A friend of seven years( who happened to be a man) or your fiance?
Say there was a problem between them, that couldn't be solved.What would you do?
2007-02-08 10:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I neeed to add details here you are getting it wrong I don't want to be involved with my friend! My fiance just doesn't like him.
2007-02-08 10:23:46 · update #1
I would follow my heart and not my head in this matter. It is important to remember that feelings of the heart over-ride all other feelings and common sense sometimes dictates actions. If I loved my fiance and knew that he or she meant the world to me and I had a friend of 7 years who was at odds with my fiance, the first thing I would do is to find out why the feelings are so different. If it was because of me then I would ask each one their stance on the issue. The one I felt had my best interest at heart would be the one I would side with in the matter. Again, my decision would be based on my feelings for that particular individual and the actions to date. I hope you understand what I am saying to you. Think about it.
2007-02-08 10:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd use the fiance for the money, and do the friend on the sideline. HAHAHAH jk, sry. Well, since u already have a fiance, wouldnt u go for him? i mean, u r engaged, so basically its a mutual relationship that u agreed to. Y would u want to go for a friend of 7 years? the keyword here is friend. u dont know if he would like u more than as a friend, even if uve known him for 7 years. The fiance is the best bet in my opinion.
2007-02-08 18:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how happy you are with your fiance. I always say choose the friend before the boyfriend, but in this case the friend is a man and would you be happy if your fiance chose his female friend over you? If you think you could spend the rest of your life with this man, honestly, then I think you should choose your fiance. It's easier to find friends than it is to find your soul mate. Good luck!
2007-02-08 18:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's no way that you can solve the problem between them, but i don't think that you should give up either of them and keep your friend as a friend and your fiance as a fiance and future husband of course
2007-02-08 18:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance. I'm marrying my future other half who I'll spend the rest of my life with and probably have children with. I'm not marrying my friend. I won't say that it sucks to have to do that though. No way around it huh. Emily, Rachel and Ross anyone?
2007-02-08 18:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Michaela 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not in the age to tell u but i would go for ya heart tells u the one u really connet wit talk to u as a lover and a friend at the same time
2007-02-08 18:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by ****LA LA**** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what the fiance's problem is.
although if he really cared about you, he wouldn't try to get you to leave your friends! it's not as though he's an ex-boyfriend.
but then, you're going to do what you want anyway...
2007-02-09 04:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's a problem between you guys than try to find a guy that loves you. Just don't chase after him.
2007-02-08 18:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you already chose Sher.
2007-02-08 19:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by partygirlcass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friend 4 seven years. maybe he is ur true man.it really demends on how they treat u. but remeber its not about the money. i hope this helps u.
2007-02-08 18:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Blonde Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋