Well I have a first date next week (saturday) with a guy who came on holiday with me and my friends a couple of weekends ago. We got on really well when we were being friendly and flirting, but i like him and im nervous about it. I havent dated anybody since i was 14 (im now 17) as that turned into a long relationship (2 yrs) so i dont have much experience at dating and playing " the rules". Any tips to make me less nervous? Should i play by rules or by how i feel? What do guys like and look for in a girl?
2007-02-24 07:24:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be real, be yourself! don't talk about ex-boyfriends or any other guys. get to know him better. go some place public. let him know you're nervous; he probably is, too. and don't freak out about it if it doesn't work. at 17, you still have your whole life ahead of you. :D
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2016-04-24 19:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by michal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if he didn't like you he wouldn't be going on a date with you. What about bowling that's pretty fun? Don't go to the pictures though, its really awkward on a first date as you just sit there in silence feeling a div. You need something thats more interactive. I'd say go to the pub and have a few glasses that would calm your nerves but you are not old enough. Just go have fun xx good luck xx
2007-02-24 07:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
STUFF
ANY
RULES
that is the rules... screw what people tell you about all this play hard to get nonsense or not calling guys.
If you like someone touch them, Guys love it when a girl comes on to them or intiates things as then it means she likes him and is not doing him a favour.
Guys like girls who are fun to be with,
Affectionate and touchy,
Forward and want to make out as much as they do.
Naughty and playful and teasy
Who are not repressed and pieous or panicking about rules or morals and gods commandments etc.
Who are passionate
They like girls who dont play mind games and say how they feel as guys dont get signs.
Like girls who are not into money or up themselves
Dont like bitchyness
Who like sex stuff like they do and let guys know what they like.
Ie a sexy touchy playmate.
How to be less nervous... do dates that are fun and 'silly' in some way.
Play by how you feel.
Most of all put the guy at ease as he will be more panicky then you thinking one little slip up and you will hate him, never want to speak to him or think he is some evil deveint pervrt stalker as he liked you and wanted to touch and kiss you.
So its important you let him know its cool to try and kiss or touch you possibly by starting things yourself.
You dont get this as girls dont normally get the
**** off you perve, or you only tried making friends to get in our boxers, or as if my standards are that low to accept you treatment.
Tickle fights are good as fun, you relax and get touchy.
Or anything where you may need lotion rubbed on, a masaage (bearing in mind he wont have a clue and thinking you will dump him for being crap), or rubbing your butt better after you fell over rollerblading.
Do something where you dont have to talk if you dont want to, ie something else to do to avoid silences.
and maybe something scarey so you can pretend to be all scared so he has to put his arm around you and cp a feel to be your brave protector
Or somewhere hot so you take off an outer top etc.
Or cold so you need a rub down to warm up... get the idea?
2007-02-24 07:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not a guy but, I can tell you that you just have to be yourself. Talk about the time you met each other and how it was when you were there. Ask him about how he is doing and how's the weather, how is his family....start from there. Everything would land in place and everything will work its way out.
2007-02-24 08:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like yourself... have fun smile... Honestly play everything by heart and go off on how you feel. Make sure that you don't regret anything. Guys like girls that are confident and are not afraid to be honest with them at all times. I hope that this helps. Best of luck on your date and HAVE FUN!
2007-02-24 07:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a few first date rules for myself:
1. first date must be not in the evening and something you would do with your mates (like go for a coffee/cinema/etc.)
2. no kissing on first date (if he likes you enough with no kissing to call again)
that's it! :) good luck! :) just be relaxed and normal for you.
2007-02-25 05:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lyra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like ladies with class, sexy ladies. Do you remember the saying "Don't give away the goods to soon". Make him want to come back for more, so don't give it all away. If you think it going to last and you want it to last then take it slow. Otherwise he might think you are an easy lady and take what he can get and move on.
If you don't think its going to last and its just for fun go for it and have fun.
2007-02-24 07:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by inspectandexpect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and dress to impress darling but don't over do it because you'll look desperate. Make sure you talk about him as well not just yourself ask him questions about himself. There are no rules to dating so go 4 it!!!
good luk : )
2007-02-24 07:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself because you got asked out on the first date by being yourself...Just relax and the conversations will flow...Good Luck even though youo dont need it :0)
2007-02-24 07:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋