Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

OK, just to give ya'll some background, my parents divorced when I was 5 years old, and my biological father (I have a tendency to call him a sperm donor at times) skipped town when I was 13. I've seen him one time since then, at a family reunion, and that was about 3 years ago. After he skipped town, there was no phone call, no christmas or birthday cards for either me OR my brother. One day out of the blue he calls, and I give him my email address. He sends the usual...jokes and stuff. He OCCASIONALLY (about once every 3 months) sends an email that we should get together, he wants to be a part of my life blah blah blah.... Well, my birthday was yesterday, and I didn't even get an ECard from him. The only thing I got from him was one of those jokes, and that was sent today. I still consider him just a "sperm donor" and he can't understand why I don't want anything to do with him.

2007-03-01 13:54:31 · 1 answers · asked by Cheyenne 5 in Family

2007-03-01 13:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

serious question, ladies or men, what do ya'll consider good sex? i mean what makes it good? is it the act itself? does it matter how long it last? and how long should be considered as long? this is a conversation i had w/ my guy. everybody who knows me would be surprised the resident "sexpert" is asking this but i am looking for a honest, unbias opinion from people i dont know. tell me what ya'll think.

2007-03-01 13:52:58 · 12 answers · asked by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 in Singles & Dating

My says he's not coming to bed?

2007-03-01 13:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by littlegoober75 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

allright, im 16 and my friend is 18 almost 19.

weve been friends for about a year and a half and got really
close fast.

he left to the marines in the beggining of february, and before he left, he asked me to watch after this girl he was talking to...

now i was a wrestler on our school team, he was a coach and she is a stat girl.

she's 15.

she really doesn't have any feelings for hiim and she has some strong ones for me.

i hooked up with her for like the last week.

im kinda worried about decieving my friend. i think hes too hold. how bout you

2007-03-01 13:51:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had a girl that stayed a hour away and I had a dude in the military.We worked 2gether and started falling in love.We ended our relationship with our other halves and ended up 2gether.It's been 2 years and we are good 2gether.He asked me 2 marry him,but he doesn't trust me.I go to college full time and work ten to twelve hours a day and raising a teenager.I don't have time to cheat,but he's alwys throwing out little cracks about me having someone else.I've told him severals times that this gets on my nerves.What is the best way to handle this?If he keeps pushing this then i will start looking for someone else.

2007-03-01 13:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by Lil' Sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I've known this girl for most of my life, but she lives like 1000 miles away, literally. We have always been together (even if it is only 1 week out of a year). Recently she got a new b/f she hasn't responded to me in over a couple months. I know its childish but i cannot stop thinking about her. Any relationship i attempt to enter fails miserably because I can't get my mind off her. Any advice on how to forget her or get her back?

2007-03-01 13:51:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if your girlfriend says that : (??

2007-03-01 13:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by The Answering Peanut Butter 3 in Singles & Dating

cuz i've benn dating her for 8 months and were ready, but what does that mean.....dont leave stupid comments, i'm serious

2007-03-01 13:51:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 13:50:45 · 2 answers · asked by j_naismith 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 13:49:55 · 20 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Weddings

wut do u like more shaved? or hairy?

2007-03-01 13:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I LIKEED HIM EVER SINCE I SAW HIM BUT HE LIKED MY FRIEND BUT I STILL LIKED HIM EVEN WHEN THEY WERE TOGETHER BUT NOW WE ARE TOGETHER BUT I DONT KNOW IF CAUSE HE PITYS ME OR WHAT

2007-03-01 13:49:47 · 10 answers · asked by HARLEY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 13:49:11 · 21 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are recovering from the aftermath of an affair on his part. Things were going well until he got this new job. He works an hour away and works 10-14 hours a day. He never comes home before the kids are in bed. His kids barely see him, I barely see him, trust is still a huge issue and i want to know if it would be selfish to throw in the towel cuz I just cant stand sitting here all day and night by myself wondering what hes 'really' doing, who he's 'really' with and explaining to my children why their dad is never home. I'm practically a single mom anyway, I'm lonely, I'm tired of doing this 'alone'. Sometimes I just think I would be better off without him than with him. At least if I wasnt his wife anymore, I wouldnt have all this added stress and worry about what hes really doing. Or should i have faith and keep on trying? I still love the man, I'm just tired of his damn job coming before his whole family.

2007-03-01 13:49:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love women. They even seem to like me. I'm tall, muscular, and good-looking with blue eyes. What should I do to get a girl to kiss me?

2007-03-01 13:48:43 · 20 answers · asked by therealdealmcneill 2 in Singles & Dating

ok... like i stated... the girl i like thinks i'm a stalker o.o and creepy... and in my personal and friends perspective, i'm everything but...

within a week, i apologized for my misgivings, gave her flowers and a valentines gift, and sort of confessed my feelings within the end of the week... because it was sort of "moving fast" i told her we should probably go slower and be friends before entering a relationship... = = however during this time... i sort of... told her i knew her entire school schedule... BUT IN MY DEFENCE i only found out 6/8 of her classes through Serendipitous moments... (by chance) mainly because i keep going to the cafeteria at awkard times... i made a mental note of when she came out of the gym...so thus she has pe. and during the other blocks... she was either directly opposite from my class, on the same floor, or in the same class...

i told her that i knew her schedule because i wanted to be honest with her and not lie to her about anything..

2007-03-01 13:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by endless dreamer 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I had a crush on and still kinda do.My friend said he asked her out for me, but I know he once liked her too.She says she doesn't date.She will only get married in her life.Is she serious about this?She is Muslim if that matters, but it'd be cool if I got a chance to show her a good time.

2007-03-01 13:48:30 · 2 answers · asked by DJ 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl that I'm good friends with. We hug almost every day, she says hi whenever I pass by. She often asks me for advice with her friends, and she really appreciates it. What does it all mean?

2007-03-01 13:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Franz T 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey,
I’m sitting here trying to write a “brilliant” paragraph for my German text. Gotta tell you, great fun. Anyway, I was wondering if
you wanted to go have a coffee sometime. Maybe discuss Freudian psychology? Just joking! Anywho, if you’re up for it, reply or call
my cell (#). Hope you're not studying too hard. Lol
Talk to you later!
*******

Ok...this is what i got back

Hey *******,

Ya I just finished writing my section of the german text too, tons o' fun. I almost missed your email, it got thrown into my junkmail. As for the coffee, thanks for the invite, but I have a girlfriend, so I'm sorry, but I will have to say no. But I always welcome making new friends, if you have msn add this email address (email) to your contacts, its what I use for my msn. Well, I'm off to bed, had a hockey game earlier tonight and it really tired me out. Enjoy your friday!

*******

I know for a fact that he's single..but I'm over it...just wanna know what other ppl think

2007-03-01 13:46:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

platonically.

2007-03-01 13:45:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So a few weeks back this year, in my 6th period class a girl caught my attention.Come to find out she was one of my classmates back in 5th grade(I'm in 11th now).Anywho, she has relocated a lot in her life, and she says she will be moving sometime again.Question is, would it be wrong for me to get her number and ask her out anyway knowing she will probably be moving?

2007-03-01 13:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by DJ 3 in Singles & Dating

dont judge me, we dated before our parents met and we -almost- did, is it wrong if i still feel that way?

2007-03-01 13:45:14 · 33 answers · asked by kaleb t 1 in Family

I'm looking for justin,connors he his a brother of christina,connors and his father's name is jim,connors I need help badly

2007-03-01 13:45:04 · 1 answers · asked by Robert T 1 in Friends

My ex is being an a**, i've tried to leave him alone, but he's telling people rumors about me and all that s***, what is a great revenge that's easy, or a rumor to spread about him? If all you have to say is live well, date other guys, etc, anything that has anything to do with being the better person, not getting revenge, don't answer my question ok?!

2007-03-01 13:44:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I got my haircut at this school. Had a nice chat with this girl and well to make a long story short. I wasn't really paying any attention to this girl when she asked me what I was doing later.
So anyway about a month goes by and I get another hair cut I already knew she wouldn't be there cause she said she was going to graduate. The girl that gave me my hair cut seemed to know her and said she works at this downtown place and I guess I heard it wrong cause I can't find it in the phone book. Anyways I do not want to goto where she works and ask her out. Should I forward my number threw the girl at the school that knows her? I'm only asking it cause I thought it was a lost cause.

2007-03-01 13:44:26 · 2 answers · asked by Jackel 2 in Singles & Dating

i love a girl i havent ever seen her , i just talk to her through the internet and she doesn`t even have a webcam , all i know about her outer features is from some pictures she sent me , but i am so sure that i love her more than anything else am i crazy

2007-03-01 13:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 13:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by sweet24 2 in Singles & Dating

I got this friend and he always talks about how hes to nice and stuff like this....... so i told him i would get peoples opinion. Are nice guys better than the other guys?

2007-03-01 13:42:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In ancient Asian cultures from 500 yrs ago dated back to B.C, all male servants that worked in Royal families either as bodyguards or personal assistants for beautiful women ( princesses..etc.), had their testes castrated(cut off, against their wills of course) to preventing rapes to those women. Because testes produce testosterone, which triggers sperm productions, which makes them sexually tempted to commit rapes.

YES, IT'S UNETHICAL & VIOLATED THE HUMAN RIGHTS...YES, IT'S CRUEL & BARBARIC...AND OF COURSE, NO SUCH LAW IS EXISTED IN THE WORLD TODAY.

But, let's assume if that type of treatment were to apply in today's society to all 2nd time prosecuted rapists.

Will the rape's rate go down to those have not committed?

Will the 1st time prosecuted rapists less likely to commit rapes again? Same treatment for female rapists (have their clitorides cut off).

In my opinion, I think the rape's rate will go down and the rapists would lesslikely to commit rapes again.

2007-03-01 13:42:28 · 4 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Singles & Dating