Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

We have been dating for the past 3 years. last year we were talking about marriage late this year. on Saturday i found nude photos of her which i took & were precious to us, with another guy on the net. I asked her about that and she lied. Upon further investigation she sent them to that guy.not only him, but him & 2 other guys.she has been chatting to him since october last year.any time ask her if she's okay she would say yes (while clearly she wasn't) Before we used to talk about anything. so when i confronted her about the messages & emails she said they were just talk (though they were very graphic). she says she doesn't love me like she used to. Should i stay with her or just leave now & avoid a major heartbreak?

2007-02-11 16:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by kyambati 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:27:54 · 36 answers · asked by JAZMIN G 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 and in love , will it work out?

2007-02-11 16:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For as long as i can remember i have never loved anyone, now i do. I love God and i love my friend.

2007-02-11 16:27:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-11 16:26:57 · 21 answers · asked by nilesh 1 in Singles & Dating

I put colonge on in the morning before I go to school but why don't girls ever smell it on me? It wears off so fast. I always walk by guys at school and I can smell the colonge on them in the middle of the day. Do they like apply it at school or something? I don't want to bring a bottle of colonge to school and spray it on me, that would look stupid. So what can I do to smell good all day?

2007-02-11 16:26:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the last thing that made... you smile? ...laugh? ...made your day?

2007-02-11 16:26:05 · 11 answers · asked by mlove1307 6 in Singles & Dating

i asked out a guy and we went out on a date the friday before last. how long to guys usually wait to call a girl for another date? (factoring in that he said he had a good time and he'd want to do it again) but this guy...he hasn't been in very many relationships not to mention around a lot of girls that he could potentially become serious with.

it was funny...last week one of his friends came up to me me and asked if we were dating. i asked who he heard this from. he gave me this bs name with a lame excuse for why he didn't know his last name. i told him that we just went on one date. he then told me that that he'll ask me again in a three weeks. later on, i saw him talking to the guy in question.
what do you think?

2007-02-11 16:25:43 · 1 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

He got me a pair of diamond earrings for v-day. I wasnt even sure if we were gonna do gifts this year, so I havent gotten him anything. Now I have no idea what to get him to compare to a pair of diamonds. Any opinions?

2007-02-11 16:25:36 · 2 answers · asked by Leo_Woman 2 in Singles & Dating

I know there are girl versions of these kinds of websites, like
www.dontdatehimgirl.com.

Is there a www.dontdateher.com?

2007-02-11 16:25:29 · 3 answers · asked by The JZA 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:25:20 · 4 answers · asked by spanish 1 in Singles & Dating

she is older than me but threatened me, so I need to defend myself. How?

2007-02-11 16:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by mariah g 2 in Family

How do I express to her how much I miss her and how do I make myself and her feel better about being gone for so long?

2007-02-11 16:24:32 · 6 answers · asked by shortyfive0 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend doesn't celebrate Valentine's Day because his Dad died on that day about 5 or 6 years ago. He was actually raised by his mom and had just started to develop a relationship with his father maybe a year or two before he died. I am not selfish at all and I've told him that as long as it takes for him to grieve I don't mind. So, we don't even bring up V-day at all, but what I'm wondering is what I should do to help him. Or what you would do in this situation. Most people say Valentines Day is a womens holiday anyway and I wouldn't really mind getting something but I don't want to seem insensitive to his feelings asking what about me. I asked him the other day what if I wanted something one day for Valentines Day and he was like what day?? He just kinda ignored the whole thing. He told me that he doesn't know how to deal with his feelings about that day or his father so he just doesn't talk about it. What would you do?

2007-02-11 16:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Lil.Mans.Ma07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:23:41 · 4 answers · asked by Deutscher 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got this icebox where my heart used to be...

2007-02-11 16:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lyrics are
pyar zindagi pyar bandagi hai pyar bina kya jina yeh bhi koi zindagi hai.
english convert=love is life love is traping what is life without love .

2007-02-11 16:23:12 · 4 answers · asked by AaSHEK 4 in Singles & Dating

basicly we have been talking for about 4 months the only reason we arent going out is because we want to graduate from h.s before we get serious. we both care about eachother alot alot alot, and she is just confusing at times, for example one day she told me that she would stop talking to me and just drop everythign we have worked for if some other guy came along that was a bit hotter or w.e. and it annoyed me but its hard for me to udnerstand if she ment it because she was a tad bit drunk. so i dont know just advice please.

2007-02-11 16:22:58 · 2 answers · asked by Robert H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:22:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:22:03 · 25 answers · asked by jimbswife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well few years back i was going out with this guy for about a year, one day he came to my house and told me that he was in love with me and said he wanted to be with me for ever and that was the last time i talked to him( his not dead). I still love him and i dont know how to take him out of my mind with out hurting some one because when i try to go out with some one i remember him. I havent gone out with any one with out thinking its going to be the same thing about thinking about him. Should i look for him and ask why he never came back?, just try and cry it out my whole life? or go out with some one try and fall in love the hard way?

2007-02-11 16:21:56 · 3 answers · asked by nelchris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im not trying to make anyone jelouse or any thing it will be anonimouse of course so i dont have to lie please give yor response even if its a bad one thanks have a nice v-day(spell checks broke)

2007-02-11 16:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by will pray 4 you disleic 15 wpmin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I fall asleep?? I need sleeping methods!! I no this is in the wrong catagory!!

2007-02-11 16:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by loving live:) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

everytime i instant message somebody on this site i never get a response back..does anybody else have this problem?

2007-02-11 16:21:17 · 2 answers · asked by Prostidude 2 in Singles & Dating

I finally got thie nerve to ask this guy I like to 'hang out". What actually happened was.. i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later... saying that he would like too, although it have to be in a couple of weeks, because that;s the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. so we conversated furthur and he revealed to me that he tends to be a bit shy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. and he has been rejected in the past.. I then asked him do he feel confident enough to try to get an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually he's not in pursuit .. or rather it depends on what mood he's in...How would you feel about this guy after this converation...I'm just not sure..I know that everytime is see him he smiles, and he's flirted with me and the past...but now I just don't know about him

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I know in the past he has invited me to his church group..and he invited me to workout with him..and he has told me that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out too call him..and so I finally did

2007-02-11 16:20:14 · 4 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have hurt my friends emotionally and have been influenced by the worst people at a very early age i have been a hipocrit and a liar even to my parents i just wish to be able to change i need help badly i just want to be able to rest easily for the first time in 8yrs.

2007-02-11 16:19:32 · 11 answers · asked by Antonio B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i think he likes me...... not sure though... what are some of the universal signs??? Lists would be helpful..

2007-02-11 16:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by amazing! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 16:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend confuses me. He's asked me out and we have gone out a few times - BUT he mentions about his gf once in a while. He's asked me about my guy friends (any potentials, etc) BUT he's never confessed or anything of that sort. He's asked me to move to where he is - he told me how beautiful his whole place is BUT not how he will feel if I am there. He's treated me like a gentleman should (with occasional flirtings) and buys me lunches/dinners/coffees BUT he's still with his gf. Sometimes it does seem as though he's treating me like a friend. Sometimes it doesn't. I have tried asking him but he's done the roundabout version (i.e. being vague). Can I have your views please? Thanks!

2007-02-11 16:16:53 · 3 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating