Well I admit I have a difficult situation. My ex still lives with me until she can find a new place. But now I get to see first hand how easy it is for women to find a new guy and show her how difficult it is for me to find a woman. She went all dirty and is dating two guys at once and has the decentcy to tell one of them the "I love you" haha. Ain't love grand. So here I am single and signed up to three sites. Where 90% of every responce is someone trying to solicit me into signing up to another site so I can see her "explicit" pictures. So next time your on a single site and some guy gives you the typical message that looks cut and pasted don't be offended because the chances he has of you being a real profile are like 10% at best lol. /rant .... comments?
2007-03-07 21:48:59 · 8 answers · asked by massure4hire 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and these sites the guy is usually the one that pays for the membership so the women can contact him too.
2007-03-07 21:56:20 · update #1
LoL ok ok... Online isn't be best place to look I know but I work nights thats why I'm online so much and also kills the social scene of dinner and a movie since I work at 11pm
2007-03-07 21:58:29 · update #2
lol women ...psh... putting words in my mouth already lol jk... i'm not complaining I'm single I know I can find a woman... I've actually turned down some fine women in my condo's gym and a neighbor thats hot too just because I don't want that local spy drama if the relationship goes bad. I'm just refering to the ease it is for you all.
2007-03-07 22:11:36 · update #3
They have no idea. Women never really have to risk rejection. Any single guy is rejected more in a week than most women are in their entire lives.
All a woman needs to do is sit back, act as if she might open her legs then pick and choose from the many offers that come her way.
Dating sites are basically scams and they are extremely profitable. It doesn't take a genius to see how bad guys have it, and how much money it is possible to extract from them if they think they might find someone.
2007-03-07 21:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Okay, I am not sure what your complaint is. Are you complaining because you don't have a new woman yet? If so, then run some personals but pick sites that are not "adult" per say unless you are just looking to get it on with some woman. I would suggest a word of caution, when you find someone you are insterested in, be upfront and let them know you and the ex are still living together.
Many woman have the ability to use sex as a way to get a man because we all know "sex sells". However men have the ability to find out how to be a man and what women are looking for and "sell" that as well. In most cases what both groups find out, is that people are not whom and what they say they are. Which is using others to get what you want. So be upfront and honest and be patient and the women will come to you.
2007-03-07 22:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be bitter and desperate looking now...
She cheesed you off and is there coz you still love her honestly, and arent aware. I'd tell her to get her hiny ho out the door. I'm sure one of these two guys she's seeing can put a roof over her head dont you? She isnt really your problem...
Its not easy for us ladies too. We get burnt, then have idiotic women who tarnish our stance by acting skanky. We are scared to just allow any guy who goes "here i'm available" in. You never know when you're inviting a serial killer in your life or giving a rapist or plain jerk a free pass. so we'd like to choose for ourselves, with intuition helping and hopeing we arent choosing a heart burden or danger...
PS: Kick that woman out now!!!
2007-03-07 22:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok first of all your question implies that I would care what a man would go through...lol..lol..lol Just kidding. Why are you looking for love online? By the way....sounds like you need fun..forget looking for a new "girlfriend" instead look for a way to have some fun....when you get comfortable with yourself and your own life....then it will be more inviting to a lady..think about it....
2007-03-07 21:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Godsent 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, in answer to shark boy, do you really think women are going to WANT a man who only comes cause she "spread her legs"??? Grow up. He's talking about a relationship, not a sex drive.
I'm sorry it's hard for you, give it time, it will heal. Just ignore your ex and her bfs.
But dude, stop being so pathetic. This isn't quite all that normal. There ARE online GUY "studs" you're just not one of them. Get over it, there are others. Online dating is for rather desperate people so trust me, the girls aren't getting loads of offers.
2007-03-07 22:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all player you need to get off of yahoo answers. You answered too many damn questions for someone who is looking for a woman. Spend less time on the net and find a woman.
2007-03-07 21:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't be jealous. If you started dating first she would feel the same way you are right now. usually men start dating right away because that's how many men get over a relationship by jumping into a new one so now you know what women go through.
2007-03-07 21:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes we do because we go through the same thing a you do didn't you know that
2007-03-07 21:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋