are men actually the more romantic of the sexes???

Question

im starting to think they are...i think men are probably more romantic than we give them credit for...ladies just often demand too much and expect too much and dont allow them the space to be the romantic fellows they are...in their own way....

so put you money where your mouth is...are men or women the more romantic sex???...prove it...have fun...;0)





she...loves stirring it up a little every once in a while...;0)

Answer 1

Women are confused ... most know nothing about romance...

They do know a lot more about BEING ROMANCED than men do, hence their massive expectations...

..but because society tells you that you are special.. and deserve to be romanced ...doesn't necessarily mean you know anything about it ..


Its not like the movies ladies... just because you want your guy to be more romantic ... doesn't make you romantic... it makes you a moaner ;-))


DR BAd
Doesn't romance the stone's ... and doesn't do double standards .. and loves stirring it up too

Answer 2

Well to start off, I'm a hopeless romantic myself so being with a man that is romantic is fine with me.But in most cases what some men find romantic is not always the case. Like when they say hey let's go fool around, women want the chase, they want the dinner ,the candles ,the music etc. Most men find that to be to much work, specially if they feel that they did all that to get you in the first place.I won't say some men are not romantic, cause I'm quite sure there are plenty. But realistically women are the more romantic ones. We are the ones that find the little things and make them special. We try and keep things interesting in our relationships. We will cook a nice dinner, when he gets home from work, sit on the sofa with him and cuddle while he watches TV and sometimes that's romantic enough for us,and during the commercials we may sneak a kiss in or a rub on the shoulders etc. There are all kinds of ways women find to be romantic, holding hands while your walking down the street,hugging up together and sharing popcorn at the movies.Women love the security that romance provides, that's why I say we are the most romantic. Think about it.

Answer 3

I think it depends. There are some men who are very romantic, some who are not. But it is also the same for women. I think typically society sees women as more romantic, yet more often than not men are the ones doing those romantic things that women want. Now how could they do that if they are not at least somewhat romantic themselves? Personally I think men who are romantic are great :)

Answer 4

You make a GREAT point about women being more demanding. Because of this "trate" women end up becoming bitter every time their man doesn't do what she expects.
I do think that women are more interested in "romance" than men (I think men are generally more interested in the dirty dirty) BUT they don't ever take action and create the romance. If you want a romantic dinner out, make reservations and ask your guy. Guys are so willing to do what makes us happy so why not make it easy and tell them what we want?
GREAT QUESTION by the way ;)

Answer 5

I'm just sitting here listening to Paolo Nutini which has put me in the right sort of mood!!
I think that very sadly it has become like a tradition or custom that the man takes the active role in romance. This is a shame really as women usually have a better imagination in many ways.
I have seen numerous girls/women on here asking what they should get for their partners too. This means they are looking for something a little bit different or unusual.
A thought tho, wasn't it a woman who thought it a good idea to conceal herself in a carpet and be offered as a gift inside??!!
sadly as things stand, I would probably settle for the carpet, this one needs relacing!!LOL!!
THAT is the romanticism of a lot of women. It is the mystery of a whisper or promise of something more. methinks.

good night
xxxx

Answer 6

I believe men are in general, the worlds greatest poets were men. But my hubby doesn't have a romantic bone in his body. No matter what I let him do on his own, in his own way. I give him credit for trying but no go on the romance meter. I am totally the romantic one in our relationship.

Answer 7

I think both women and men are equally romantic but men seem to show it more and do the romantic things, where women demand it andexpect it to be done to them. Women do think about romance more than men in my opinion but men are more forward in doing it where women dont really do it alot

Answer 8

REAL romance is about devotion ... flying in the face of reason!!

It's about doing something stupid, dangerous, humiliating, degrading or generally random in order to prove one's love for the other person.

This can be the serenade (even when you can't sing), the unexpected gift, the uncharacteristic sacrifice..

.. I once took my exhausted ex-girlfriend 2 glasses of water and her toothbrush and toothpaste to where she laid, because she had mentioned that she wished she could brush her teeth...

.. she said that was romantic... but I just wanted her to be comfortable and happy ...

.. I think it is all about putting the other person before yourself - whatever the cost... and in a situation which is not "everyday".

... forget flowers, meals and chocolates .. just stop and think of the craziest thing that will make your partner happy at any given time, and do it.....

.. that's romance.... and guys tend to be more willing to do that. .. but that's because of cultural condtioning .. . it's not biological....

..let's all try to be more romantic!!

Answer 9

My b/f is a lot more romantic than me...so I definitely agree with you! They come up with the sweetest ideas...though sometimes a little off-the-wall.

Women seem to have a more prescribed romance: flowers, chocolate, etc.

Answer 10

adult adult males get aroused lots quicker then women individuals and on occasion have a authentic no longer worry-free time information that ladies individuals could be "warmed up". i be attentive to it took me a while to attain the girls choose lots of cuddling and foreplay! taking a tub jointly or changing a sensual rubdown could help. something this is attractive for the two one in each and every of you, yet does not incorporate "getting horizontal". as quickly as carriers, you're all executed. ;-) as far as going south, adult adult males are extremely seen and on occasion could be "wacked over the pinnacle" to get it. Make his well-liked drink, stand in front of the refrigerator with purely a tank suitable on, and positioned on some mushy p0rn. whilst the dude is going down on the lady say, "do this!!" form of a coaching type, be attentive to what I advise? additionally, for the time of intercourse leave the lighting fixtures furniture on; many adult adult males choose to work out what's happening. Whew, I gotta get residing house to my spouse... ;-)