My first sexal experience was when I was 12. My little sister had a babysitter (a college girl - around 21) whose boyfriend was supposed to come over and hang out with her, but he was drinking at a friends house, apparently.
She got mad and started talking to me:
"Have you ever kissed a girl?" and "Haveyou ever done it?"
I was a good looking kid (still am) and she went on and on and to make a long story short, she "showed" me how to kiss, french kiss, wht a BJ was and what it felt like "inside" of a girl!
I know, I know, these days that's called "molestation."
But I gotta tell you, it was the greatest day of my life!!! She was hot, had a fantastic body, and I was in paradise! and I'm certainly no worse for the wear! I'm as normal as rain.
But my question is this:
If the tables had been turned, and the babysitter was a boy and the 12 y.o. was a girl, why is that worse in the eyes of society?
I mean, looking back, it was just freakishly good luck!
2007-03-07 21:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by The Burninator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
buddy i envy you for that! damn lucky bastard i wish that wouldve happend to me! but uh to answer your more serious question, well yeah i believe that would be seen as worse in todays world.... why? because us guys are pretty much born with crazy hormones and we love the booty , the boobies and all that good stuff that women have, but if a 21 yr old guy was having sex with a 12 yr old girl it would definetly be worse cause welll i dont really have an answer to that but i guess just cause and i mean there is no way to know if a dude has had sex but a 12 yr old girl having sex at that age is just wrong! for us men its totally different.
2007-03-07 21:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Cj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and u right as rain u say?? not all guys would have liked that u know...then it would have been bad in the eyes of society.
But u have a point, but u need to keep in mind that not all is fair where a women and man is concerned.
Like if a man sleeps around: he is a player (considered a bad boy), if a women does that: she is considered a s.l.u.t (with the likings of a prostitute)
So...not all is fair.
2007-03-07 21:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by palmisciano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed upi used to babysit two boys when i was 16-17 and one was 14-15 and the other 9-10 and i would never of done stuff like to to his
2007-03-07 21:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha well, in public society, that would be all good, but in court, it would still be looked on just as bad as a 21yr old boy doing a 12 yr old girl...guess i better leave the kids i babysit alone from now on...ha ha ha
2007-03-07 21:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by 8-tentacles-of-AAnsweroni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you had a 12yr old daughter and you found out that the babysitter had done that to her how would you feel about that?
2007-03-07 21:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by nicola s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is a typical fantasy. .i doubt the true content..and if the tables were turned, what would you actually do?? be honest..
2007-03-07 21:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens by a worst culture and un controled youth.
2007-03-07 21:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must have been a desperate hoe bag, i dont care how attractive you are, you were 12! sick!
2007-03-07 21:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋