i'm 16 and in love , will it work out?
2007-02-11 16:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you want me to tell you want to hear or want me to tell you what I think will happen?
At any rate, The best answer for that is wait twenty or thirty years.
If you and him are not arguing at each other in front of the kids at a volume that gives them nightmares while they try to sleep, him getting angry at you going on a shopping spree all on credit and you getting angry at him for being at work all day and not being home all day to be with you without threatening about wanting a divorce and if you do file for a divorce are able to agree quickly on how to seperate without a long bloody legal battle, then I think it be fair to say you would be in love.
2007-02-11 16:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by gotagetaweigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 once many years ago and was In-Love we married and it was a nightmare. I went through 9 years of abuse mentally and physically. We brought 5 children into the marriage. Need I say the children suffered living in an environment of such abuse. I would suggest waiting and living your life as a teenager, go to school and get an education. I wish I would have listened to my parents.
2007-02-12 00:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Alice S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably be in love several times throughout your life time. Then when you are in your twenties, you will find someone who you will marry. Just enjoy your feelings for now and don't get too serious too fast. Take things day by day. You don't know if he will cheat on you, or be killed in a tragic accident.
Just take it slow and easy. And have fun being a teen!
But most of all, DON'T GET PREGNANT!
2007-02-12 00:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no. You really don't know where you will be at in 5 years from now. You should wait until you are a little older. Because right now what you are just feeling is an infatuation, not love. It is like a 'puppy love' kind of thing.
You will know when you are probably in your adult years.
2007-02-12 00:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age you should be thinking of pursuing your studies. Love at this age cause alot of distraction and think about your parents whom working for you guys. They will get disappointed if you guys don't make in studies.
Unless your boyfriend can support you financially for the rest of your life. Hmmmm
2007-02-12 05:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no,no,no,no ,no sweetie dont do it .. you are so young and have a whole life of fun and exciting things and places to see..dont mess up and do this. please it wont work and you will find yourself with a baby and just out of luck when the love runs out.. im not anyone to you but you asked for our opinon and im giving you mine. i have been married twice once at 21 and that was too young and also again at 44 and im questioning that one as well but at least im older now.. but well anyway its just my opinon
2007-02-12 01:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age, i would have to say no... besides why would you want to rush it. Wait a few years.. travel together or by yourself. enjoy life and being yourself before committing to marriage..
2007-02-12 01:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, probably not. Wait for five more years, if your still together then, go for it. Why rush it?
2007-02-12 00:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~ Just Me ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋