My first sexal experience was when I was 12. My little sister had a babysitter (a college girl - around 21) whose boyfriend was supposed to come over and hang out with her, but he was drinking at a friends house, apparently.
She got mad and started talking to me:
"Have you ever kissed a girl?" and "Haveyou ever done it?"
I was a good looking kid (still am) and she went on and on and to make a long story short, she "showed" me how to kiss, french kiss, wht a BJ was and what it felt like "inside" of a girl!
I know, I know, these days that's called "molestation."
But I gotta tell you, it was the greatest day of my life!!! She was hot, had a fantastic body, and I was in paradise! and I'm certainly no worse for the wear! I'm as normal as rain.
But my question is this:
If the tables had been turned, and the babysitter was a boy and the 12 y.o. was a girl, why is that worse in the eyes of society?
I mean, looking back, it was just freakishly good luck!
2007-03-07 21:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by The Burninator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was 10 (girl) and my younger brothers had the babysitter (guy). I was given a crash course in hand jobs and blow jobs at 10. It doesn't matter whether you are a girl or boy. It is still a violation on your body. You still have the same feelings and emotions after the fact. And it is still illegal.
2007-03-07 23:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings are just that. But wrong is wrong no mater the age or sex of the "victim" You say it was no big deal, well I'm thinking something got screwed up somewhere if your talking about how good it felt. It is wrong, it was wrong, and I hope you don't think it's ok to show a little girl or little boy how to kiss or have sex. That's an experience in itself and should be shared by and with someone they care for when the time is right. Shame on her. Sometimes I think this world of ours has gone to hell, no morals left at all. And if your of legal age now, shame on you for thinking it's ok. I pray you can restrain from the need to share these feelings with another child. You will scar a child for life if you force your attentions on them. It's wrong, wrong, wrong. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-07 22:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys and girls have different states of mind and developement at different ages.That could be a reason. What I really think though is that what happened to you 'was' molestation. She should not have taken advantage of you like that. But really if it feels like its molestation, boy or girl, then it is.
2007-03-07 21:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly yes there is more punishment for a male that molests a girl than a female molesting a boy
2007-03-07 22:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would make a difference if it is actual molestation. it seems to me that what you had going on there was not molestation :))
if a sexual experience is non consensual, it's called rape. but you didn't get raped. so why worry? good for you man!
2007-03-07 21:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard and different for the girls!
Because there was something that will be lost for the girl.
2007-03-07 22:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says the gender matters? Molestation is molestation, whatever the gender is.
2007-03-07 21:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl will sufer more...
2007-03-07 21:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by sharesave_world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋