My life turned upside down.
i was going out with this guy..
and after i broke up with him my friends that were his hated me because he was in love with me but i wasnt in love with him.
i didnt want to be with him. and i just cant take it anymore, i cant sleep, it feels like i cant breath idk what to do. i cry alot now.
and i keep telling the guy that im sorry and he says F*** that
and it kills me. i dont no what to do anymore. Please help because right now at this point i dont want to even live.
2007-02-24 07:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok hun dont even joke about u not wanting to live anymore.. please... but listen you sound like you know what you want but your trying to make everyone else happy instead of yourself.. take it easy and take a deep breath! if he doesnt want to forgive u thats his loss and if your friends or his friends are mad at you for that forget them!!! you sound like a really sweet girl and anyone would be happy to be with you dont make yourself love someone when you know you dont want to.. dont ever make anyone happy if it doesnt make you happy!
2007-02-24 07:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy and go on with your life..It's not worth it to put yourself through all the bullshit..And who cares what his friends think anyway...There are so many men in this world and you will find the right one for you..Just give yourself sometime and everything will work out for the best..You say you don't even want to live right now...Well let me tell you something, when you find the right guy and you will... he will make you happier then you ever thought possible...And your gonna look back at this and laugh... Take care..
2007-02-24 07:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by over worked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be grateful that you were honest enough to break up with him in the first place! And all of his friends don't need you to pick on anymore than they already have! So find a new guy AND a new set of friends. They want to make you feel guilty and that's the wrong kind of people for you. Go elsewhere.
2007-02-24 07:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wasting precious time. Improve upon yourself for when you meet the person that
closely meets your ideals. "Fly Paper" is my
nickname for a possessive man that was not
at all man enough for me. It's 30 yrs past, &
he still calls friends to learn of me. Live and
let live. He & wife are obese, while I create
more free style dance steps at home for
daily excercise & get out with The Most Fit.
Give "Fly Paper2" good things to hear of.
2007-02-24 08:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by LuckyLilTroll2U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it may not feel like it right now, things will get better. He'll eventually get over you and find someone new. Just give it time. Try and relax a little, go out with your friends and have some fun. Have a girls night out or something.
2007-02-24 07:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were not in love w/ him why do you cry? Why do you want to die... OVER A GUY>>> Honey there are alot of wonderful men out there .. Well not alot but don't loose your head b/c he has big PRIDE!!!! he will learn the hard way someday that PRIDE gets u nowhere!!! I believe it is 1 of the 7 sins.....
2007-02-24 07:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't breathe or sleep? Sounds medical. Oh that, and he's a jerk when he says "F-that". Move on, lady; if you let something as small as this turn your life upside down, you need to start re-evaluating your life's priorities.
2007-02-24 07:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what his friends think? If you don't love him anymore then there's nothing you can do about that. He'll just have to get over you. You just move on and live and stop apologizing to him because you can't help how you feel sweetie.
2007-02-24 07:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't get all crazy with it and do something stupid. If you hurt yourself he really wouldn't want you. If you don't want him don't sweat it, the hurt will pass. But if you really wanted him you wouldn't have broken up, something inside you said you should break up. Keep your head up and don't sweat it you'll get through it and feel better. The right one is out there waiting to get to know you. It just takes time. All the best, peace, LOL.
2007-02-24 07:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing: dont do anything bad to yourself, you was nice enough to tell him it was over, most people dont even do that. 2nd; dont worry about what other people say because they weren't really your friends if they dont like you now but they did then, you can find friends better than that. Just go out with your better friends and have fun, its your life, do what you wanna do, take a stand for yourself. treat him like he treats you, and just avoid him if you can. make yourself happy. (GOOD LUCK)
2007-02-24 07:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by minnesotabluerags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋