now hes saying he changed but i am not buying it, Is there any way I can search multiple sights for a member name or do i have to log into each sight i find that i think he may use.. also i think he signed up a diffrent email account , is there a way to find out..
2007-02-08 10:22:02 · 20 answers · asked by im_the_1uwant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was on sexsearch.com thats not just a reguler porn sight. i could care less if he was on a reguler porn sight. but sexsearch is u search for sex
2007-02-08 14:14:35 · update #1
You can easily go through the history of the web browser and see what sites he has been to. It is kind of hard to track the email address. However if you computer remembers login you go the site and see what user names he is using. They will just pop up. You can test this by entering every letter of the alphabit to see what comes up. What kind of sites are they? If they are just adult video sights I say cut him some slack. We all like to fantasies. We all like intimate time alone too. I think pronograhpic materials can be healthy if not abused. Have you every thought of looking at them together? My ex and I did that and it really helped us. It took some of the edge off of what we trying to do and spiced things up a little bit. Rather than sneaking behind his back, and accusing him, talk to him about what he is doing and looking it. It will have a much better outcome for you. Trust me! Nobody likes a snoop and no one likes to be accused, find a way to talk to your man.
2007-02-08 10:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your upset. People view cheating in diffrent aspects..you see porn as cheating and he may not. Men will be men and straight men like looking at women. It does not mean he will be looking for contact info on these girls in the porno pics.
If you really think that there is more to it..like him surfing single sites then check the history. This will tell you where he has been and what he has looked at. I do not think that this is right because you need to trust him if you want this to work. Good luck!
2007-02-08 10:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off all some sites like internet explorer will save the site he's been on so you can scroll and find it second of all if he changed his e-mail then that means he doesn't trust you and he has a problem i wouldn't advise you to search his wallet and stuff but you can search messenger or aol or yahoo for a previously signed in user may be you could get some answers then ok good luck!!! but i don't stress my guy becuz he's on an adult site it just goes to show that he's normal.
2007-02-08 10:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Baby_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time child unplug the computer, or just block all adult sights there are ways to do this talk to your local computer analyst they can hook u up with what to do next. You can also tell him that you dont trust on the pc therefore he is no longer aloud acess , put a login on your pc so he cannot access while you are not around
2007-02-08 10:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's a way to find out without even knowing his password ,.. account name, number ..etc.
if you can go to his computer...
go to the history of your pc....
to the cookies...
and it'll show you there what sites he's been on..
BUT what's wrong with him going on adult sights?... You should give him a bit of space.. you don't want him to run off? do you?...
They're men,.. That isn't consider cheatting... they're only having ..what they call 'fun' ....
but well,.. we're all different and think differently... so I guess if you don't like it.. he as well has to respect that.. and try to change...
2007-02-08 10:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you say you caught him on an adult site, do you mean that he was a performer on the site?? Or did you just mean he was looking at the site?
If he was just looking at the site, then why do you care? I mean, unless he'd rather look at porn rather than MAKING his own porn with you...then I'd be concerned.
Well, anyway, good luck.
2007-02-08 10:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by allthree 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I disagree with some of these people. PORN is TRASH and anyone who views it is sinful. It is the same in GOD's Eyes as having sex with them. Young lady, If you have this much doubt in him then you certainly must have a problem with him. I never lied to my girlfriend. She was always too important to me for that. I married that cute little girl and I still love her more than anyone on this earth! If he is prone to lying then he will always do so. Find a man that you can trust and spend your life with. GOD would expect that of you and I would too. I hope that this helps. Have a great evening.
Eds (Christian)
2007-02-08 10:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I personally, don't have a problem with guys and "adult sites". I would rather have my man relieving his "manliness" on himself than have him try to relieve it on me when I am not in the mood.
However, I don't know the answer to your question. But think about it in his point of view. Maybe he's just trying not to pressure you. But when you think about it, everyone has needs! :)
2007-02-08 11:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual. Give the poor guy the benefit of the doubt and get some outfits, ask him what kinds of things excite him. Most men like naughty nurses, french maids, ect.
2007-02-08 10:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Julia B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
most guys like porn..if he is just looking then no harm but if he is requesting or chatting with other ladies then dump him cause hes no good for you. But dont get mad if he like to look...he's human
If you know the email address..type it in the google search bar..anything with that email addy pops up
2007-02-08 10:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by myownsecretarydotcom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋