Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

i had this bf he reallly liked me on valentines day he asked me out n i sed yh thn i felt wrong ppl were callin me sly cause i finished him was i or was i a right decision cause i didnt like him in tht way plzz help

2007-03-07 21:50:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I met this girl exactly 3 months ago, and I fell in love with her the minute I saw her. We started hanging out, drinking, partying, even smoking, it was the best. The first month, we just hanged out as friends, then I told her how I feel, and she did not want any relationship because she did not have the same feelings and she had a BF. The second month, we did it all, we kissed, we had sex, and she broke up with her BF, I dont know why.. We go out every day, we act like a accouple, everywhere, but when I tell her I love her, she always like gets emotional and she is scared to say it back to me. But today I told her, like a joke, "why do I love you" she got mad and went outside. I asked her later what happened, and she said that she was feeling it everyday more and more that she was falling in love. One other time she said that she was falling in love with me, but we were really drunk, so who knows. I wanna know if she is scared because of her past, or she just doesnt give a ****?

2007-03-07 21:49:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I admit I have a difficult situation. My ex still lives with me until she can find a new place. But now I get to see first hand how easy it is for women to find a new guy and show her how difficult it is for me to find a woman. She went all dirty and is dating two guys at once and has the decentcy to tell one of them the "I love you" haha. Ain't love grand. So here I am single and signed up to three sites. Where 90% of every responce is someone trying to solicit me into signing up to another site so I can see her "explicit" pictures. So next time your on a single site and some guy gives you the typical message that looks cut and pasted don't be offended because the chances he has of you being a real profile are like 10% at best lol. /rant .... comments?

2007-03-07 21:48:59 · 8 answers · asked by massure4hire 5 in Singles & Dating

most of the time when i like someone they like me back!! even if its to different degree. but very rarely have i liked a girl and she doesnt have any attraction to me! i find this is often the case with my friends too.

anyways else think this is true?>

2007-03-07 21:47:38 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 3 in Singles & Dating

like should i wait 4 the 1st date, second date... etc.

2007-03-07 21:46:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

H ALPHABAT BOTH GIRL AND BOY

2007-03-07 21:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there this guy who loves his best frnd`s wife n she loves him too soo they date n cheat on their partners soo Monday he goes with his best frnd`s wife n take her to a motel n gets a room they are really turned on n they start with oral in the way before they get in to the room accidentally they take the wrong turn n open the wrong room wich was unlocked n guess what they seee???well he sees that his best frnd whos wife he was out with is havin sex with his wife.....

2007-03-07 21:44:35 · 16 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that two women I have a first date with are friends. They know each other from college class. I don't want to break their hearts. One is very pretty, and the other is very bright. How do I choose? Do I tell them both that I'm seeing their friend?

2007-03-07 21:43:43 · 4 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

im jst asked a gurk out 4 the first time.... we have been frineds 2gether for 2 years... so how should i make the first night enjoyable.....

p.s. were only going to go out in the afternooon, and not in evenings because our parebts dont want us dating at all....

2007-03-07 21:42:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i believe in friendship a lot and lot this is an invitation for friend who would like my friendship ...are u ready for a decent ..sharing ... believable ..trustable friendship

2007-03-07 21:42:26 · 26 answers · asked by tamanaahamed 3 in Friends

i brookup with my boyfriend,now is not same,is outher boy

2007-03-07 21:42:06 · 20 answers · asked by yonela 1 in Singles & Dating

Well for me, i got passively talkin to somebody via one of these pages who thinks i'm as wonderful, as i think she is lovely. However names have been ommited to protect the innocent, as i'm certain she knows exactly who she is.......
Publicly, however privately........Michael J. Lox
Mmwwwaaahhh xxxx

2007-03-07 21:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by michael j 3 in Friends

With Lancelot?
Guinevere

2007-03-07 21:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 21:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by stacey p 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl goes to the same church i do, she and i were cool just 2 weeks ago, all of a sudden she stopped talking to me,i have asked her why and she gives me no answer. idunno , do you think she might like me? got annoyed with me and she doesnt wanna even see me ? i mean i have her as a friend on myspace and she has me as a top friend and well even through this time that we havent talked she still has me as a top friend and infact just today i checked and she moved me up one more space and yes i know its only myspace but we know each other and see each other every week... so whats the deal with this girl , she moves me up but doesnt wanna talk to me? like i said, i have asked her if idid something wrong and she doesnt give me an answer. what do i do or say ..... or what do you girls think. any advice would be appreciate it. by the way , we have already gone out on group dates...we have had our laughs and small talks.

2007-03-07 21:38:32 · 7 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Singles & Dating

its about my bf and its not bloody showin up n i need help!!

2007-03-07 21:38:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is one guy in my class and try being frein... with me only to me not with other girls my friends blame that may he has a crush on me, what to do should I be frien.. with him, I love someone else from 6 yrs help me and for helping me.

2007-03-07 21:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by Rumana 2 in Friends

My first sexal experience was when I was 12. My little sister had a babysitter (a college girl - around 21) whose boyfriend was supposed to come over and hang out with her, but he was drinking at a friends house, apparently.

She got mad and started talking to me:
"Have you ever kissed a girl?" and "Haveyou ever done it?"

I was a good looking kid (still am) and she went on and on and to make a long story short, she "showed" me how to kiss, french kiss, wht a BJ was and what it felt like "inside" of a girl!

I know, I know, these days that's called "molestation."

But I gotta tell you, it was the greatest day of my life!!! She was hot, had a fantastic body, and I was in paradise! and I'm certainly no worse for the wear! I'm as normal as rain.

But my question is this:
If the tables had been turned, and the babysitter was a boy and the 12 y.o. was a girl, why is that worse in the eyes of society?

I mean, looking back, it was just freakishly good luck!

2007-03-07 21:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by The Burninator 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is so attractive. He's just so nice; I've never met anyone like him, or been treated so well.

I just met him, but I'd like to ask him out. Is it okay to tell him I admire him for being such a nice guy?

Or would he be put off?

2007-03-07 21:37:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm widowed, white, with1son, age 20, that my late husband and I adopted when he was an infant; fine young man and love him dearly. He is of "mixed race" (white/black)and began dating a wonderful girl about 1 yr ago. (white)The girl's mother has real "issues" with her daughter dating my son (due to race) and kicked her out of the house several months ago. I took her in and she lives with me and my son now. She has a job and attends college part time, so does my son and both help at home. For the most part, it's an arrangement that seems to be working well. I often "feel" for her (the girlfriend) cause her Mom hardly ever calls her,sometimes emails, but it's usually negative contact. There's a sister & Dad, but they don't want to "rock the boat", I assume, and don't contact her much either, although they are on friendlier terms. I can see this hurts her. I don't pry, but want to help without causing more pain;she may be my daughter-in-law some day. Any suggestions?

2007-03-07 21:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by EvelynMine 7 in Family

My first sexal experience was when I was 12. My little sister had a babysitter (a college girl - around 21) whose boyfriend was supposed to come over and hang out with her, but he was drinking at a friends house, apparently.

She got mad and started talking to me:
"Have you ever kissed a girl?" and "Haveyou ever done it?"

I was a good looking kid (still am) and she went on and on and to make a long story short, she "showed" me how to kiss, french kiss, wht a BJ was and what it felt like "inside" of a girl!

I know, I know, these days that's called "molestation."

But I gotta tell you, it was the greatest day of my life!!! She was hot, had a fantastic body, and I was in paradise! and I'm certainly no worse for the wear! I'm as normal as rain.

But my question is this:
If the tables had been turned, and the babysitter was a boy and the 12 y.o. was a girl, why is that worse in the eyes of society?

I mean, looking back, it was just freakishly good luck!

2007-03-07 21:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by The Burninator 1 in Singles & Dating

i've had friends ask him out for me but he always says no i need some advice! how should i ask him?

2007-03-07 21:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the weekend the guy i have liked for the last yr told me he liked me too. He broke up with his girl after a huge fight.. I know they were not happy anyway and he was just lookin for a way out. He asked me why i never told him how i felt and all i could say was i didnt know. But the reason was because one of our mutual friends kept puttin me down on him. She said things like u know it will never work u will never be with him....... if u tell him u will loose him completly... So i kept my mouth shut. She even had the nerve to tell me he went back to his ex last night tryin to get me mad. {which totally worked} and i asked him and he told me no. Why does she not want to see us together she has an ol man. And how am i Supposed to talk to him and go about all this. He has told me he loves me and i am the only one he wants.. there r kids involved he has a nine yr old and i Have a two yr old and they love us together. She even calls him dad!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME OUT ON THIS.....

2007-03-07 21:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by ann 1 in Singles & Dating

if someone ask you out what will you say??
1youngman older than me only 1 year and half he asked me out but i say no, and he ask me again i say don't know yet. we just met each other only nearly 1 month. next day he asked me for my mobile number, he took a paper and a pen out for me to write my number, then i said let me think first, 5mins later i still not write my number. then he said write you number down please, i said no! because i don't trust him. next day he go to my father and asked to take me out. next day he came up to see me and i was not please, but he was happy to see me, he dressed smart looking good. i like him a bit but i am worried that he does not really love me.
what will you do, and what should i tell him if he carry on asking me out again??? sould i take this chance or...???

2007-03-07 21:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by GonE 3 in Singles & Dating

i asked a this hot and sexy guy out last week
and he said, "sorry i have a boyfriend, i'm gay."
i was like "umm..... yeah good for you, i have to go.........." then i spyed on him and i saw the whole thing!
this other hot guy came and they were like kissing and kissing!
it was very disturbing for me.
he didn't look or talk gay at all.
how can i make this not happen again???
why are gay guyz so fu*cking hot?

2007-03-07 21:28:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone know anywere good in east riding that i can go for my 18th birthday in may? i want a night out with all my friends, like clubs and stuff, but im scared about all the fights that go on, and rapes, getting spiked, and having things stolen from me! IS THERE ANYWERE NICE THAT THIS IS LESS LIKELY TO HAPPEN IN? plz help, i want my 18th to be a good night! to remember! fanx xxx

2007-03-07 21:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

find it difficult to get a boyfriend? I have a friend like this, and sarah is it seems is just wanted for one thing by men.
I am a straight man by the way.

2007-03-07 21:26:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm 25, went out clubbing @ WKEND (I know I shoulden't be doing that at my age!!), met a nice guy, good looking, real gent, he took my number, been txting/talking and he asked me out....all good! Found out yesterday only 19yrs old and at college...I feel a bit weird about it all, what do you think?...

2007-03-07 21:26:24 · 23 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i liv in dlhi .doing buisness. nw fling alone ,depresed .want company of gud freind.

2007-03-07 21:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by gagan g 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I have gotten online so many times to try to diagnose my boyfriends problem. I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't find the answer. My boyfriend wouldn't have sex with me in the first few months of our relationship, which I was okay with. But it upset me when he wasn't eager to be sexual with me, but I always found porn on his computer, & he always looked at girls. It made me feel kind of unattractive. After a while I finally convinced him... He is 30 years old... to have sex with me... I also found out that he was a virgin at 30! He masturbated a lot, but he doesn't masturbate like everyone else. He said when he was young he tried doing it the way that you are "supposed" to, with a fist and an up and down motion, but he said it just felt weird and he didn't like it. This is what I was used to when masturbating anybody I was with. But he likes to have the skin right below the head of his penis pulled and almost pinched and rubbed. He has a lot of excess skin, and he likes it pulled tightly and then the extra skin almost "massaged". He doesn't like the up and down, and if you stop touching his penis, he loses his erection quickly. We have tried to have sex, but we are very unsuccessful since he doesn't like the up and down motion, and I obviously can't pull his skin with my vagina. He has a large penis, and it is hard to get it in, then it starts to lose its hardness, and we can't do it anyway. It makes me feel very unsuccessful as a lover and a woman. I love him, and he is very emotionally supportive, but I am just so terrified we won't have a sex life EVER! It has been 3 years of no sex, and it is not his fault, he has tried... but I don't know what is wrong with him, or why he can't do it the normal way, and why I can't help him. I want to have kids, and with no intercourse, that isn't happening... I was wondering if this could be a form of Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome? If that is what it is... what can I do about it? I am still so lost... I just want to make love to the man I love without having problems and getting frustrated... Because it hurts both of us...
Thanks...

2007-03-07 21:25:28 · 2 answers · asked by JadeEyez 1 in Singles & Dating