i had a best friend, we quit talking 3 years ago.. we work at the same shop. at that time she changed her phone number, and quit talking to me, never telling me what happened.. 3 months ago, i tried waving to her, we talked for a few days, she has been working 2 jobs. last week i tried waving again, we talked, a hi-lo driver decided to get in the middle. she came up to me a few days ago, accusing me of saying stuff about her(the hi-lo driver made her mad and the stories werent the same). anyways, we ended up talking and i asked her if she wanted to bury the hatchet, she agreed. we didnt talk that much about before.. she said lets start with e-mail and friends at work, i dont have her number yet. she gave me her e-mail and i asked if she wanted mine and she said she would get it when i wrote. I sent her a e-mail friday. she hasnt wrote back yet.. do you think i will get her number back and we will actually be close friends again?
2007-03-25 12:58:01 · 14 answers · asked by purplecat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we agreed to bury the hatchet... she told me what happened, she accused me of obsessing, i told her she couldnt blame that all on me she had me conditioned to talk that much. at one time we would work all day, she would call constantly or want me to pick her up.i told her we were both guilty, she agreed. we were extremely close and knew everything about the other, had songs. i learned from what happened.. i feel as long as i dont e-mail her until she responds or dont go outta my way at work to see her, things will be great.. it takes 2 to tangle. i think she said lets start with e-mail and work friends to test me if i'm gonna obsess, like if i dont then i feel she will give me her number and we will be close again, what do you think?
2007-03-25 13:23:51 · update #1
well its been 2 weeks since we started talking, I got her e-mail and phone number and a hug every day.. everything is good.
2007-03-31 11:32:30 · update #2
Yes, but the break apart is a symptom, that you need to work on your communication. let her know you value her as a friend and that you never want to go through that again...
2007-04-02 12:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be impolite but you should really go back and appear at what you wrote and suppose about it. It does sound a little bit like obsessing and i rather do not understand why. This lady does now not look like she relatively cares about you. I wouldn't need to be friends with someone who put boundries on how so much she wanted to talk to me. If she cared about you as so much as you appear to care about her she would want to speak to you at any time when you needed anyone to talk to. You had been certainly not fairly fine acquaintances if she could discontinue speakme to you for three years anyway. You must realize that some men and women want area and want to have a couple of buddy, however even as she looks like she is kinda simply maintain you round for when she is bored. I consider that you simply will have to simply play it cool and stop expecting some thing from her. She is just not the kind of individual who you wish to have to be your first-rate friend anyway, on account that she acts funny with you. Transfer on girl get some new friends. Friends a good way to appreciate you and make certain you provide them their space as well.
2016-08-10 21:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by brandl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude but you should really go back and look at what you wrote and think about it. It does sound a little like obsessing and I really don't understand why. This girl does not seem like she really cares about you. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who put boundries on how much she wanted to talk to me. If she cared about you as much as you seem to care about her she would want to talk to you whenever you needed someone to talk to. You were never really great friends if she could stop talking to you for 3 years anyway.
You have to understand that some people need space and want to have more than one friend, but at the same time she seems like she is kinda just keep you around for when she is bored. I think that you should just play it cool and stop expecting anything from her. She is not the type of person who you want to be your best friend anyway, because she acts funny with you. Move on girl get some new friends. Friends that will appreciate you and make sure you give them their space as well.
2007-04-02 12:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by lyndsyherard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and just have a sit down. Straighten things out. Like asking her to go for a walk and just talk. It will take a while so be patient. Reconnect with her and keep that friendship going and I know someday, you will be best friends again If not better.
2014-07-15 21:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very interesting...i think yes you will be friends again...i feel like there is still a flame of friendship burning deep down ur hearts for eachother though it may seem to u that things aren't the way they were before between you two...just go ahead and speak to her face to face. ask her whats wrong with her, ask directly and in a straighfrward manner...no matter what she thinks about you....be the first one again to regain her trust...i m sure things will become much better between you and her... good luck!
2007-03-25 13:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Sid~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
k me and my friend were bffl but then we had a fight but if u are really best friends no matter what u will forgive eachother and if she is ur bestfriend she will respond just give her a while to find reason to forget all the bad things that happened like a good time when u guys were best friend but u can't just snap ur fingers and hope ur friends again
2007-03-25 13:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect her response to include her phone number just yet.
Over time it's possible that you'll become close again. it just won't be the same as what it once was.
2007-03-25 13:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by All I can be is me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hop you will be as closed friends again like b4.
first do something interesting togerhter. like shoping.
you can go this website and buy a gift for her.
www.in-brands.com.
the thing on that website is very good
2007-04-01 22:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by nana s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will become friends again but not like before and slowley u wil become friends don't rush her leave her 2 gather her thoughts and u gather ur thoughts and slowley get closer 2 her til u become friends
GOOD LUCK
2007-04-02 08:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't email you back withen 2 weeks and she dosent give u her phone number and you guys dont talk much at work or out side of work than just say the hell with it.
2007-03-25 13:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋