Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

Me and my ex had a mutual break up about a month and a half ago. He told me half of him still loved me but half of him just wanted to be friends so I told him we should break up. (I didn't think it was right to be in a relationship where I wasn't wanted.) He said we would still be friends. Since then he has told me in various e-mails that he dosn't love me, we arn't meant to be together, we don't mesh well, and we will never get back together. He has also told me he felt like he couldn't do anything right for me and that he didn't like how I talked about the future. (He talked about it too though.) Since then we have stoped talking. I still see him because we have mutual friends. I have been trying to be friendly towords him, just so things won't be so awkward. I know I shouldn't want him anymore and I should move on, he obviously dosn't care about me, but I can't. I still have a feeling things could magicaly all work out. How can I get over this?

2007-02-24 07:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

i just kinda stopped and thought for a minute, shouldnt evryone love whoever they fall for, and maybe it just so happens that the majority of the world is hetero (straight as we call it) anyone agree? (please dont eat me, im just wondering :-()

2007-02-24 07:36:27 · 13 answers · asked by ダニエル 3 in Singles & Dating

i am five feet six. after browsing previous questions, i see that there are many girls who are taller than me. But as a chinese, it's a bit weird. chinese over here are shoort. especially the boys. i always evaluate myself to tohers when i'm in school, and i feel like i'm too tall... is five feet six too tall for a fifteen year old?

2007-02-24 07:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by Ceres 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok... so im not shy or anything about telling girls i like them... i have been in the past but i think im over it now. I wanna start out on a good note now, so i was wondering what exact words i should use to tell a girl i like her. ALso, should i tell her i like her after or before asking her out... thanks!. ALso, what are some signs that girls give that show interest.

2007-02-24 07:35:58 · 2 answers · asked by Some B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 07:35:04 · 31 answers · asked by sha23z 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In other words, you are not missing out on much if you have only had one in your life. No need to sow wild oats right? Whats the point if they are all the same.

I read a question earlier that asked if all women are the same in the sack and the women seemed to get OFFENDED by that. Yet they insist over and over again that thier privates are the same thing.

Where do I get this info from?

From here everytime I ask about the sowing wild oats thing.

2007-02-24 07:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is turning 21 this year and I want to get him something really good! He loves cars, especially Nissan. Into some video games, but the ones he wants doesn't come out until later this year. Something like alcohol would be pointless, so what are some cool gadgets that all guys love?

2007-02-24 07:34:25 · 5 answers · asked by .:miss:. 2 in Singles & Dating

my freinds sister has a crush on me and i dont no what to do. i dont like her back. so how should i get her to stop and not hurt her feelings?

2007-02-24 07:33:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's been my bff for 3 years but know hes mad at me cause this ***** felicia lied and said i said something i didnt....he told me not to talk to him cause all i do is lie....i addmite i use to lie to him all the time but then i realized that all that was doing was hurting the friend ship and now i'm telling the truth and i just dont know what to do help me

2007-02-24 07:33:05 · 2 answers · asked by melly bear 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 07:32:38 · 30 answers · asked by sha23z 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There are 2 boys that I like And I cannot choose which is the best. Please help?

2007-02-24 07:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am comin back after this year tho and she is completely leading me on .sending me cards.talkin trash about her boyfriend and i talk 2 her all the time i jus need 2 kno what i shoudl do i mean i still like the girl a lot.what would u do?

2007-02-24 07:31:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My life turned upside down.
i was going out with this guy..
and after i broke up with him my friends that were his hated me because he was in love with me but i wasnt in love with him.
i didnt want to be with him. and i just cant take it anymore, i cant sleep, it feels like i cant breath idk what to do. i cry alot now.
and i keep telling the guy that im sorry and he says F*** that
and it kills me. i dont no what to do anymore. Please help because right now at this point i dont want to even live.

2007-02-24 07:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

helppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

2007-02-24 07:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 7 th grader cute but thats all he is a 8 th grade hot as hot can be he wont go out with any of the girls in my school HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-24 07:29:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it all started when J didn't go to my school. i met him online through my best friend and we started talking he seemed like a very kool guy, then one day he just told me" you're beautiful" J never even saw me then like a week later J said i love you and every since then we would both look forward to talking to each other online and our conversations would last for hours and it was great untill i told him i'm not sure if we could be together because no one even liked me talking to him and my parents made it hard for me to talk to him untill he came to my school and i would shake or smile at him when i saw him because he was too afraid to speak to me and would never speak to me at school then i met this guy who had these gorgeus eyes and i then everyone kept saying i liked the pretty eyed guy and J got hurt and stopped talking to me and now that i like J he won't speak to me but he smiled and shaked at me 3 times for the week already and i don't think he knows i like him

2007-02-24 07:28:24 · 6 answers · asked by elpruprulesnoone 3 in Singles & Dating

If an AIDS/HIV vaccine (not a cure but an injection that would prevent them from contracting it) was created would you allow your children to get it? If so at what age would you, or would you not let them get it because you think that gives them permission to have sex?

I would give it to my child as soon as they hit puberty whether that comes at age 8 or 11? As along as the doctor says its safe.

2007-02-24 07:28:08 · 16 answers · asked by trinigal33167 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

More than you thought they did ,isnt it humbling. And doesnt it make you realise how small the world is ,and how much alike we all are.

2007-02-24 07:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by patsy 3 in Friends

I really need help, I want to be more appealing to a girl. We are alright with each other, but we don't really talk much. I really like her, but I'm too shy to even talk to her. The most I've said to her in the past few months is "What are you taking for GCSE?" and even then I couldn't say any more. And, to make matters worse, my friends mock me about it. HELP ME!!!

2007-02-24 07:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Davey 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I have a first date next week (saturday) with a guy who came on holiday with me and my friends a couple of weekends ago. We got on really well when we were being friendly and flirting, but i like him and im nervous about it. I havent dated anybody since i was 14 (im now 17) as that turned into a long relationship (2 yrs) so i dont have much experience at dating and playing " the rules". Any tips to make me less nervous? Should i play by rules or by how i feel? What do guys like and look for in a girl?

2007-02-24 07:24:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has jus dropped out of college 4 awhile: he told me that he'll join again later in the summer time! Now that he's not at school NEmore i was like yes now he can be wit me wen he gets off of work and i get outta skool (im still in high skool) but no things arent like that: he spend more time wit his friends then NEbody the last time that we went out and had fun was on v-day and trust me if it wasnt v-day then i wouldve been sittin at home waitin 4 him 2 take time out 2 talk 2 me! I dont go off or NEthing i jus play cool: i tell him wen it bothers me but we'll talk about it and then nun changes or if it do it doesnt last that long! o try not2 bug2 much cuz i told him that i dont wanna change him but he was like he neva said that i couldnt! NEways i jus feel left out like theres not time 4 me at all! he only comes 2 see me like 1ce a wk now! if he was in school then hell talk 2 me all the time and even come see me wen we get out. should i stop trippn and let him have fun?

2007-02-24 07:23:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every girl wants to know what a guy looks for in a woman. so, i'm going to be a typical girl and ask for what guys look for in a woman. (Personality wise)...

2007-02-24 07:23:08 · 2 answers · asked by kat. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 07:22:43 · 14 answers · asked by imjustasteph 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need a little help plz :)

2007-02-24 07:22:05 · 15 answers · asked by tx80sgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Statistics say that 70% of men cheat or have cheated at least once in the past year. But every time someone asks a question about a what they would do if they caught their husband cheating, the women respond, "Not my man because I would leave in a heart beat." So many people put down open relationships not knowing that over 70% of them are in one without the benefits. My question is, would women rather have an open relationship or just be kept in the dark? P.S. I am not down on marriage, I'm up on honesty.

2007-02-24 07:21:51 · 26 answers · asked by jax0817 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was having a realtion with a guy for 5 months and we had fight on a silly topic and he never calls me back or talk with me, i tried a lot but his friend told me that he is going to be married :( and there are many things in my head , can u plz suggest that what shoukd i do , shall i try to talk to him or throw him out of my life ?

2007-02-24 07:21:32 · 17 answers · asked by Ðåñg论µ$ G@L 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in highschool my boyfriend isnt. A boy i "talk" to asked me to the prom. i want to go with my boyfriend but i know my mom wouldnt let me because he is 20 and she dosent like him. It is perfectly legal though and we arent even having sex.

anyway, the boy asked me but i told him i didnt plan going, but i would let him know. now i want to go.

should i tell my boyfriend

and its ironic that the boy that boy that asked me is also 20 but my mom dosent know that because he is still in highschool.

he dropped out a long time ago to take care of his son, now he came back but my mom thinks he is my age and wants me to go to the prom.

should i tell my boyfriend or ask him.

2007-02-24 07:20:57 · 6 answers · asked by Jaime 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged to a good man who has issues.First off he's younger than me by 7 years and he's wonderful to my son.And he makes me feel like a queen, but he lies to me about things that he shouldn't.Now i feel like i can't trusted him because of something that happen in the past.Sometimes i feel like the issues are with me but it's not.We don't even talk as much as we use too.It's always let it go or it's not important.I don't know what to anymore.Should i just let go and move on or just be by myself 4 a little while.I just don't know what to do my relationship is fallen apart.

2007-02-24 07:20:38 · 17 answers · asked by ms.bitch 2 u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on a guy in my college classes. I have never talked to him but my friend (who is married) knows that I like him and takes over the conversations with him without allowing me to jump in. She has told him I like him and he hasn't done anything about it. What do I do

2007-02-24 07:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 07:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating