Okay, I met this girl exactly 3 months ago, and I fell in love with her the minute I saw her. We started hanging out, drinking, partying, even smoking, it was the best. The first month, we just hanged out as friends, then I told her how I feel, and she did not want any relationship because she did not have the same feelings and she had a BF. The second month, we did it all, we kissed, we had sex, and she broke up with her BF, I dont know why.. We go out every day, we act like a accouple, everywhere, but when I tell her I love her, she always like gets emotional and she is scared to say it back to me. But today I told her, like a joke, "why do I love you" she got mad and went outside. I asked her later what happened, and she said that she was feeling it everyday more and more that she was falling in love. One other time she said that she was falling in love with me, but we were really drunk, so who knows. I wanna know if she is scared because of her past, or she just doesnt give a ****?
2007-03-07 21:49:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im almost positive thats she's just scared and hurt from her previous relationships. it doesnt hurt to say it to her.... she probably feels more confident about her love 4 u when u tell her. but beign hurt before is the reason why i behave the same way. and my uncertainty caused me to basically loose the man i think i could have been with forever. i could be wrong but i couldnt tell the difference between my instincts and my uncertainties. but i didnt want to play the fool. perhaps ur girl feels the same way. just do everything u can to show her u really love her! eventually she'll come around.
although after reading wut u wrote again.... she is ur lady right? cuz if she thinks ur just friends that kick it and fukc.... then i would slow down with all the love stuff. unless ur POSITIVE that she feels the same way.
2007-03-07 22:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds liek she cares but its hard because its right out of a relationship and you moved really quickly. I have yet to say I love you to someone. I will say it when I feel it. And only after 3months you have said it and sometime after her breakup. I would caution you to slow down a little give her time to feel the same. make it a safe environment for her to open up and care for someone without the fear of getting hurt. But then again there is always the chance you were jus the rebound and that this is just to froget someone else and you are being too close and she needs time to figure things out.
2007-03-08 05:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by TechPhox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she do things for you purely for your happiness and not anything to do with herself? And do your friends agree with this assessment?
Answering those questions will help you be more certain about how she feels about you. Apart from that, she sounds quite confused herself. Seems like there's much more time that needs to pass until everyone's sure. Be there for her.
2007-03-08 05:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but my natural response would be, "Hey, I usually get kissed on the lips being being stroked"
2007-03-08 05:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she may be keeping her options open
2007-03-08 05:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..is she from the land of moody women...?
2007-03-08 05:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by scottish football ....nuff said 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋