Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

things have gotten strange between my friend and i. it started wehn i wrote to him twice on friday. and i dint get a reply alothough i knew hw was on from answers. then monday i tell him not to give me attitude and he was like whats wrong and why i am mad at him. and i tell him i everyone hates me and he telle me i am going far and i tell him i am not so he tells me to have fun at the pity party.and today i emailed him telling him how he was right about me going far but he was wrong as well cause he had no idea how my life is. and to him i was always wrong am wrong and will always be wrong. i really care about him and hes been really suportive as well. he as a great gf and all and helped me with my issues. i havent herard from him yet. why are things getting so awkward. and please dont tell me he likes me cause i am 100% sure its not the case

2007-02-08 10:24:39 · 10 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Singles & Dating

what is a cute idea!

2007-02-08 10:24:26 · 15 answers · asked by Pro-Dancer 1 in Singles & Dating

thank u for ur answers.

2007-02-08 10:24:20 · 1 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 12 years old and in middle school. And there is this group of boys that are nasty to me. They say like "You are so sexy,girl i want to bang you now" And i get scared at night. And they like feel my booty and my chest. they touch my stomach and say "You so skinny." They have never touched me in private spots. I already tried talking to THEM and my parents and teachers and therapists. They won't stop. I have a boyfriend that tells them to, but they won't! help me please. All the boys are like this to me but they do not touch me. help!

2007-02-08 10:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok: I think I might like this dude, let's call him "JJ". "JJ" is one of my close friends, and for some reason he has a need to hug me b4 we go to class and after lunch. He kind of glances in my direction alot and if I sit next to him, I notice he leans a little close to me. Does this show he likes me?

I think I might like him (too if he likes me). Whenever he hugs me, I get a weird fuzzy feeling and I tend to glance back in his direction at lunch. And when he leans close to me, it seems like I really don't care! Does this mean I like him?

Please help me, I am in a very destructive part of my life due to a breakup with friends, friends having a "war" with me in the middle, and strange happenings to me. This problem only makes it worse and it would be great to find out he likes me too, but don't just say he does bc of that. I would appreciate an honest answer so SPEAK DA TRUTH!!! Thank you, I greatly appreciate it!

2007-02-08 10:23:17 · 2 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 10:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Family

i have a dance tommrow and no one has asked me im not shy or anything im a normal pretty gurll its not like anyone has been really asking anyone to the dance but still i would like one by tommrow wat should i do

2007-02-08 10:22:36 · 7 answers · asked by cheergal4 3 in Singles & Dating

we like eachother very much and we've been going out for about a month now but we dont talk very much during school. hes always here and im always there.

hes grounded right now (lol) so we cant go on any dates yet. i know i should be comfortable around my boyfriend i just dont know what to say! i dont want to be like nice weather we're having lol. any ideas to make me be more comfortable around him?

2007-02-08 10:22:20 · 6 answers · asked by elementamigo4 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 10:22:04 · 27 answers · asked by Jodi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

now hes saying he changed but i am not buying it, Is there any way I can search multiple sights for a member name or do i have to log into each sight i find that i think he may use.. also i think he signed up a diffrent email account , is there a way to find out..

2007-02-08 10:22:02 · 20 answers · asked by im_the_1uwant 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two friends, but they don't like each other and are always fighting. What should I do? Please, no sarcastic remarks.

2007-02-08 10:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is perfect but i dont think she likes me that way we do talk in person and on msn but i get nervous arround her. She thinks im funny but weird should i ask her out and if so how???

2007-02-08 10:21:40 · 2 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Singles & Dating

because yeah high school prepares you for college right..well yeah, so i really love animals but me being a vet. i dont think it will happen. i mean i can berely stand the vet giving my own babe SPIKE shots..so i dont want to be a vet. and i dont know what to do...like job wise when i grow up, so is this bad that i dont know what i want to beee....
???

2007-02-08 10:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by ▌«♥dσσdette♥«▐ 7 in Friends

I suspect my fiance is cheating on me on the internet and possilbly in person. She does archive her chat messages. So I know i can go that route....but now she has put a password for her login to windows. Iam thank-ful am not married to her...for i strongly suspect that she is now....she has another cell phone ...one where i don't recieve the bill for. If I walk into the room she closes all chat windows...etc, etc....what can I do?

2007-02-08 10:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

meaning like look me in the eye and tell me you don't love me anymore?

2007-02-08 10:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half. She was 20 and I was 27 (I know, my first mistake). Despite our age differences, we were very much in love (or so I thought). In late September, she wanted to “take a break”. Not being an idiot, I knew “take a break” is girl talk for “I want to meet other guys.” So I told her if that’s what she wants, we’re done. Her family told her she was crazy to leave me (I’m 7 years older than her and HER family thought we should be together. That’s how well I treated her). She didn’t want to lose me, so we didn’t break up. For the following weeks, we had problems and I eventually broke up with her in late December because she was acting like we were “on a break” (for example, giving guys her number, not telling guys she meets that she had a boyfriend and such). A few weeks after our official break up, she texts me to tell me she miss me and if I’ve meet anyone else. I told her no, because being in love with her, I couldn’t possibly even think about dating someone else. She didn’t think the same way. She told me that she meet a guy “a couple of weeks ago and they just hit it off”. I did the math and that meant she meet the guy a few days after we officially broke up and then started dating him.

My problem: Does this mean she had met the guy (hooked up with him?) when we were still in our “break“ period and then she decided to go to girlfriend status with this guy? Also, if you date a guy for a year and a half, is it really that easy to go right into another relationship with someone else? Two months later and I still can’t stop thinking about her and she jumped into a relationship WHILE telling me she thinks about me every day! Is the guy a rebound, doing it to make me jealous, or is she actually happy to be with him? The way I look at it, if you’re in love with someone as much as she said she was in love with me, how can you move on days after the last time you saw that person? I’m just second guessing our relationship and whether she really did care for me at one point. Because her actions now say she never cared for me.

2007-02-08 10:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by LTP 1 in Singles & Dating

what in the hell do i get him for valentines day?? Keep in mind that we've only been "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a month and a half...help please!!!

2007-02-08 10:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, here's the story. My husband has 3 kids from a previous marriage, 2 boys and a girl, the boys(12 & 8) live with us, they fight constantly which is a given and I understand that. But my husband is so much harder on the younger one than the older one as far as punishment. When the youngest one gets into trouble he gets his playstation literally taken out of his room for weeks by my husband, but when the oldest one gets in trouble he gets "grounded" but then 10 or 15 minutes later it seems like my husband gets to feeling guilty and goes back into the bedroom and tells him he is not grounded anymore as long as he doesn't do it again. I personally think it is crap that my husband is like this, but what can I say to him without him thinking I am trying to tell him how to raise his kids? He is the same way with his daughter as he is with the youngest boy, and it is starting to drive me nuts! I can't take it anymore, it's not fair to the younger two. Please help!

2007-02-08 10:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by melody g 3 in Family

2007-02-08 10:20:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am sixteen, and my boyfriend and I have been together for seven months now. We have been getting very serious, but I am so comfortable with him. We can talk about anything, even something that could seem really awkward with many. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met, and respects me if I am not comfortable with something. The thing is-- I want some advice as to what I should do, because I am pretty sure I am ready to have sex... But I want to know some input, like when it is a good time...

2007-02-08 10:20:15 · 2 answers · asked by aLyxoxo 3 in Singles & Dating

Should i got ahead and have sex or am i to young i am 16 and i love him and he say he love my to!! wat shoyuld I do?

2007-02-08 10:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by La'Mary J 1 in Friends

my stepdad has been raping me since i was 11 and i'm 13 and pregant now. how do i tell my mom ?

2007-02-08 10:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

im starting to think they are...i think men are probably more romantic than we give them credit for...ladies just often demand too much and expect too much and dont allow them the space to be the romantic fellows they are...in their own way....

so put you money where your mouth is...are men or women the more romantic sex???...prove it...have fun...;0)





she...loves stirring it up a little every once in a while...;0)

2007-02-08 10:19:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my two best friends are fighting and there making me feel like im in the middle of this...i want to talk to both of them cause its not between me and them its between them two...but they get mad at me when i talk to one of the other...HELP

2007-02-08 10:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Tara Bruce 1 in Friends

2007-02-08 10:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up 9 months ago, after dating 4 years. He said that I didn't trust him, and he "couldn't handle it" anymore. This caught me completely off guard because we didn't have an argument or anything. Thats the last time I talked to him. We have the same mutual friends, so I know he didn't meet someone else, and hasn't since. But he hasn't called or emailed since, and I just need some closure. He never said "good-bye" or anything, it was just over. Why doesn't he miss me because I miss him like crazy!!!

2007-02-08 10:17:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so last year I moved back to a place that I lived in before, and I started to hang out with my same best friend from 4 years ago again. But his friends he introduced me to are mean *** holes. And the best friend isnt the same as i remember either. I know I should just leave them, but in high school, its alot harder to just move to a different group of friends, any advice ?

2007-02-08 10:17:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend of seven years( who happened to be a man) or your fiance?
Say there was a problem between them, that couldn't be solved.What would you do?

2007-02-08 10:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Friends

2007-02-08 10:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by ****LA LA**** 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a commited relationship for ten years, and recently got engaged. Lately I've found myself more and more attracted to a woman who works for me. I can't seem to stop thinking about her, what am I supposed to do? And am I just looking for a change from what I'm used to??

2007-02-08 10:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by TeneKora 1 in Marriage & Divorce