I had a history being slapped by my eldest brother when he caught me smoking.My youngest brother are also pretty much scared of our oldest brother too.We really want to stay with my second brother.Can we make our own decision here?
2007-03-25 12:54:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well i think the best for you is to go move in with your oldest brother. for you and your younger brother being only 14-15 yrs of ago you can not make you own decision until 18. thats just by law. but i think living with you oldest brohter would benefit yourself and your younger brother. i mean he slapped you because he caught you smoking. and BTW why are you smoking at your age anyways? smoking is bad, once hooked its very hard to stop. just remember cool is one thing but cool donest last for along time. FYI im the same age as your brother im 23 now and acutally just turnned 23. but anyways i think living with some one that is more strict will guide you to a better future. of course like i said the cool factor will only last a certain time. being 22 i think the cool factor should have changed already. just remember in the real world being "cool" doesnt get you anywhere and it sure doesnt get you a job or anything. but being obedient and displined will. just food for thought.
2007-03-25 13:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by anthony y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at this age, i am sure the judge may let u speak at the hearing to tell of your preferences. ur eldest brother needs anger management, but he does seem to be looking out for u. u don't need to start smoking at your age. do u know what an ugly habit that is.
2007-03-25 13:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not choose, but the family court judge should take your opinions into consideration.
2007-03-25 12:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can choose! as long as the one you choose is aresponsible person
2007-03-25 12:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Douglas M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try emanicapated minor
2007-03-25 12:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋