My ex and I broke up 9 months ago, after dating 4 years. He said that I didn't trust him, and he "couldn't handle it" anymore. This caught me completely off guard because we didn't have an argument or anything. Thats the last time I talked to him. We have the same mutual friends, so I know he didn't meet someone else, and hasn't since. But he hasn't called or emailed since, and I just need some closure. He never said "good-bye" or anything, it was just over. Why doesn't he miss me because I miss him like crazy!!!
2007-02-08 10:17:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to get off your @ss and go ask him. only he knows the answer. i would tell u to just get over it, but since your havin a hard time doin that u need to go to the source.
2007-02-08 10:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might miss you, darlin', you can't read his mind. The bigger problem is the way he dropped you like a hot potato. It sounds more like you have been replaced...which would also explain why he doesn't miss you. Sound mean don't I? Sorry. I know you miss him, but try not to linger there any longer than you have to. Keep your eyes out for someone knew and in the mean time, enjoy as many other things, hobbies, music, etc. that bring you pleasure. This will help cure you...promise.
2007-02-08 18:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not trying to sound mean or anything but he might of just been making up an exscuse to break up with out herting you but ther is also a possibility that he does miss you and he is just keeping it in but he will most likley eventually crack and come back but I've been wrong before.
2007-02-08 18:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should try to get over him...
there are plenty of fish on the sea,....
Get yourself a guy who deserves you ,.....
If he would of missed you he would atleast call you to say "hi" wouldn't you think so???... You have no need to be waiting for him ..even if he got no one else yet,... he might just not want to be with you... forget him!!! Find yourself someone who deserves you!!... Move On!!!..... There are so many hot guys this days... find yourself one....!!!
2007-02-08 18:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we got something in common maybe you can help me possibly me and my ex of 4 years broke up 3 months ago. if was him im probably hiding my emotions for you and maybe. i miss her like crazy and i know she misses me we left on good terms and still good friends and she still loves me but this guy thinks he can trust her with me i dont think so we can get back together. we didnt have any closure either cuz she's still in love with me. but doesnt say it like she's hiding her feels for me like he is.good luck
2007-02-08 18:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He moved on... If u miss him like crazy wont u call him up and tell him how u feel about him dont just keep your feelings bottled up because it might go badly..
2007-02-08 18:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by LiTo_OnE06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he moved on like you should.
Maybe it was over for him long before he actually broke up with you.
My ex and I don't have feelings for each other anymore and didn't at the time that we broke up because our relationship was over months before we actually broke up.
2007-02-08 18:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might miss you but might not want to get in contact with you because it could be akward. no reason for it to be tho. you should try to talk to him and act like everything is fine and he will relax some and yall can take it from there
2007-02-08 18:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by GM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is thinking exactly the same, but he wishes he never broke up with you. Try talking with him.
2007-02-08 18:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-08 18:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋