I really need help, I want to be more appealing to a girl. We are alright with each other, but we don't really talk much. I really like her, but I'm too shy to even talk to her. The most I've said to her in the past few months is "What are you taking for GCSE?" and even then I couldn't say any more. And, to make matters worse, my friends mock me about it. HELP ME!!!
2007-02-24 07:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Davey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all--"friends" don't mock you. Look for some new ones!
Don't be so shy---she's just a GIRL, not an alien.
Ask her about herself, or about a popular tv show, or some music. Asking a question guarantees that she has to respond! And if you only get yes or no for an answer, ask MORE questions!
You will be appealing if you compliment her---tell her her hair is pretty, or she looks good in that color, or something like that.
Good luck.
2007-02-24 07:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a newcomer in courting a girl, you have to be natural with yourself. Learn the basic of courting and some research for the subject. Ask a professional person to teach you how to make the first move. And, study the girl responses and don't be shy to ask answerable questions, then, as you go along, make her feel of your presence and don't hesitate to have a "self-confident" effect on your personality.
Talking to her constantly makes you feel that if she's responsive or not. If positive, then, you a chance for her heart and mind-- means that she also likes you. After which, maybe she loves you.
A little push about you could mean a lot to your love endeavor. Courting is not a game or a play to do but a feeling to incorporate with the one you love.
2007-02-24 15:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by FX777222999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't believe me, but talking to a girl is just like talking to a guy. They feel shy, too. You need some topics to talk about: school, sports, music, clubs, etc. Once you break the ice, it is much easier and you will wonder why you didn't do it sooner. Just remember: Nothing ventured; nothing gained. Go for it.
2007-02-24 15:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she really likes and then talk to her about that. If she truley likes it the conversation can go on for days, by then you should be a lot more comfortable with her and the conversations will be easier. And you will be able to approach her about anything.
2007-02-24 15:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casually walk up to her and just ask her something, anything. even something about the weather just to keep your self calm... or you can practice on talking to her by using one of your friends that is a female.. she may not react the way you want her to but, things happen and you'll just have to wait and find out.. good luck!
2007-02-24 15:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Stefanie-Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being shy its hard but ask about movies friends hoppys etc good luck
2007-02-24 15:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by ladyoh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you become yourself when melting? Try taking her to places you are comfortable to talk. Familiar hangouts, etc.
2007-02-24 15:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking to the rest will fall in to place if you like her
2007-02-24 15:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by yooper602 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
build up the courage to say more it will help in the long run. u can do it
2007-02-24 15:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to talk to her and if she seem to like talkin to you and if u feel right ask her out
2007-02-24 15:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋