Over the weekend the guy i have liked for the last yr told me he liked me too. He broke up with his girl after a huge fight.. I know they were not happy anyway and he was just lookin for a way out. He asked me why i never told him how i felt and all i could say was i didnt know. But the reason was because one of our mutual friends kept puttin me down on him. She said things like u know it will never work u will never be with him....... if u tell him u will loose him completly... So i kept my mouth shut. She even had the nerve to tell me he went back to his ex last night tryin to get me mad. {which totally worked} and i asked him and he told me no. Why does she not want to see us together she has an ol man. And how am i Supposed to talk to him and go about all this. He has told me he loves me and i am the only one he wants.. there r kids involved he has a nine yr old and i Have a two yr old and they love us together. She even calls him dad!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME OUT ON THIS.....
2007-03-07 21:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are concerned about the kids...try to see each other w/o the kids around or at least don't show alot of affection toward each other in the presence of the kids.....you wouldn't want to devestate them...but otheriwse sounds like you really like each other....test the waters and be blessed!
2007-03-07 21:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Godsent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings are mutual so what are you still waiting for and there's no problem with the kids!
Do you really still value what your friend said?? Is it out of pure concern and love for you or is it just plain jealousy.
And if you have any doubts always go directly to the concerned person and not listen to others because it might be distorted.
If it comes to love, it's always best to follow your heart and not somebody's decision.
if it didn't work at least you've tried and you'll never wonder and asked the 'what ifs'. But if it works, good for you!
2007-03-08 05:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ann, Sounds like your friend is jealous of you. Maybe she isn't as happy as she puts on. Tell your friend to stay out of your business and stop trying to keep you from being happy.It sounds like your daughter has found someone she really likes and his child really likes you. Listen to your heart Ann and have a good life and a happy life.You both sound like a prefect match. Go for it and have a great life together.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-08 05:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate friends like that and why is she not happy for you? I would tell her to mind her own affairs and leave u to at least get a chance to know this guy.
The guy says he likes u and the kids enjoy both of your company and thats all that matters.....
2007-03-08 05:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, when i first started reading this i thought you guys were in school, but you're adults, talk more to each other than listening to so called friends that dont even have a vested interest, you have children involved, take resposibility for them and yourselves
2007-03-08 05:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront your friend.. ask her why she did what she did.. tell her that you value your friendship with her very much, and you want her to feel happy for you... see what's her reply and reaction... hope you can still keep your friendship at the same time live happily ever after with that lucky guy.. good luck Ann
2007-03-08 05:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by cuteandnotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right to you. Don't let friends choose who you will be with. You should be with someone who makes you happy. Tell your friend that it's none of her business who you're with. If you're happy with him, then I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-08 05:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was you i would not list to wast she had to say she does want to see you to together i would just go and see him tell him how you feel and tell her to buss off and that you are going with him OK good luck
2007-03-08 05:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give your freind the *** , freinds are your support network , they arent meant to be liars and munipulating , i would suggest you give your freind the *** , and follow your heart , which it sounds like you are doing , what right does your freind have to make you feel like crap when you need support. tell your freind to go hump a donkey
2007-03-08 05:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend is a little jealous... just tell the truth.. if he really does like you that much then it should work out.. if not then good luck...
2007-03-08 05:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by LION 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋