ok... like i stated... the girl i like thinks i'm a stalker o.o and creepy... and in my personal and friends perspective, i'm everything but...
within a week, i apologized for my misgivings, gave her flowers and a valentines gift, and sort of confessed my feelings within the end of the week... because it was sort of "moving fast" i told her we should probably go slower and be friends before entering a relationship... = = however during this time... i sort of... told her i knew her entire school schedule... BUT IN MY DEFENCE i only found out 6/8 of her classes through Serendipitous moments... (by chance) mainly because i keep going to the cafeteria at awkard times... i made a mental note of when she came out of the gym...so thus she has pe. and during the other blocks... she was either directly opposite from my class, on the same floor, or in the same class...
i told her that i knew her schedule because i wanted to be honest with her and not lie to her about anything..
2007-03-01 13:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by endless dreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The other thing she freaked out about was when i told her in both times that i'd come bring her coffee... because the previous night she had to stay up late (possibly pass 12) to finish two projects and a language paper...
For crying out loud is she right? and am i just a creepy person? or ... something else...
please give me your input / advice =)
2007-03-01 13:50:53 · update #1
No, to me you don't seem like a stalker. Just know that sometimes you need to keep things to yourself. You didn't have to tell her you knew her entire schedule, that sounds stalkerish. Not telling her would not have been considered lying. She didn't ask so you didn't have to tell. But it sounds like you're just trying to be sweet. I think the whole "I know where you are every second of the day" thing might have freaked her out a little. Lay low for a while and be careful with what you say to her.
2007-03-01 13:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Back off. Wait a week or two, then say hello. Let her make the first move. If you get the chance to have a conversation with her, just be friendly. It will take longer, but you'll lose the "stalker" tag.
2007-03-01 21:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by j_naismith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeh u R a stalker!! lol hmm ask her if u guyz can start over and dnt eva bring up the stuff u told her b4 like da u stayed up till 12 doin projects and gud luck
2007-03-01 21:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by 123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a stalker to me it would totally freak me out and not want to be around u or see u at school that is just me though
2007-03-01 21:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get a girl that you really like. i kinda used to be like that but then again i went to a small skool where every1 knew every1's skedule.
2007-03-01 21:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋